The most ordinary happiness, ordinary is a kind of happiness

At present, I often hear some people in Zhengdong complaining, saying that their lives are too ordinary and ordinary, and they are not interesting. Maybe most people's lives are really ordinary and smooth sailing, they haven't experienced any ups and downs, their lives are so ordinary and ordinary, but please don't take the ordinary as misfortune, because your ordinariness is actually a great luck.

Ordinary people, living an ordinary life, looking at the ordinary world, enjoying ordinary happiness. Maybe you envy others for calling for wind and rain in trouble, emotionally reluctant, and ...... in life, but ordinary happiness may also be what they hope for in the end. As the old saying goes:

Contentment. This is not simply about satisfying us with the status quo and living our lives. It's about letting us be able to afford to put it down after we have fought in the Fenye clan and worked hard.

In my opinion, those who are content are more able to know how to be grateful, those who are grateful can know how to live better, and how can those who love life not be happy?

I once asked repeatedly in the darkness and darkness, and I knew that plain and calm is the truth. I hope that our fireworks in the world can "have joy in ordinary places, joys, sorrows, and joys."

Teacher Yue Suling's talk about raising an ordinary and happy child has been recalling it in my mind for a long time. Being an ordinary and happy person in a peaceful country is a beautiful dream, and it is very likely to be realized.

1.First of all, the premise of a middle school is ordinary, ordinary is the foundation, and everything is built on the base of ordinary. Life is the tone of the ordinary.

2.If ordinary people want to be happy, they have to work hard, just like a flat boat in the sea, if they want to swing leisurely in the sea, they must master superb driving skills. Of course, through hard work, it is possible to make the ship a little bigger, but that requires more powerful capabilities.

3.Even if you work hard and feel happy, you are still an ordinary person, but whenever you swell, there is a time when the balloon is punctured and collapsed, so be content to be an ordinary person in order to obtain long-term happiness.

4.The direction of effort or how to have the ability to be happy is indeed a big topic, but what Teacher Yue Suling has refined is also simple: love, compassion, love of understanding, vitality of life, vigilance of self-grasping, bravery, and so on.

This part needs to be slowly realized and self-cultivated in the red dust.

Compassion: Compassion is to give pleasure, and compassion is to cultivate suffering. (from Shadow of Bavofa).

A parting hug, although it is indifferent tears, but this is what happiness, because happiness is simple and ordinary. the joy of meeting new people, smiling; the comfort of relatives and friends when they cry sadly; A family, in the sunset and dusk, walk together by the sea; When your home is in trouble, someone you've never met helps you get out; Holding hands with partners to enjoy the sunset on the sea, returning to the embrace of the sea little by little, the warmth in my heart arises spontaneously, this is happiness, ordinary and simple, fresh and elegant.

Happiness is so simple, simple makes you feel incredible, after experiencing separation, I want to get together again, we will all collect with our hearts, with love to understand, it is impossible for two people to have no friction, it cannot always be smooth sailing, we must learn to tolerate, only tolerate the mistakes of others, will make ourselves happier.

Happiness is like a beautiful flower, when it is the most beautiful and dazzling, we can feel the pride it brings us, the flower can give us the brightest smile, why don't we share the beauty, enjoy the simple beauty, it is also a kind of happiness.

Whether it is with relatives, lovers or friends, we all know clearly that family, friendship, love is the greatest wealth in a person's life, without the care and love of relatives, without the love of lovers, without the sincerity of love between friends, how do we experience the existence of love, these are happiness.

Happiness is the most dazzling red star in life, it always exists around us, we can only feel with love, with our hearts to operate, it will always shine.

Happiness is simple, it does not carry any impurities, as long as you have a kind heart, you will always feel its presence.

The happiness positioning in everyone's heart is different, but at any time, anywhere, as long as you accidentally see a ray of sunshine and smell a trace of fragrance, you can ripple a happy person in your heart is the simplest and happiest person, happiness is the real and bright smiling face without any decoration and disguise under the sun, this time is the happiest.

Happiness is actually all around us, simple happiness, ordinary happiness, having an attitude of gratitude, feeling the taste of happiness. In fact, ordinary is a kind of happiness, money can buy material, but it can't buy happiness, happiness needs us to experience it with our hearts! The above content is organized by 365 quotation lines**, if you want to get more such life insights, please continue to pay attention:

Wake up every day and find that you can still wake up, full of energy and energy; Forget your worries and sorrows, and be happy to do what you love and want to do. There are people who love and love you deeply, a few bosom friends, lovely angelic children, and a warm home, and a full sense of happiness overflows in your heart. Although it is plain, it is like a pool of clear lake water, clear but profound, she interprets the true meaning of life, she tells us that there is a kind of happiness called ordinary, and there is a kind of ordinary is the truest.

Only when you lose can you know how to cherish, only when you know how to let go, only when you experience can you experience the preciousness of happiness, and only when you are injured can you learn to look down and choose to be strong; Only by seeing through can we learn to choose to go with the flow and deal with ...... calmlyThere are too many helplessness and unwillingness in life, only fearless and calm to treat, do not suffer from gains and losses, do not feel sorry for themselves, belong to themselves, get, natural joy, go all out even if you fail, you can also choose to enjoy the process and gain life experience in the morning, and no longer be harsh and difficult for yourself, take life as a journey and an experience, a kind of taste chain, spend every day of your own, and calmly face all the happiness and sorrow, Only by having a peaceful state of mind and calm normalcy every day can we grasp the details of life, be moved by the happiness brought by life, and find the most ordinary happiness.

