In the confusion, please guide the maze!

Friend, there is nothing to be sad about.

Life is not easy.

First of all, you must be clear about your goals, not only are the goals clear, but you also have a strong will, not a reverie. The second is to standardize a well-thought-out plan, and then it is necessary to act urgently to achieve the goal. When encountering difficulties, the first thing is to adjust your mentality, and then find out your mistakes as soon as possible, immediately correct your behavior, face the reality bravely, and be sure to persist and self-discipline.

I'm sure there will be something to gain in the near future.

Don't worry, there are always times when people are confused, some people are earlier, some people are later, and this is normal.

You can analyze what your strengths are, and then use them to find opportunities for career development, usually in an industry that you are familiar with or that you particularly like, such as: What would you like to do most when you have time?

If thinking about it for a while doesn't work, you might as well start by supporting your family's career or work, or learn something about it according to your interests.

I like to be honest, don't scold me!! I think you feel very useless in your heart, and the guilt of your family has caused you to have a serious inferiority complex now! It is even possible to complain about your own life.

I think how much ability to do a lot of things, don't think about falling money in the sky all day long, I have only heard of sleet when I listen to the weather forecast, but I have never heard of sleet! In fact, there are many people like you, and their hearts are higher than the sky, so I won't talk about the next sentence. I don't know what other people think about your so-called face problem, I think that a 30-year-old man still depends on his family to support him, which is better than picking up a bowl and holding a stick on the street, at least people know how to support themselves, not ashamed!

What about you, hey! You're like this, you're still thinking about face, a person should be faceless like this, I don't know where to get face!? If you continue to work like this, for the sake of your faceless face, you may be asking you what to do until you die of old age!

Even if you are a toilet guard, no one will laugh at you, and some people will laugh at you if you stay at home every day!

It's still up to you, find a psychologist, your problem is a bit serious, you have to talk to a psychologist in person.

Confusion is just an interface for escape.

What are you doing, what are you trying to do, have you ever been lost, what was that like?

Confused, mí máng, . Vast and indistinctly visible: eyes; of the wilderness; The snow was overwhelming, and the fields were blank. Describe life or work without knowing how to choose, without a sense of direction; The road ahead is ethereal.

When a person is faced with a new environment, the original state has changed, and he needs to make a choice, he is easy to be confused. For example, after the college entrance examination, fill in the volunteers, new students enroll, graduate into the social employment choice, after working for a few years, do not know how to adjust the future direction, and there is confusion in the workplace, etc.

Confusion is temporary, but at the same time normal. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself according to your ability and future needs, that is, planning.

Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal must not be too big, it should be expected and achievable, so as not to make yourself confused and discouraged, and if you continue in this way, you can get happiness from the success of achieving the goal.

The years will not treat everyone badly, they will give you the life you want.

Regarding career planning, it is recommended that you consider this question from the following directions:

1. What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed?

If you don't know your interests, you can go to the Career Assessment section of the First Workplace Forum to take a free Holland Career Aptitude Assessment to have a general understanding of your interests.

2. What is your personality suitable for? Different jobs are suitable for people with different personalities to do. Recognizing your personality is a very important step. You can also go to the First Workplace Forum to take a DISC personality assessment to understand your personality traits before making a decision.

3. What are your strengths and strengths? What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?

4. What weaknesses do you have in your personality that need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.

5. There is a "Follow Your Heart - 14 Steps to Set Career Goals" in the top post of the first workplace forum, you can take a look at it and plan your career according to this method.

6. The first chapter of the best-selling book "Workplace Redemption - Written to the Confused Grassroots" also provides a more detailed and specific method, which is very helpful to you, and you can also go to the book to find the answer.

If you have any questions, please feel free to communicate!

In this society, it seems that money is the main position How many people have wasted their youth for the sake of a dull industry, causing themselves to sigh when they are old and dreaming of their childhood I encourage you to chase the industry you like Of course, it depends on whether the things you throw away have a big impact on your surroundings?

Wake up, the economy is in a recession, don't be blind, hurry up and make a little more money as soon as possible, you can save for the winter.

I also have a job that I like, but I can't do it" – hope is here, and the problem is here. You have your own clear goals, but you don't have the ability to achieve your goals, then it means that you still need to learn this knowledge, you can choose to go back to school to study, it may not be very targeted, but you can expand your knowledge, which is necessary and needed. You already have the experience of working part-time, so you should know this truth.

You can also choose a school that matches your job, learn professional knowledge, and improve your professional skills.

If you don't want to go back to school for an education or don't have the opportunity, there is another way to learn: choose to buy books about the job you love to study on your own, at least with a basic understanding. Check the relevant information on the Internet, go to the relevant **see teaching** or discuss with relevant people, and at the same time you can join or establish a QQ group for this kind of work, called work***, and ask for advice or exchange and discussion with everyone in the group.

Once you have a basic understanding and interest, you can go to the relevant workplace for an internship, and learn from experienced people while working on your own.

The above are all kinds of ways to learn, but in any case, the most important thing is that you stick to your original intention (luck or goal), believe that you can do it yourself (self-confidence), and be persistent (action and perseverance). Come on, you will succeed!

As long as we are willing to learn, absorb more knowledge, even if it is to do some small things within our ability, we will improve our own quality and level, not only to better understand the world, but also to better examine ourselves, enrich our lives, and enrich ourselves.

People will be very confused about the future school, work, and even family, all kinds of unknowns, confused is faced with too many choices, when there are many paths in front of us, we will be confused, do not know how to choose, so how do we improve the probability of choosing the right one? There is such a way. Learn from the experience of our ancestors and apply it to our own.

The lessons of the past can avoid us from taking a lot of detours, and feel lost and confused, we can ask the elders for more experience, so that the elders can guide us in the maze. Listen to the opinions of others and improve our knowledge, so that the situation of confusion can be improved.

Without the guidance of our predecessors, we would have to explore our own path, and summarize our experience while moving forward. When standing at the crossroads of choice, we must consider carefully, consider not only the immediate interests, but also stand in the long-term perspective, for a simple example, people often ask: what is your salary at work, I answered, 2,000, my friend said, that's too little, look at me, I earned 5000, what do you mean, I meet such a friend is not a close friend, I am generally too lazy to answer, simply perfunctory, because their vision is very short-sighted, They don't know what I'm learning or what I'm doing, they only care about the immediate benefits.

If you look far, you can go farther, and if you see close, maybe there will be no way out in the future. When we are confused, we must not only focus on the immediate interests when thinking about things, but must focus on a certain moment in the future, so that we will not be overwhelmed in the future.

Use the I Ching to analyze occupations. Use the five elements to guide the way forward. In this way, there will be fewer twists and turns and fewer detours in life.

What are you doing, what are you trying to do, have you ever been lost, what was that like?

It's not scary to be confused! The scary thing is to give up.

Give yourself a vacation, and plan for the end of the vacation.

What are you doing, what are you trying to do, have you ever been lost, what was that like?