In college, a poor boy can t fall in love

College is just right for a poor boy to fall in love, and she has money from her parents. You have to wait until you graduate to talk about money, and it will be difficult to find a girlfriend at that time.

Many poor kids in college have ambitions.

has the heart to study hard, and the grades are not bad.

Why not wait until you graduate later, have a good job, have your own career, and fall in love when you have money.

Were you still afraid of that?

Let's learn, there is no money ** to romance.

Then wait, don't love.

She really loves you, would she mind that?

Falling in love is a beautiful thing, but there are always a lot of problems along the way. Even if the two have a good relationship, most parents on both sides will object because of the family conditions. This kind of plot is very common in idol dramas.

What is it like to fall in love with a poor boy in real life?

The family is against it. Girls rarely consider these external factors when confronted with emotions. As long as the other party is sincere to himself, it doesn't matter if he has money or not. After all, two people can work together, but after being together for a long time, they will encounter some problems, especially opposition from their families.

Spiritual love. Some girls are confident, so they don't care if the boy has money or not. Because they are very independent and can earn money, they don't need a man's ticket to worry about living conditions. Therefore, after putting aside the material, they consider this spiritual love to be very beautiful.

Quality of life. The most obvious is the decline in quality of life. Sometimes, the girls may eat and watch movies, and they need to pay the bills. Also, it doesn't hurt to spend money on yourself when you're single, but they have to calculate before they dare to spend money on tickets.

However, as long as a man's ticket is self-motivated and willing to work hard, life will get better and better.

Falling in love is a very beautiful thing, but there will always be a lot of problems in the process, even if the relationship between the two is very good, most of the parents on both sides will oppose it because of family conditions, this kind of plot is very common in idol dramas, so what is the experience of falling in love with a very poor boy in real life?

Don't fall in love with a "very poor" boy, netizens: The content is too real and piercing!

The family is against it. Girls rarely consider these external factors when facing feelings, as long as the other party treats themselves sincerely, it doesn't matter whether he has money or not, after all, two people can work together, but they will encounter some problems after being together for a long time, especially against the family.

Spiritual love. Some girls are very confident, so they don't care whether the boy is rich or not, because they are very independent and good at making money, so they don't need a male ticket to worry about the living conditions, so after putting aside the material, they feel that this kind of spiritual love is very beautiful.

Quality of life. The most obvious is that the quality of life has declined, sometimes you may have a meal and watch a movie, and you still need girls to pay, and you don't feel sorry for spending money on yourself when you are single, but you have to calculate it before you dare to spend money after you have a male ticket, but as long as the male ticket is self-motivated and willing to work hard, life will definitely get better and better.

Try not to fall in love with a very poor boy in college, because this boy is so poor and doesn't want to study to make money, and he wants to fall in love, which is not good.

Hello! You are young and old, wait for graduation to work hard, bear hardships and stand hard work, change yourself, wait for yourself to achieve something, if she is not married, you look for her again, just to see if there is fate, if it is yours or yours, not yours no matter how you pursue it will leave. There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south!

At this time, you must have a certain amount of self-confidence, and at the same time improve yourself to improve your life, which is the most important thing.

Your statement is not right, poor students also have the right to fall in love, after all, boys actually rely on the money given by their parents to live and study when they are studying, and his money is the same as that of girls, so girls should not think about how to spend their boyfriend's money.

I think you really think too much, if you like someone, you should be brave and bold to try and pursue the other person, even if the other party rejects you, there is nothing to regret, after all, you have worked hard, in addition, you should be confident.

Don't fall in love with poor boys in college, this statement is extremely incorrect. When you fall in love in college, you need to find a boy with good character and development potential, who is aggressive, optimistic about life, and caring. What's the use of just having money, poverty is not terrible.

Life is all about creating wealth and creating opportunities.

It must not be said that the poor are not poor, and the older generation is also from nothing to the current achievements, so it cannot be understood in such a one-sided way, is it because the family is poor, do you not marry a wife and have children, poverty is only temporary, since you go to college, you must have a chance to turn over,

This point of view is incorrect, if you like a person, why should you care about his poverty, what you care about should be his positive quality, there is no money to be made, but the quality of the person is the most important. When you fall in love, you should avoid being nice to him just right and pay attention to his psychology.

In fact, it doesn't matter if the boy is poor, as long as he is self-motivated, if the boy is not self-motivated, you don't need to be with him.

This situation is not right, love should be sincere, not based on money, poor boys are more motivated.

Since the family situation is not good, it is necessary to make the family situation better through their own efforts Because most girls will choose to maintain their emotions after seeing that the family situation is about the same.

I can't say that, when falling in love with a boy, economic conditions are one of the most important conditions, but not the most important thing, I feel that it mainly depends on whether the boy has the potential for development and future development.

This kind of thinking is wrong, why can't poor boys fall in love? It just shows that their material conditions are relatively scarce, and it does not explain how this person is.

I agree that when you fall in love, you need to be comfortable and happy, and although poor boys will try their best to give you what they want, it will be very hard.

You're still young, so you can study a little more now, lay a good foundation, and come out in the future, and work hard.

I don't think this statement is true, it's not important that two people love each other, the important thing is to love each other.

Poverty in student days is original, as long as people are poor and not poor.