That day, I heard that my relative's son had been in a car accident and was in critical condition, and I couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion. The younger brother who works in the operating room said: "Sister, we are used to seeing life and death every day, and we must learn to cherish the present."

I couldn't help but tremble in my heart, yes, I had experienced the death of my dearest relatives, saw the strong desire to survive in the pain of illness and the strength and unyielding resistance to fate, and cried uncontrollably more than once, begging God to exchange the life of the person I love the most, but in the end everything was irretrievable......If even living well has become a luxury, why should the living not cherish life and be grateful for all that God has given them? Seeing the occurrence of disasters on TV broadcasts every day, some children even eat a pack of instant noodles for their birthdays is a rare happiness, and they feel how much happiness is contained in ordinary life.

When I was with my husband, eating dinner, talking and eating warmly, when I finished my homework with my children, laughed happily together when I played games together, when I listened to my favorite songs and watched my favorite programs on the computer, my thoughts danced lightly with my mood, when my mother called ** and let us go home for dinner together, when I went home with my sister and them on the weekend to accompany the lonely old man; When you wear whatever you want, say whatever you want, and do whatever you want, when you fall asleep happily every day, and wake up in happiness the next day, you .......I felt that I was a happy woman. Ordinary, but happy.

I love nature, the nature of the will, the natural ....... of humanity

Yesterday I bought a fried noodles downstairs in the dormitory, which is a stall set up by a young couple. Stir-fried sedan chair noodles, fried rice cakes, fried river dry noodles are my favorites, and the taste of the fried yesterday is also good. I was the first customer to visit, and they were just starting to get nervous, and when I asked for a fried mein, they started to work in full swing and coordinated.

I stood aside and waited quietly. It was a bit windy, and when the husband hit **, the small flame leaned towards the wife on the left, and the husband instinctively stepped forward to block his wife, and said something like a joke, although nothing dangerous happened, I was still moved to see their husband and wife in love with each other, I think they must be very happy! Although they may be very hard every day, they may worry about money, and they may live a frugal life, but their lives must be very full and happy, which is ordinary happiness, ordinary happiness.

I will also be moved by such happiness, sometimes I feel very lonely, my eyes are hot but no tears come out, sometimes I am quietly in a daze, but I don't know what I am thinking and why I live? Little happiness? What will my little happiness look like?

The ancients said: Men are sad in autumn, and women are sad in spring. It's not spring, but I'm sad because I'm lost

Yesterday, in the article pushed by Luo Ji Siwei, I talked about Flaubert, who wrote "Madame Bovary", and he said a word. He said, "What is happiness?" Happiness is stupidity, selfishness, and health.

Here's how he explains: If a person is stupid, he doesn't have so many issues to think about. If a person is selfish and lucky, he will not have so many interests and positions to take care of.

If a person is healthy, there is not so much physical pain to endure. Then the physical and mental burden of this person is indeed the smallest. You can't look down on this kind of low-level happiness that has no heart and lungs, and you can sleep when you are full, after all, in this world where power, wealth, and knowledge are distributed in a power law, this is indeed the mediocre happiness of most people.

In turn, it reminds us that the process of a person going from stupidity to wisdom, from selfishness to nobility, is not at all comfortable, and even a huge burden on body and mind.

If you think about it at a deeper level, it's really a question of whether the ability and goal are matched. If you don't have enough ability and set too high goals, you will end up with anxiety, pain, and trouble. If virtue is not worthy, it will suffer disaster.

What is not sustainable is not sustainable after all. Charlie Munger said: The safest way to get a good thing is to make yourself worthy of it first.

You don't have to lament the opportunity, but ask, when the opportunity comes, can you really take it?

Coincidentally, in reading "My 1000 Days in Country Garden", there is a regional president who is on the front line of the project: do any kind of work, don't worry about whether you can make money, but learn to make yourself worthy. No industry is easy to make money.

Before you make money, you can earn knowledge, experience, experience and other resources. All of the above have been earned, and slowly the hall can make money. Only by changing your attitude can you change the height of your life.

Don't let you think too much and do too little at the age when you should be fighting.

Wang Dingding put forward five questions in life in "Basic Questions in the History of Thought": Who are you? What can you do as a friend?

Who are you doing it for? Will anyone else want you to do it for him? Will the people who need it improve and society better because of your actions?

The clearer the problem is, the more you understand how to match your abilities and goals, the stronger your wealth ability will be, and the happier you will be.

As for what is happiness? It is a multi-dimensional, subjective problem. Stupid or smart?

Selfish or noble? You have to make your own decisions and draw clear dividing lines. Economics tells us that every choice must have a price and a cost.

It doesn't matter what I want to choose, what matters is the opportunity cost that comes after choosing, can you accept it calmly?

Either way, at least to be clear, the world is still reasonable to a certain extent.