My girlfriend said she didn t feel comfortable eating with me, why?

Isn't it still rusty?

I really can't understand what you mean, your girlfriend wants to have a meal with you, isn't it a normal thing? Why don't you want to go even this little thing? Is it because you don't want to invite her because you're afraid of spending money, or because you don't want to see her?

Whatever the reason, I don't think I can accept it, because after all, you are a man, and you are a man with a girlfriend, what do you think in your heart?

In your heart, what does it feel like to be in love, is it always a fight**, a text message, and never a rush? If two people can't often do a lot of things together, how can it be called love? And if you don't even want to meet, is it really a couple?

No one else will believe it, because no couple gets along like this. When you say it, I really think it's incredible, I can't believe it.

I think if you really don't have any feelings for your girlfriend and don't want to be with her, then you just make it clear to others, don't hang her, a girl's youth is very limited. If you don't like it, no one forces you to marry her until you are old, but you can't say that you have been hanging her in the name of your boyfriend, which is very immoral. You're trying to take someone else's place and ride a donkey to find a horse.

Is it? Your behavior will be spurned by everyone.

If you like him, I don't think you should do such a thing, you should want to be with her all the time, go out to eat, go out shopping, go out and press the road.

Going out and doing a lot of sweet things is what a couple should normally look like. You should go and eat all the food in the streets together, not you should have to fight over even a meal and have no way to eat. So I think you guys should have a good talk, if you can get through stupidity, you can close it, and if you can't get by, let it go.

Why don't you want to eat with him, if you don't love him anymore, you should tell him directly, don't do this, because she is your girlfriend after all, has it become a luxury to eat with you, if you don't love him, just tell him directly.

If you don't want to, just tell your girlfriend directly that you don't want to go out or you can refuse for a reason, so you can say that you are busy with work.

I feel that you have no love for your girlfriend anymore, so you should break up right away, and then take the opportunity to say it, and never delay the other person.

In this case, you can talk to your girlfriend and tell her what you really think, and there is no need to force two people to be together.

You can make excuses to reject her, but this is not the way to go, and if you have an issue with the other person, then bring it up as soon as possible.

I think the best thing to do is to break up because there are irreconcilable contradictions between you.

It's all your girlfriend, why wouldn't Ling Xun want to? If you really don't want to eat at a hailstorm, it's better to tell your girlfriend the reason early, and the two of them will solve the improvement together, and the two of them will have to run in and tolerate each other together.

Break up with Huiqing's girlfriend directly, how can a person like you still have a girlfriend, your girlfriend wants to eat with you because she wants to increase the orange hand relationship between you. And you don't want to. If you don't want to, then don't delay your girlfriend to find a better person.

Then you have to find a more reasonable reason to make your girlfriend feel particularly reasonable, so that you can effectively refuse.

Then make it clear to her, the two of you have to communicate, why she wants to eat with you and you don't, just find out the root of the problem and solve it.

Personally, I think when your girlfriend says she wants to eat with you and you resist, it goes a way of saying that you're someone who likes to be alone. Some people like to eat alone, they will feel that this kind of words are more pleasant and relaxed, and do not like to eat with others, because if you eat with others, you must not only accommodate other people's time, but also accommodate other people's tastes, which is not as simple and clear as eating alone.

But we can't often skip eating with our girlfriend, because in this way, it will hurt the feelings of two people, and when your girlfriend wants to eat with you, it means that she wants to have more intimate opportunities with you during this time. Eating is not the most important thing, but eating with you and spending this time with you is the important thing. So when you are hungry and refuse your girlfriend's request, your girlfriend will silently give you points in your heart.

Some guys think that going out to eat with their girlfriend costs a lot of money, so when their girlfriend asks to go out with him, the boy will be very resistant. I think this boy's idea is completely wrong, because many times girls don't particularly care about what kind of food they eat with boys when they go out to eat, even if it's a very ordinary meal, they will feel very happy.

So when a girlfriend asks to eat together, our first reaction should not be to resist, but to ask our girlfriend what she wants to eat. If the meal that the girlfriend wants to eat is within her means, then it is best to go out to eat together. If your girlfriend wants to eat more than her budget and can't afford to pay, you can continue to work hard to earn money, and then take your girlfriend out to eat when you earn money, I believe your girlfriend will understand you.

I think it's normal. Because some people like to eat alone, and Wanna doesn't like to eat with others, and will feel very restrained, so if you don't want to eat with your girlfriend, it is just like the norm.

Of course, it is not excluded that kind of cheeky girl, that is, rubbing rice with you, you ask people if they are willing to watch a movie with you, if they are willing to climb the mountain with you, date or something, if you don't want to, forget it, you will go later next time you eat, and when she sits down and eats, you will go to other places to eat! Then if the other party doesn't help you pay, then you can call your friend, I think after this time, he shouldn't chase you anymore and let you pay. Unless he really has anything else in mind.

I'm still wondering, why can you both go to eat in the same place and at the same time period, but can't you change places?

She thinks that you are the most trustworthy person, even if you pay for it, she thinks that she is at ease, she is misled by your illusion, you are not willing, but vanity and face take over, so this is called self-inflicted. What to do? That's telling the truth.