Sometimes temporary poverty does not mean that you will be poor in the future, it mainly depends on whether you have the ambition to change all this to make your family rich.

Maybe college love needs an economic foundation, just a festival or something to give a girl a surprise and flowers.

The saying that you should never fall in love with a poor boy in college is something that some people agree with and some people disagree with.

Regardless of whether you are poor or not, I personally feel that you should not fall in love during college. There are the following reasons:

1.College students falling in love can do more harm than good. College students should not fall in love, and the main task of college students is to study.

The cost comes almost entirely from the parents and is mainly used for food. And falling in love will inevitably add additional expenses. This is something that universities cannot afford; In addition, many students are not psychologically mature and stable enough, and they cannot grasp the problem of falling in love, so it may have a negative impact on their own learning and life and even society."

College students in the study stage, the main energy should be on learning, to strive to train themselves to become the best person, not blind love, not in a hurry to fall in love, if the main focus is on how to fall in love, love for the sake of love, this will outweigh the losses.

2.In college, especially in the early days, we believe that our feelings are not very mature.

Is it really all about that kind of love? Therefore, many college relationships are immature.

The main purpose of our college is to study, of course, some schools no longer set up obstacles to love or even marriage, but this does not mean that the benefits of falling in love outweigh the disadvantages.

Two people in love, the first time will definitely have to sacrifice each other, I don't believe that two people can be consistent when doing anything, if so, then these two people will definitely not be able to live together; Second, love needs to be irrigated and cultivated, which requires two people to think about each other, which will definitely distract part of their energy; Third, when two people fall in love, they will definitely spend less time with everyone than most of their classmates, and many opportunities to exercise their abilities will be lost.

Of course, there are definitely pros and cons to falling in love in reality, and there may be psychological encouragement, hints, etc., but on the whole, on the whole, there are still relatively few people who can handle the mutual relationship well in love, why is the success rate of college love so low? That's why!

3.What to do if you fail in love?

One. Our psychology is not yet mature, are you sure you can afford to fail? And, is failure just failure?

After failure, we will not be able to come out of the shadows for a long time, and some people will never be able to walk out again. Look at the various manifestations of lovelorn people, can't we avoid this kind of thing?

Two. How can love not affect learning? Of course, if you don't study at all, that's a different story.

You're going to spend most of your time with your lover in your normal time before you fall in love, what time is **? And to spare a lot of energy to think about your dear, those energy ** come? There is no person who is in love who does not quarrel, how will you feel at that time?

Can you study in that mood?

Thank you if you can (.)

Everyone is equal in front of love, maybe I can't say that pure love doesn't need a material foundation, but if your other half is worthy of your care, then she should and will have the obligation to love you, then that is to say, there is no rich happiness that is not rich, people in the back seat of the bicycle are not necessarily unhappy, and those who sit in a BMW are not necessarily as romantic as imagined, love needs a material foundation, but if you work together, the material foundation will be more solid than if you don't struggle, you have to believe this.

Poor? To what extent? Why do you still say that you are poor when you are in college?

I think you have a problem of mentality, don't feel that you are poor, the so-called poor people are not short-sighted. You can go to work to earn money or something, it will be more tiring, but it is also a good experience.

I think it's better to have a certain financial strength when talking about girlfriends, no matter what, it costs money to go out and play and buy gifts, right? You don't have to be in such a hurry, just enjoy your single life first. Work hard to improve your gold content for a better girlfriend

OK.. As long as I understand you. Supporting each other.

Yes, everyone has the right to enjoy love.

Love is the most delicate and fair thing in the world. When I just graduated from college, I had nothing except my education, and my monthly salary was only enough for daily expenses, at this time I fell in love with my colleague, she was sweet and kind, in order to be able to pursue her qualifications, I worked hard overtime, worked hard, and became the company's department manager in a year, and was young and promising in the company, and it took a year to chase her into hand, and it was strange why no one chased such an excellent girl? Later, I found out that she was the daughter of the CEO of our company.

Money is not a big factor restricting love, everyone has the right to fall in love, not only rich people can enjoy love, poor boys may be a little small in money, as long as you both have feelings, money is not a big problem, plus money is only a temporary difficulty, you can create wealth with your hands.

Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds. Being poor is not a criterion for distinguishing what you can and can't do, and a poor boy can fall in love. When falling in love, many excellent girls do not value the economic background of boys, they often value whether boys are self-motivated and responsible, so poor boys should not be inferior, but should strive for self-improvement, work hard, gradually improve their inner quality, improve their self-cultivation, and you will have perfect love.

Of course.

Personally, I think that love still depends on character, three views, poor or rich, and is not a decisive factor.

If you really like someone, really be good to her, treat her as the whole world, as the only one, she will be moved by you.

The most important thing is that you can be poor, but you can't be ambitious and self-motivated, then no girl will really like you. Many self-made successful people, they also used to be poor, but they also have lovers who have been with them since the beginning.

True love can share adversity.

Of course, you can fall in love with a lack of boys, if you meet true love, then he won't care if you have money, being poor is not terrible, what is terrible is that you are not self-motivated, poor will not be poor for a lifetime, as long as you are self-motivated, you go to struggle, to work hard, you will have everything you should have.