Under the premise that the bride price and dowry are equal and the cost of the RV is equally shared,

As we all know, generally speaking, a person only has one marriage in his life, so everyone is very cautious about such a major life event as marriage. Many girls' point of view is that they must find a secure person when they get married, they must have a house, a car and a deposit, after all, so as not to reduce their quality of life. In addition, there is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women, and the number of girls is less than that of boys, so a phenomenon has been born in society, that is, girls marrying are generally high bride price, hundreds of thousands, or even millions, and even require men to have a house and a car.

Their reason seems to be very strong, that is, the child has the father's surname. Then some people may have such a point of view, that is, if the bride price and dowry are equal, and the cost of the house and car is shared equally, can the child take the mother's surname? As a boy, would you mind this?

Next, as a boy, let's talk about this issue and see if the boy will mind if the boy will mind the child taking his mother's surname under the premise of equal dowry and equal sharing of RV expenses, and what is the reason behind it. Of course, what I want to say is that such a point of view is only for discussion, because in real life, the vast majority of girls will not be equal to your bride price and dowry, and the cost of the RV will be shared equally.

If it is said that under the premise of equal dowry and equal sharing of RV expenses, I think that the fairest way is to have two children, and then one child takes the father's surname and the other child takes the mother's surname. If this is the case, I am afraid that all boys will not mind that their children take their mother's surname. After all, the vast majority of boys are pursuing fairness, and this situation is completely fair, the girl pays the money and shares the pressure of marriage, so it can be said that it is completely reasonable to have a child with the mother's surname, so in this case, almost all boys will not mind the child with the mother's surname.

If there is only one child after marriage, there may be boys who mind that the child takes the mother's surname, after all, he also pays the economic cost for the marriage, why should the child have the mother's surname. Of course, if a boy doesn't pay much attention to the child's surname, he may not mind the child taking the mother's surname, but this situation is generally rare, because the boy generally attaches great importance to the child's surname and will not easily ignore this issue, because even if he doesn't pay attention to it, his parents will also attach great importance to it.

In fact, this problem boils down to a matter of rights and obligations, marriage is a matter of 2 people, if only the boy pays everything and bears all the pressure, and the girl doesn't want to bear anything at all, just wants to empty the gloves white wolf, then even if 2 people get married, the marriage will be full of contradictions. This is why many girls ask boys to come up with hundreds of thousands of dowries before marriage, buy a car and buy a house, and when boys face the insistence of girls, they would rather choose to give up than force it. However, I coldly thought that the matter of marriage, as a man, could be more or all, but I had to take into account my own economic strength, and if the woman really wanted to get married, there was really no need to insist on asking for a sky-high bride price.

I don't think boys will mind their children taking their mother's surname, so it is also very balanced in boys' hearts, so it doesn't matter whose surname the child takes.

Mind, because it is a Chinese tradition for children to follow their father's surname, and most men care about this very much.

Since ancient times, almost all children in China have taken their father's surname. In recent years, there have been cases where one of the two children in the family has taken the mother's surname. I think the name is just a code name, and the surname of the child should be communicated well between the husband and wife before marriage or even before pregnancy, so as not to damage the relationship.

Most of them are more mindful, because of this surname issue, many men think that it is a symbol of inheritance, so they oppose taking their mother's surname.

It varies from person to person, some people mind, some people don't. It is important for parents to participate in their children's education together and give their children a healthy family education environment

This question is very strange, does the child need to rely on interests to take the mother's surname? If you don't mind, he will mind the son-in-law, and he won't mind the conditions that he doesn't mind.

Hello agree, now the law stipulates that the salary of the jellyfish is okay with the father, who said that it must be the father's surname.

Yes, this is to recruit a son-in-law.

As a boy, I don't think I generally agree, especially now that urban families are basically only children, and you are like this, and the parents of boys' families also disagree. Unless you are looking for a family with many children in a rural area, such as a family with several boys, and the family is relatively poor and cannot afford to marry a wife, you will be considered in this situation.