Your kids, do you really know?

One day when I was a child, the weather was sunny that day. I'm in a good mood because my mom is going to take me to buy new clothes today. Just then, my mother came to me and said:

Girl, I'm sorry not to ignite, my mother can't accompany you to buy clothes today. I'll give you two options, either buy it tomorrow or buy it yourself. "I thought about it and said:

It's not difficult to buy clothes, guess I'll go by myself! ”

I walked down the street, feeling the 100 yuan in my pocket, and walked nervously. Even though the owner of each shop was smiling, I didn't dare to go in at the thought of myself. But I still wanted to wear new clothes, so I decided to go into a store and try it out.

I felt that the owner of this store was very friendly, so I started to choose clothes at this store. I looked at the style of this dress, and felt the material of the dress, and finally chose a white dress that I liked. So, I began to bargain with the boss, and after talking for a long time, the boss gave me 10 yuan cheaper.

But I liked this dress so much that I bought it ruthlessly.

On the way home, I sang happily. It's the first time I've bought my own clothes and it's a great feeling! At this moment, a young lady came up to me, she was wearing exactly the same dress as the one I had just bought, and I asked

Sister, how much did you buy a mori-type skirt? My sister said, "I heard my mother say that I bought it for 45 yuan."

I was stunned when I heard it, my little sister and I had the same brand. But I spent half the money more than her, and I went home angry.

When I got home, I said to my mom, "Mom, I'm fooled. The clothes I bought were 90 yuan, and others bought them for 45 yuan.

Why lie to me, I'm so sad! It's really unseemly, I look at the boss and is very kind! My mother comforted me and said

The child is fine, it is normal to be fooled when buying something for the first time, and the next time you pay attention, you will have experience! ”

I was deeply impressed by the first time I bought clothes, and the biggest feeling was that I learned that I can't just look at people by their appearance.

We are often told by others, "You know your child best." "I've had that experience too, and my first reaction at that moment was: Do I really know my child?

In a way, your child spends most of his life with you from the moment he arrives, so we know our child better than anyone else.

But whether it's when we were young, or our own children now, we've all had it: Mom and Dad didn't understand my thoughts at all.

What makes a child think like this? It is because we ignore the inner needs of our children, and always think that to meet our children's needs materially is to love our children.

Some fathers and mothers are too busy with work to take care of their children, and blindly ask their children to learn and adapt.

But I never thought about what kind of content I could give my children to learn when they were learning and growing, how much money they would learn, and what kind of environment and what state of teachers they would choose to teach these contents.

When you ignore all these things that are closely related to your child's learning and growth, do you really know your child?

No matter how busy you are at work, take a few minutes out of your day to spend a few minutes with your children productively. Communicate with your child so that the door to your child's heart will open for you at any time.