Which moment made you suddenly understand a truth?

In 2009, my mother was seriously ill and hospitalized, and spent nearly half a month in the corridor of the hospital, with no money, no relationship, and no bed. Every day, you have to calculate how much money you have spent and whether the prepaid hospitalization fee is enough. My father had to talk about being discharged from the hospital every day because it cost too much.

Even though I had a salary of more than 1w a month at that time, it couldn't stop the cost of a few days in the hospital. Thinking about it, I thought I had a lot of salary before, and I suddenly felt ridiculous, an illness can make you fall to the bottom, and a fixed salary is really a drop in the bucket. At that time, I really understood that most people's suffering is actually due to not having enough money.

When I filled in the application in the third year of high school, I suddenly realized that the college entrance examination is really important, and it determines where you spend your four years. I've been mixing in high school, and I don't think it's anything to study, so I just have a little aftertaste at the moment I fill in the volunteers. <>

During the game, I was soft-hearted to the enemy, and I didn't make a ruthless move, but in the end I was counterattacked by the opponent, and I understood at that time that you should never be soft on your enemies, and being soft on your enemies is cruel to yourself.

Once my idol said the wrong word because of a slip of the tongue, and then was scolded by the whole network, I think at that time I understood a truth, that is, no matter how good you are, as long as you do something wrong, others will seize that little mistake, attack you, and slander you.

The people who really want to leave are quiet, we used to quarrel, and every time I went out angry, I deliberately closed the door very loudly, just to let you know how unhappy I was. Later, on the day I decided to break up, I cleaned the house and got the bed straight.

Once when I was in high school, my membership certificate was missing, and I had to hand it in at that time, and then there was really no way at that time, I didn't know what to do, well, many people came to comfort me, saying that it didn't matter or anything, and then I suddenly understood that I had to carry over all the winds and waves by myself, and no one could really help you.

Once when I went to my grandmother's house, she kept asking me what I wanted to eat and what I liked to play, and I always felt very warm, which made me understand that we must be filial to them in the future.

I once wanted to write an application for a project, but because I had never been exposed to the method of making an application, I asked a lot of people at that time, but they all said that it should be like this, maybe it should be so, and none of them were sure, and at that time I understood that many times many things need to be done by ourselves.

When I was in college, dealing with relationships was a complicated thing, I was very hungry for someone, and in the blink of an eye he went to someone else, and since then I have felt that these relationships in society are not trustworthy.

Recently, I came into contact with some people and things at home during the holidays, which made me understand some truths that I can't learn from books, and if I hadn't experienced it myself, I might never have realized it, so that I calmed down to think and reflect.

1.Never try to imagine that you will be successful in persuading someone to do something, or that you can completely change someone else's perception or idea. Because those persuasions that seem to you to take great pains and put yourself in the shoes of others can only be in vain, and can only be regarded as self-moving, and others should be depressed or continue to be depressed, left ear.

In and out of the right ear, after all, he is not a senior scholar or expert, and he has not experienced it at the same time, so it is no wonder that others have never listened to it, and it is just in response to the sentence "Be a simple man, do not cross others".

2.People's hearts are separated from the belly, and the heart of harming others is indispensable, and the heart of preventing others is indispensable. A good friend on the surface, but in fact, you don't know how many knives you have inserted behind your back, so you should never use your success to change the opinion of people you don't like.

This example is that after a few months of hard work, I successfully went ashore, and because I only had a handful of circles, I simply posted a circle of friends.

To be honest, I also want to prove to others that I also have two brushes, and the result can be imagined, although people who seem to be friends will often like in your circle of friends, but when they have better conditions and abilities than them, there is not a single like and a comment, and then the circle of friends simply blocks themselves. It can be seen that people who don't like you will not change no matter what effort you make, life is your own, how to live is your own business, your sincerity and kindness are only worthy of giving to people who understand you and understand you, even if you don't do anything, they will still like you.

3.Everything happens for a reason, it is all about making you learn and understand something, and the impact of these things on you is not in the event itself, but in how you look at it, how it will give back to you, which is equivalent to ".Echoeffect". For example, if you lose something important, it means that it may want you to let go of some people and things, let go of some obsessions, and pack up your mood before setting off.

Seriously, once life begins to substitute the truth that everything that happens will make you learn, you will magically find that a lot of things that happen are not things, and your own psychological capacity.

I will become strong day and night, believing that we will pass this hurdle, who is afraid of whom!

Recently understood the truth:

1. Keep enriching your life and quit mobile phone addiction.

The previous summer vacation life was directly holding the mobile phone and brushing Douyin, playing the king, and watching**, repeated cycles between these ones, sometimes although they look a little dizzy, they still don't want the mobile phone to leave their sight, the mobile phone is simply a treasure. However, during this period of time, the summer vacation has been full of study and work arrangements every day, so that my mood has reached an unprecedented happy feeling, although in the process of learning sometimes I may want to give up, but at the end of the day, I found that it is really sufficient! A sense of accomplishment arises.

Of course, the results are also touching, especially the last mobile phone use time, except for the necessary use time when I study, the entertainment time is basically only about an hour a day!

Second, the successful development of self-discipline is just one goal.

Why is my self-discipline so bad? This is also a question I always asked myself before, but in the end I didn't get a result, after a period of regular work and rest, I finally found that in fact, there is no goal in daily life, and there is nothing that I urgently want to do every day. If you think about it carefully, this is indeed the case, because before life and learning were in a state of confusion, naturally, there is no goal and no pressure, and there is no motivation without pressure, so how to self-discipline?

Ever since I had goals, I have been able to push myself every day because of these goals, and I have gained a lot.

