What do you live for? How to deal with your child s adolescent rebellion

People are alive, the most interesting! If you think about it and taste it slowly, you will feel that it is good to be alive! Even if it's bad, you can think about it:

I'm still alive, I've been through this, what will happen to me, and what will happen in the future! Then blissful breathing. Looking up at the blue sky, you can close your eyes, you can open your eyes!

At the same time, we still have our own goals, no matter what, as time grows, we will know more and more, understand, perceive, will find that it is very magical, and we know how to cherish it.

The second question: This phenomenon is normal, if you want to do what you like, you have to tie the bell to the bell! Follow him, girl's words, there shouldn't be much rebellion, if the temper is too bad, or ask yourself, when you were a child, you used to it, hehe.

In fact, many times parents say more, the children will be upset, parents are very worried about the arrival of the youth rebellious period, in fact, the children are just tossing and turning in the past, the children also have a heart, let him go by himself, just wait for it, mention it at the right time, don't nag all the time. When he comes to tell you about his sadness and troubles, what parents have to do is to appear in front of their children with a peaceful image.

For life, self and family.

Be patient and preachy, and one day you will understand.

You should observe him more, find his knots, and communicate with him well.

For your own happiness, communicate more

For their own children, family.

Isn't it to live to survive?

Children rebel mostly because they feel that their ideas are right, then parents should communicate sentence by sentence, let the children express their inner desires, and then parents in the appropriate affirmation of them and modify their ideas, and then put forward their own mature views, children feel that parents are good for them, and right.

In my opinion, parents should have a certain sense of humor, or have some desire to adjust life, talk to their children not always about learning, grades and these topics, you ask him what is delicious at the school gate, where do you want to play during the holidays, or tease him, joke, I think most children are very happy, that is, it is not necessary to make him feel that there is an obvious gap between parents, you are people who live in two worlds, but don't care too much about his life, hobbies, to give a little empty hail to bury.

Parents should compare their hearts with their children, and the relationship between them will be harmonious, and the children will not have a rebellious mentalityWhen the father and Zheng Yu's mother discipline the child, they should seek the opinions of others and make their thoughts more open.

When children have rebellious and rebellious psychology and behavior, if parents do not guide them correctly, it will also lead to problems such as suspiciousness, family indifference, and paranoia. Further development will cause the child to switch to bone tracing and then go to the extreme. The rebellious psychological state will also lead to children's dissatisfaction with their parents, and the result is still torturing themselves, and it is a kind of damage to their parents.

We must first understand the reasons for the formation of the hidden psychological state of the child during puberty, and the psychological counseling experts divide the influencing factors that produce the child's rebellious psychological state into two categories.

In the final analysis, the subjective factors mean that every person will have a more or less rebellious situation when they reach puberty, and their neurological functions are becoming more and more developed, and their logical thinking ability is becoming stronger and stronger, but due to the lack of experience, cognitive ability, etc., they can not recognize the cultural and educational logical thinking of their parents.

1. The restriction of poor conditions at home is usually the bad education method of parents, such as simple and direct or commanding sentences of parents, or too strict regulations and high expectations for all aspects of children.

2. Under the influence of the poor factors of children of the same age, they recognize each other and infect each other.

3. Children's desire to explore and curiosity can not satisfy me, they are full of curiosity about the outside, and then many parents do not understand their children's behavior, showing coldness, good concealment or forced dissuasion of children's behavior, and even punishment, etc., so that children feel depressed, so they use resistance to reply to parents.

After seeing the reasons for the formation of children's rebellious psychological state, in addition to avoiding various problems, it is more important to deal with it when the child has a rebellious psychological state.

1. Choose the empathy dredging method.

2. Try to communicate deeply with your child.

3. Always reflect on your own teaching style.

Understand your child more, it may be caused by encountering something unpleasant and feeling that your parents are in charge of him everywhere.

When encountering the question of Nian Yanshen, you should be cautious and communicate with the child, do not deceive the child, and be sure to understand the child's inner thoughts; Because parents usually do not communicate well with their children, and do not care about the feelings of their children, there will be a phenomenon of rebellion.

Adolescent children have anti-sock mentality, parents should accompany their children more, communicate more with their children, and children's rebellious psychology is caused by parents' lack of care for their children.

1.Communication: Children who belong to the rebellious period may have confrontation with their parents, at this time parents need to communicate and communicate with their children, and pay attention to the calm tone, understand the children's own needs, and listen to the children's opinions.

2.Correct guidance: After clarifying the child's needs and opinions, if you feel that the child's opinions are more reasonable, you can help the child realize his ideas. If your child's opinions or needs are unreasonable, you need to reason with your child and make them clear about the seriousness of the matter.

The rebellious period of children is a necessary stage of growth and development, parents need to strictly control their emotions, do not often lose their temper with their children, otherwise it may lead to a more serious degree of rebellion. In addition, it is also necessary to communicate and communicate with teachers in a timely manner to clarify the child's performance in school, which can help the child through the rebellious period.

In the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the love of parents is only expressed in different types, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.

Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts.

Later, when we went to high school or went to college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection. So now when we look back on the mistakes we've made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we want to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it. In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along.

All the love in the world is not worth the love of relatives.

The world is sinister, and all love is not worth the love of family affection is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless. Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much.

Therefore, we should be kind to our parents in time and enjoy this love.