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I think Lu You may be out of a kind of helplessness, we all know that Lu You is a very famous lyricist in my country. The story of him and his cousin also makes us feel sorry, we all know that he and his cousin childhood sweetheart grew up and the two got married, the two of them are also very compatible, and the relationship between husband and wife is also very affectionate, but because Lu You's mother doesn't like his cousin, the last two people can only be forced to divorce, it is because of the discord between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that neither of them was able to succeed together in the end.
So I think Lu You is still very miserable, although he misses his cousin very much, but he still marries a wife and takes a concubine, I think this is a kind of helplessness for life, we all know that our mother doesn't like my cousin, Lu You must be embarrassed between his mother and his cousin, but we all know that ancient people were very filial, and listened to their parents, so she divorced her cousin, and finally married a wife and concubine must be out of her mother's will, I think Lu You must be in love with her cousin, but out of helplessness, she can only be forced by her mother's pressure to finally marry a wife and have children, I think it is also to cope with the feudal thinking of inheriting the family with her mother.
Although he finally accepted a concubine, I think Lu You must be in love with his cousin, otherwise he would not have written such a euphemistic and moving poem, although the relationship between the two makes us feel very sorry, but I think Lu You may have been forced by his mother's pressure to marry a wife and have children, I think this is all a trick of fate. If it weren't for the trick of fate, I think he and his cousin would definitely be able to live happily together, and the lives of the two of them might get better and better.
But due to the trick of fate, the two people can't be together, although the two people finally got married, but I think the two people must still have a liking for each other in their hearts, and they must have feelings for each other, and the feelings of the two people must be very deep, otherwise his cousin would not end up depressed because of reading the poem.
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Haitou Feng is so sincere, but Lu You later married a wife and took a concubine, because Lu You is a man, he is different from women, and men will continue to be descendants after all.
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"Hairpin Phoenix" is so sincere, but Lu You married a wife and took a concubine because his emotions are more extensive, and people are a more amorous species.
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No matter how sincere the feelings are, there is nothing to be done when a person dies. Lu You is also a human being, if he is a human being, he will have seven emotions and six desires, and his remarrying a wife and concubine does not conflict with his sincerity in "Hairpin Phoenix".
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Because men's hearts are always fickle, sadness is only temporary, and when time passes, men will go to find a new spring.
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The friendship between the two of them is very good, but they can't help the family, and the family wants him to marry someone else, and Lu You can't do it.
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Answer]: Written in Shen Yuan, Song Gaozong Shaoxing 14 Song Lao Yan Lu You married his cousin Tang Wan as his wife, the couple was very affectionate, and his parents were afraid that their son would be in the boudoir, lazy and abandoning his studies, hindering his career, and taking him to divorce. Song Gaozong Shaoxing twenty-five years, the two met in Shen Garden, full of emotion, the title of this wild sedan chair on the garden wall.
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