Women are much more independent today than they used to be, and they are sometimes happier than men. If you happen to meet someone who loves to take advantage of it, it's just that your communication vision needs to be improved.

But after eating at noon, when it was time to settle the bill, I called the waiter to come over, and the female colleague clan sedan chair either put aside and looked at the mobile phone, or took the makeup mirror out of the bag to touch up makeup and put on lipstick. The atmosphere was suddenly a little awkward, and I thought to myself that she was a new colleague and a girl, so I helped her settle the bill! The more this is the case, the more careful you are, in today's society, it is no longer girls who need to be protected, but boys who need to protect themselves, because a trillion guesses are going to marriage, and what you are burdening is the whole family, both parents, and future children.

Why don't others look for you every time? It's not that others are not as good as you, it's not that you have more money than others, it's that she wants to take advantage of you Cheap here doesn't mean money! But emotionally, let colleagues know that the two of you are eating together now, and it is you who settle accounts, and subconsciously make colleagues think that you are a couple!

If you are very resistant to eating with your girlfriend, it means that you have not thought about it yet, you cannot fully accept your girlfriend, and you do not want to develop further with her.

I think it's probably because you don't love your girlfriend enough, and if you love your girlfriend enough, you won't resist having dinner with her.

In fact, the main reason for the original search is that you don't like your girlfriend Shihui, so you want to distance yourself from your girlfriend in the world, and I don't think there is really any need for this kind of relationship to continue.

It's because you don't love your girlfriend anymore in your heart, so you will have the psychology of rebellion, if you really don't like your girlfriend, you should break up with her in time, don't delay her.

Because I haven't recognized her yet, I haven't taken her to heart, she hasn't become my girlfriend yet, and I've been testing her.

Maybe it's because you don't like this girl, or maybe you're afraid that you'll spend a lot of money, and it's possible for all sorts of reasons.

Summary. If you are with your boyfriend and your female friends are having dinner together, and you want to go, and your boyfriend won't let you go, the teacher advises you not to go. First of all, between boyfriends and female friends, in terms of importance, it should be the boyfriend who is in front of it.

Also, if you're together, it's not very appropriate for you to leave him on his own side and go to a female friend. Even if he went with him, he might not be very comfortable in the middle of a group of girls, right? <>

Female friends have dinner together, and I say what should I do if he doesn't let me go over in the past.

Kiss, is this girl who doesn't let you go is a colleague who usually intersects with you or has a good time? <>

The actions we make can be different for different people. For example: people who usually have a good relationship.

We can pat each other on the shoulder and say, "Pretty young lady, please let me go over for a moment, and laugh." If the relationship is in a difficult situation, you can definitely say: Beauty, excuse me, I want to go over for a while, is it convenient to let go?

Of course, there is also a kind of Lu ruler who is usually interested in you, that is, the Lu ruler who is stuck with you with cheats and jokes, and you can look at the other party's expression to act. If she feels stuck on you and you're nervous, she's still smiling. Then you blush and smile :

Please let me go. <>

Yes, is it necessary to go.

Dear, is it necessary to go, you say? Do you mean to eat with this woman again?

I'm sorry, but the teacher misunderstood what you meant. Is that what you mean when you eat with a female friend and your boyfriend won't let you?

If you are with your boyfriend and your female friends are having dinner together, and you want to go, and your boyfriend won't let you go, the teacher advises you not to go. First of all, between boyfriends and female friends, the importance of pure faith should also be faced by boyfriends. Also, when you're together, it's not very appropriate for you to laugh at him and leave him on his female friend's side.

Even if he went with him, he might not be very comfortable in the middle of a group of girls, right? <>

Summary. Kiss, female friends have dinner together, you want to go, and then your boyfriend won't let go. This situation can be handled in this way, first of all, let's not get angry, but try to tell him in a calm tone why you want to go over to participate, such as there are several good friends you know well, and they all want you to go together.

Secondly, if he still doesn't agree with you going, ask him why he doesn't agree with you going, whether he is worried about other boys there, or if he has a bad impression of any girl, or if he is worried that you will drink after the party. I believe that as long as you communicate calmly and understand each other's thoughts, this problem will be easier to solve.

Female friends have dinner together, and I say what should I do if he doesn't let me go over in the past.

Kiss, female friends have dinner together, you want to go, and then your boyfriend won't let go. This situation can be handled in this way, first of all, let's not get angry, but try to tell him in a calm tone why you want to go over to participate, such as there are several good friends you know well, and they all want you to come together. Secondly, after you have explained the reason why you want to go, if he still does not agree with you to go, then you can ask what is the specific reason why he does not agree with you to go, whether he is worried that there are other boys present, or which girl he has a bad impression of, or if He Xihe is worried that you will drink after you go to the party.

I believe that as long as you communicate calmly and understand each other's thoughts, this problem will be easier to solve.

In addition, what you said about going to the dinner, whether the two of you go together or you go by yourself, this also has a relationship, if you go by yourself, the boys' general worry is nothing more than drinking, there are other boys present, and after eating, there will be entertainment activities that lack it. If the two of you go together and the boy is still unwilling to go, then maybe he is participating, and there are other people he doesn't like.