What should I do if my boyfriend has a tattoo on his ex girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should tell your boyfriend directly and ask him to wash off this tattoo or get another tattoo to cover it, after all, he has broken up with his ex-girlfriend, and there is no need to continue to leave the mark of his ex-girlfriend on his body.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Personally, I feel that I can wash off my boyfriend's tattoo, or I can cover this tattoo with something else, so it's okay.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At this time, you can ask your boyfriend to wash the tattoo or cover the tattoo so that you don't mind it very much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't mind, you can ask your boyfriend to wash the tattoo off.

    So don't get tattoos for each other when you're in love, because you don't know if the two of you will get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Getting a tattoo of your ex-girlfriend's name on your boyfriend is a very uncomfortable experience, after all, no one wants their significant other to have someone else's mark on it.

    Especially when a man sees a radiant, gentle and happy ex-girlfriend, for a moment, he will flash a thought, what if the person next to her is still me? We often mistakenly think that we will do better when it comes to the unknown.

    As everyone knows, if there is a if, the reason why you broke up in the first place may not be the reason, and now even if you get back together, you will encounter other contradictions. Therefore, it is better to accept it calmly, you have no fate.

    But even if both parties decided that they were not suitable for each other and broke up peacefully, the ex-girlfriend always represents a memory for the man, and this person is like a conquered territory to them.

    In addition, we will unconsciously compare what we have with what we have and what we have lost, so as to constantly confirm that we have made the right choice. Time can't go back, love is too difficult a choice question, and we don't want our hard work to pay to someone who is not so worthy (unworthy).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you care a lot about tattoos, you have to ask him to deal with them with it with a clear attitude, because it is a matter of feelings between two people. You can get your boyfriend to wash the tattoo, which is nothing more than a scar. Just to test whether he really loves you, if he loves you, he will be willing to wash away everything in the past.

    If he is sincere to you, he will definitely take the initiative to find a way to solve it himself. If he doesn't recognize the seriousness of the problem, you can ask him to either wash it off or cover it up with a tattoo about you, anyway, "out of sight".

    If he can't even do this, it shows that he doesn't care enough about you in his mind, at least he doesn't care about your inner feelings.

    You should find a time to talk about this problem with your boyfriend, don't hold it in your heart because of this matter, your boyfriend shouldn't think too much, you should let him pay attention to this problem, and there is no need to keep it if you don't love tattoos. When they are in love, both people like the tattoos on each other's bodies, and they think they are a mark of love, but after the breakup, there are painful memories, and it is better to wash them off, and it is not comfortable to see the current person of the province. You are his girlfriend and know what his personality is like, and you shouldn't keep it in your heart and think it's inappropriate for him to have an ex tattoo, then you should bring it up to him bluntly.

    After all, emotional matters must need to be communicated. As an intimate lover, you completely guide him to realize that he should wash off this tattoo, after all, this tattoo belongs to a "foreign body" in your relationship, and it will make people uncomfortable if they are caught there. You can use coquettish ways to tell him that the tattoo will make you jealous, let him know how you feel about the tattoo, and let him know that you love him.

    Of course, you can also guide him in other ways that are more suitable for you and him. If he cares about your feelings, I'm sure he will know how to do it. If he loves you very much and you don't push him, he will do well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In such a situation, I think you should take the initiative to make it clear to your boyfriend that if the other party really loves you, they will wash off the tattoo.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, you can ask your boyfriend to wash off this tattoo, after all, such a tattoo will appear in your life, it will be very estranged.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should talk to your boyfriend and let him wash off this tattoo so that he can face himself with a new look.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, who hasn't done a few crazy things when you were young, when you are disgusted that your boyfriend has his ex-girlfriend's tattoo on his body, at this time, you can't help but think about the madness of you and your ex-boyfriend, if your boyfriend knows this, I think he is also uncomfortable, but you can see the tattoo on his body, but he doesn't know what is going on between you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a very bad experience because every time I see his tattoo, it makes me very uncomfortable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If my boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend tattoo on him, I'm definitely in a bad mood, after all, I think how much you love her to be willing to get a tattoo on my body.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's very, very uncomfortable, and when I see it, I feel worried, and I always feel like he's still thinking about her...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It should be a very embarrassing experience, and I will be jealous.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This tattoo means a lot to her, if you don't like it, just break up with her, such a girl, don't do it, you can communicate with her, see what she means, whether she really wants to be with you, if you love her, don't care about the tattoo on her body, the two of you are together, not because of her tattoo, but because of her person, if she is an unreasonable person, even if she doesn't have a tattoo, you won't be with her, such a girl, not worthy of your love, you still break up with her.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I feel that it is needed, because girlfriends are inherently very sensitive, and if my boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend's tattoo, I will mind that it will affect the relationship between the two people.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It must be washed off, and now that he has chosen to be with you, he should completely let go of everything he used to have with his ex-girlfriend, and if he loves you, he will definitely agree to wash off the tattoo.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, you don't. Because something like a tattoo is just a formality, you just need to make sure your boyfriend has you in his heart.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, because his tattoo of his ex-girlfriend will make you very disgusted, and you will be very uncomfortable when you see him in the future, so be sure to wash it off.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course, if you don't wash it off, girls will have pimples in their hearts, and their feelings for them are not very good, and it is likely that girls will think that their boyfriends still have feelings for their ex-girlfriends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, your boyfriend should be asked to wash the tattoo off, because if you are already planning to be with you, you should not keep your ex-girlfriend's tattoo anymore.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should be washed off, because this girl is already his ex-girlfriend, and having this tattoo will make her feel very uncomfortable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't take the initiative to bring it up, it will make you look like you don't have a pattern, and if this man loves himself enough, then he will definitely wash off his ex-girlfriend's tattoo himself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think so. Because when you see his tattoo, you will feel uncomfortable and feel uncomfortable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Good morning, dear. The current boyfriend has an ex-girlfriend's tattoo on his body and cannot have the following reasons. First, the first thing is that the tattoo must still be very painful and cannot be easily eliminated, so this ex-girlfriend will come to prick him from time to time in his mind.

    It's that he can never forget his ex-girlfriend, how can we defeat the most is the people in other people's memories, because the people in the memory only have the good side, not the bad side. Second, since he was able to make the tattoo he gave to his ex-girlfriend at that time, it shows that he has already thought about who the love of his life is. After that, when your marriage enters a dull period, there will be all kinds of contradictions, and when he sees the tattoos on his body, he will think of his ex-girlfriend, and he will not continue to strengthen his love.

    It's just going to drive the two of you apart.

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