3. The sky above your head is so beautiful, why don't you want to take a few more looks? When the beauty of life occurs, we will feel that our life is actually not so bad.

The sky of my hometown.

Fourth, it is really important to improve the aesthetics, for the design aspect. A few days ago, in class, the teacher put a few ** for us to see, and the difference is the difference in filters and tones. When she said that one of the pictures was really spicy eyes, I was silent.

To be honest, I don't see much of a difference. However, I can clearly understand that I have to improve my aesthetics, and then I begin to consciously look at this kind of **, such as petal nets, and then I will search for this kind of information, such as some photography masters on my mobile phone**, I will consciously take a look, and more should be able to improve my aesthetics more or less.

In short, life becomes richer through continuous exploration. We also have to try to explore life. Be a more positive and progressive version of yourself.

Recently, I realized the importance of being a girl and seeing more of the world.

Get to know a little more people, so that you won't be dragged down by your narrow circle of life.

I don't think that a boy you meet by chance can become your "must be him".

You don't think it's great when a guy brags to you that he "earns more than 10,000 a month".

You know what a better person looks like, so you won't be eaten to death by anyone's pride.

Read a few more books, find a philosophy that applies to you in the books, and experience its profundity and profundity, and you will no longer think that "he suddenly became cold to me" is an insoluble difficulty.

You know the people in the book, and you feel like you've experienced their lives, and you know what really matters, which is kindness, sincerity, awe and courage, so you keep your own harmony and don't become sharp because of the trivial things around you.

Go to more places, learn about the ecology, the customs, and see how people around the world live, and you will find that the things you usually worry about are really not worth mentioning.

There are so many people who live diligently, nothing can be defeated, people, born resilient.

Let's put it this way, I think of our lives.

It's not just about time, it's about depth, it's about breadth, and there's a lot of beauty to be explored.

But if we spend every day in a mess, in trivial mediocrity, first worry about whether he is on the dating app, and tomorrow argue whether he doesn't love you if he doesn't reply to messages in time.

It is easy to live superficially, or even live more and more shallowly.

Blindly resting on its laurels in its own little world, it is becoming more and more flammable and explosive, and more and more hysterical.

Some time ago, a friend fell out of love, and strictly speaking, he failed to confess.

Here's how I comforted her when I ate with her:

Earn more money, and when you earn more, the quality of the boys you know will also rise.

If reading and traveling are difficult, then earning money is also a process of seeing the world.

The people you used to think were "you have to be" were really just that.

Life is so vast, don't just be trapped by love.

Live hard.

A lot of things have happened lately that have made some sense to me.

1.Be sure to have a physical examination on time and live a regular life. It is said that the body is the capital of the revolution, and I have always felt that the disease is far away from me, and I am still very young, and it is a disappointment to my life if I don't stay up late and eat more food at this time.

But a few days ago, I suddenly fell ill, although it is a minor disease, if it has been dragged on, it will evolve into a chronic disease, I have seen the lives of many people suffering from this chronic disease through social platforms, and I am afraid of the pain of evolving into a malignant disease every day. It is too late to wait for many diseases to be checked when your body is abnormal, so be sure to have a physical examination on time, live a regular life, and put health first.

2.Caring for parents. My mother accompanied me to this physical examination, and I only learned from my mother's physical examination report that my mother had so many minor problems, and I only know it now.

3.Be sure to have a plan. I was lazy in the previous summer vacations, and this summer vacation had to make up for it all, and the summer vacation that could have been relaxing became a time for me to study hard, which was very tiring and not worth it.

If you plan ahead at the beginning of the semester, you can avoid this happening.

Recently, I've been thinking about what happened at school, and I've understood some truths.

1.Appropriate refusal. I don't like to talk, I'm introverted, I don't know how to reject others, I've always been gentle and gentle with people, and I've never quarreled with anyone since I was a child.

I'm one of the kind people I don't trouble you, and you don't want to trouble me. I remember these things very clearly, a roommate usually has to train at noon, so she doesn't take the books for the afternoon class, and then I help her get them, once or twice, it's too much to take every day. I don't know what other people think, but in my place, wouldn't it be nice for you to take a book and put it in one place, and it's not a book to train with a book in your hand.

There is also the matter of bringing food, I usually help them bring food, and I obviously have time, but I don't go out. Out of classmate friendship, it's okay to trouble once or twice, but I personally can't stand it all the time. So, it's really important to learn to say no.

2.Restrain yourself from talking. I've been wondering lately if I'm talking too much to other people.

Normally, I would tell her anything I had at school, and she understood my situation and told me anything. When I think about it, it seems like a bit much. First of all, I told her about the unhappy things, and people didn't know what to do, and in the end it was still an unsolvable problem, which could only increase the troubles of the two people.

Secondly, she must be a person worthy of your trust, otherwise the consequences will be very troublesome. Finally, if you talk too much, it will also make people think that you are so annoying. In the future, when interacting with others, it is better to restrain your desire to express yourself and confide in each other appropriately.

3.Don't care what others think. He and I are in the same class, and I have a good academic performance, so if there are any activities such as grouping, group work, etc., he will come to me to form a team, and of course there are other people in the group.

The two of us teamed up a lot of times, and then someone started gossiping, thinking that he liked me, and sometimes he would make a coax in the class, which made me both very embarrassed, we were just like ordinary classmates, and talking was also related to study and class;At first, I started to keep a proper distance from him. At the end of the day, I thought about it, and I cared about what they were doing, it was my own business. Slowly, the two of us did what we had to do like before.

But there is a slight crack in the relationship between the two of us, and it can't be repaired.