Why is it said that only women and villains in the world are difficult to raise?

Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful." It would be better to read the original text in its entirety. Being close to them will lose their deterrence and status, and they will be despised; Alienation from them will be blamed, so it is "difficult to raise".

In addition, the encyclopedia mentions a new mainstream saying, "female" means "you", and Confucius said: "Only people like you (referring to Zigong) and villains are difficult to get along with." If you are close, you will not be able to see it, and if you are far away, you will complain. ”

The following is an excerpt from the encyclopedia.

Zigong said: "Gentlemen are also evil? Zi said:

There is evil. ""Those who are evil are called evil, those who are inferior and despise them, those who are brave and rude, and those who are brave and suffocating. "Said:

Is it evil to give? "He who knows evil. Evil is not a grandson who thinks he is brave.

The wicked and the righteous are the ones who think they are upright. Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful."

Zi said: "When you are forty years old, you will see evil, and it will be the end." ”】

It is not difficult to find that the explanations of other versions cannot be connected with the full text. In fact, when interpreting any sentence, we must first consider whether it is logical and reasonable, take into account the front and back, and do not make the mistake of taking it out of context. In many translations throughout history, it is a mistake to translate "woman" as "woman"!

The book "New Translation of the Analects" published by the People's ** Publishing House in September 2005 under the guidance of the Confucius Institute has a comprehensive study of this, and finds that the 18 "female" characters included in the "Analects" mentioned by Confucius are all fake characters, and Tong "Ru" means "you", which are all pronouns, not nouns, and refer to the other side of the speaker. [3]

Some people take it out of context and say that Confucius discriminates against women, and the Analects include the translation of the word "woman" as "you" in Confucius, but if it is translated as "woman", it will make it incoherent and contradictory. In fact, the Huaxia people are a very free people, and Confucianism is centered on "benevolence" and "etiquette". It is because we know too little about ancient times, misunderstanding and distortion make Chinese people think that Chinese culture is backward and inferior to the West.

What's more, it seems nondescript to look at Eastern culture with Western concepts. The lack of understanding of their own culture has led many people to blindly worship and introduce Western culture and ideas, thus burying the essence of Chinese culture.

The Four Books and Five Classics that you can understand at the first reading, and the interesting and interesting one understands Chinese culture.

Only women and villains are difficult to raise" is Confucius's "Analects of Yang Goods".

According to this passage, people think that Confucius discriminates against women, but people often do not fully understand the meaning of this sentence. There is a second half of this sentence. Its original sentence is "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful." ”

Only women and villains are difficult to raise" from the "Analects of Yang Goods", there are many discussions and explanations for this sentence. Most people think it was Confucius.

Exaggeration. Therefore, various interpretations continue, and the newer interpretation is that the pattern of "woman" is defined as "female, son" or "female + son". For example, Jin Chi's "New Translation of the Analects" published in recent years

Shen Shanzeng, "Confucius So Said".

This explanation can alleviate everyone's complaints about Confucius to a certain extent.

In fact, there is still half of this text behind, "If you are near, you will not be grandchildren, and if you are far away, you will be resentful", which is connected: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, and those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful." "Sun" is a fake word for "Xun".

It means to be respectful.

Replace this passage with a vernacular text.

The basic meaning is that only women and villains are the most difficult to get along with. If you are good to them, they will tempt you, offend you, and troublesome you, knowing that the heavens are high and the earth is high. When you turn a face at them, they complain and say you're sorry for him.

Yu Dan came to the audience according to this explanation in a talk show: villain refers to a child, which means that a woman is like a child, if she is too spoiled, she will be pampered and proud, and if she ignores her, she will be resentful.

However, this interpretation actually distorts the meaning of this sentence. "If you are near, you will not be grandchildren, and if you are far away, you will be resentful" is the basis of Confucius's "only women and villains are difficult to raise", and it is also the reason and manifestation of "women and villains" that are difficult to raise. Confucius's "only women and villains are difficult to raise" is not all women and villains are difficult to raise, but "women and villains" that "if they are near, they will not be grandchildren, and if they are far away, they will be resentful", that is, they will not be inferior if they are close, arrogant and lazy, and if they are not close to them, they will have resentful "women and villains".

"Woman" is a general term here, not a full term.

Only women and villains are difficult to raise: a proverb.

This sentence means that women and some villains who have fallen into the well are full of treacherous villains who cannot be reasonable, and it also shows that women are loved and understood, so the ancients said that they would rather offend the gentleman than the villain.

Only women and villains are difficult to educate. and when they are near, they are disobedient; Alienated from them, they resented.

Tell you not to mess with women and villains. It means that it is the most difficult to reason with women and villains.

Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not grandchildren, and those who are far away are resentful." The general translation of this sentence is: Only women and villains are difficult to get along with, and they will be rude when they are close, and they will be resentful when they are far away.

It's not the disrespect for women that I mean now!

It's that the gentleman wants to know that if he is near, he will not be grandson, and if he is far away, he will complain.

Don't take a quote out of context!

The ancients believed that women had no foresight, shallow knowledge (no status), and specifically had a similar "woman's view".

If you are a villain, you can't offend him, because the villain's revenge is very troublesome (because it's all secretly revenge).

That's why there's this sentence.

Only women and villains are difficult to raise.

This is backward thinking.

Treat women as villains, who are often hateful.

Summary. Only women and villains are difficult to raise, which means that they are pampered and villains, and it is difficult for them to cultivate their own heroic righteousness. This sentence is from Confucius's "Analects, Chapter 17, Yang Goods" in the Spring and Autumn Period.

Original text: Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful."

Translation: Confucius said: "It is difficult for the pampered and the villain to cultivate their own righteousness, and it is difficult for them to cultivate their body, mind, sex, and life, so they must get along with them far and near, and if they are too close, they are easy to be rude and break the rules; If it is too far away, it is easy to attract resentment, which is not conducive to the inheritance of Confucianism.

Only women and villains are difficult to raise, which means that they are pampered and villains, and it is difficult for them to cultivate their own heroic righteousness. This sentence is from Confucius's "Analects, Chapter 17, Yang Goods" in the Spring and Autumn Period. Original:

Zi said: "Only women and villains are difficult to raise, those who are close are not inferior, and those who are far away are resentful." Translation:

Confucius said: "It is difficult for the pampered and the villain to cultivate their own righteousness, and it is difficult for them to cultivate their body, mind, sex, and life, so they must get along with them far and near, and if they are too close, they are easy to be rude and break the rules; If it is too far away, it is easy to attract resentment, which is not conducive to the inheritance of Confucianism.

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