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I think it's not wrong to love your family, love your husband and children, and pay for all this, but you need to pay attention to it. You can't give up your job and get too involved in your family and say you've done a lot for it. Because your husband doesn't have the same children as you, he can't look at your hard work from your point of view.
At the same time, you don't go out to work, you limit your eyes to your home, and in the long run you will communicate less and less with him, you know, the outside world changes quickly, and if you are not careful, it will become obsolete (I don't mean that it can't catch up with fashion, but that you will talk to him less and less). You must know that a man needs a woman who can take care of him, and he also needs someone who can communicate with him mentally and spiritually, and who can consult with him when he is sad and hesitant, so as to be his safe haven. You can also go out to work, usually let him also participate in family activities, not just you alone as if singing a one-man show, the purpose of this is to make him also empathize, between husband and wife, what is needed is mutual understanding, not just a person who never-ending giving and over-tolerance.
You should expand your life circle, not only around him and the child, but also need your own social circle, so that your life can be more fulfilling, and you can also inject fresh elements, so that you will not feel bored after a long time. As for the children's affairs, since there are grandparents with them, you should believe in the elderly, they are also very rare treasures, you don't have to worry too much, sometimes you should let go of what you should put down, and you must fully trust.
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Of course, it is not only your personal reason that there are problems in marriage and relationship, but when two people get married and have children, life changes a lot. Women are more focused on taking care of their children and families, while men are still the same as before. In this way, the ideas of two people will be very different.
Communication and mutual understanding are important in marriage, and without understanding, it is difficult to maintain the relationship.
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Ignore him, change it yourself, it's better to leave when you have a child?
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When we fall in love with someone, we tend to pin our hopes on the other person. In fact, marriage requires two people to move forward together, if you just want the other party to bring you happiness, then not only will you not get happiness, but you will also lose this relationship.
The best marriage must be a trillion or frank is two people going hand in hand, you are very good and I am not bad, don't expect to let the other party be your role model and become his little fan. When you give up the emotional initiative, the relationship is in jeopardy. Collapse.
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So the theme of this story is the futile struggle of a soul who does not want to admit that she has died, and she wants to defy the laws of nature to restore the lost life of Langdan, restore the lost love, and make up for the damage she once brought to her son. And all this is destined for her to fall into the purgatory created by her own heart, and the endless cycle continues.
Enjoy the bank of the Tsing Yi River, the fog pine in the wind, like a white-haired witch, fluttering in the breeze, watching the snow in the west, praying for the wind and rain in the coming year, wishful auspicious meaning, looking at the snowy plateau, Mount Everest is snow-capped, the scenery is unlimited, the Brahmaputra River turns the sincerity of spring, summer and autumn into the best wishes together, flowing to the north and south of the motherland, holding the snow lotus flowers on the Tianxiang round trembling mountain, picking up the red beans of the South Mountain, sending them to the lover, as the love object of pure love, picking a piece of shy red maple, Give a chrysanthemum with a sonorous frost, bless the winter warm and happy, happy and sweet, all the best wishes, bathed in the bright sunshine, wish the cause to flourish, the waterfront, the poetry of the ancient rhyme, standing in the smoke wave of the residual leaves, holding hands to see each other, the year of the defeat of the moon between the flowers to meet the sunshine, thousands of flowers, there are different kinds of red, only outstanding flowers, the wind is dry, the plain heart will also be quiet and earthly, the wind and the moon are soaked in frost, red dust and rain and red makeup, the only blooming cold branches, the remnants of the fragrance, a little vicissitudes, Leave a path of pride and comfort.
Autumn is deep, withered flowers have removed red makeup, autumn water is lonely and thin, ink dyes a pool of broken shadows, strings are cool, yesterday's stunning allure, quiet place, a wisp of lost fragrance, precipitated the glitz, the seeds of silence, temporarily hidden in the moss under the waves, to be melted by the ice and snow, reunited, a pool of clear water, white lotus flowers, that open and elegant style, planted in the heart, perhaps to the mood painted with plain painting, withering will have a soft rhyme, the wind to see the shallow dai, the residual face condensed, three points of life, with ** The fragrance of the fragrance, will be the dream of rebirth, quietly erect, the dream of a pool of residual lotus near the present and the past, borrowing the flow of death, falling a few quiet ink, under the eyes, the wind urges the dry and fluffy fragrance, the heart Mo is washed with lead Hua is also prominent, accompanied by the winter girl to walk in nature, let the soul be comfortable and cultivated, cherish the rare leisure time, put a piece of autumn leaves, carefully sandwiched between the pages of the winter lyrical prose collection, collected in the mind of memory, at this moment, in my eyes, only winter only warm sun, she is simple.
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Because you don't have a common language, you have to go your separate ways. ,
Listening to what you said, I believe that the answer is already in your heart, but you are not willing to face it bravely, I think: some men in the world are never suitable to be husbands, who is unlucky with whom, because they have no responsibility in their hearts, this is the most taboo in marriage, and the man you met is such a responsible man, the grievances you have suffered over the years can be imagined... You must now decisively make the right choice, make a decision, can not let your diligence and kindness to tolerate his life's filth, since you are so self-reliant in your career, I believe you are also a capable woman, I advise you to divorce him first and then fight for the maintenance of your daughter, your daughter will understand you when she grows up, maternal love is great, but you must not bury the happiness of your life because of great maternal love. >>>More
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The trust between the two parties is the most important condition for the longevity of a relationship. Just imagine that love is ultimately marriage, and if two people who live together don't even have the most basic trust, how should they live? Suspicious of each other all day long, even if there is nothing for a long time, they will feel that this is the truth, and they keep hinting in their hearts, so that there is no way to continue walking; There is also a contradiction to be solved immediately, this thing can not be delayed, if the uncomfortable thing in your heart is not solved immediately, it will be a crack in your heart for a long time, and as time goes by, this crack will become more and more and bigger, and it will be too late to regret it when it is irretrievable in the end.