What do young people need to be aware of when they live with their parents?

Well, it's good to work hard, young people should sacrifice anything for their parents, they should be considerate of them, feel sorry for them, as long as they work hard, they will definitely be able to get their approval!

Specifically, such as paying attention to their schedule and keeping quiet when they are resting; Be mindful of their physical health and mood; Pay attention to getting along with other relatives and give them face; Pay attention to their eating habits and make more things that they like, are delicious and good for their health; Take care to ask them for their advice, even if you don't need it, but make them feel valued. Note that when there are festivals or special days, you can try to consider them as much as possible when there are entertainment activities, so that they can also participate! And so on and so forth......In short, just put your mind to it! Whether it is your own parents or your lover's parents, you will get along with each other with a grateful heart, and you will definitely be able to handle anything!

The most important thing is to learn to live, in fact, it is the same as anyone who lives, what they want most is that their children can live independently without their parents, of course, it is better to take care of them, and they cannot be forced to change their lifestyle.

The first point can be done with snacks, and the last point, I would like to explain, for example, if they like to eat pickled or fried food, you can restrict it for unhealthy reasons, but you must not force it to abstain, such as refusing it in a simple and crude way.

You may have been a child, but you are a modern youth with a higher education and a history of democratic and scientific management, so you can't take a hard line against them.

If you pay attention to what I'm emphasizing, I think it's the perfect family, but young people have to put in a lot of energy and time, and I don't know if you can accept it.

1.Family needs: If the family needs to leave a reprieve to take care of the elderly alone, and they are unable to live independently, then living with their parents may be a good choice.

4.Cost of living: If you can save a lot of money on living costs such as rent, utilities, gas, etc., then you can consider living with your parents.

It is important to note that whether or not to live with your parents after marriage is a very personal choice that depends on the needs and preferences of the family. Before making a decision, you should fully understand the possible benefits and risks of each option and make the best decision based on your situation.

Whether young people should live with their parents or not depends on the reality of each family.

A basic principle is that it is best for young people and their parents to take care of each other, and at the same time to have their own independent life and mental space.

On the one hand, no matter how old a child grows, in the eyes of parents, a child will always be a child. Therefore, it is easy for young people to form dependence on their parents when they live together, which hinders the establishment of young people's independent and self-reliant qualities.

If young people can live on their own, they can avoid the care of their parents, and develop their ability to live independently and independently.

On the other hand, for busy young people who are already working, especially those with children, parents can help young people with household chores and help take care of children, which can alleviate a lot of stress in life. Without the support of their parents, young couples living in modern cities who need to work hard for two people face great challenges in raising children. Many young mothers have to quit their jobs to take care of their children.

It is very hard for such a couple to work hard to support their lives on the one hand, and to fully afford the growth of their children on the other hand. Therefore, living with your parents is also a kind of happiness in a certain sense.

In this process, special attention should be paid to the living space and spiritual space between parents and young couples, if possible, you can help parents buy a house in the same community, usually help to take care of the children, but at night the parents live alone, so that parents and young couples have a certain amount of independent and free space, and can also fully take care of each other.

Of course, this also depends on the constraints of realistic conditions. In today's era of soaring housing prices, parents and young people can only live together due to the economic situation, so it is recommended that young people be more sympathetic to their parents' difficulties and psychological difficulties, and pay attention to helping parents create a happy family atmosphere.

Young people have the lifestyle of young people, older people have the lifestyle of older people, and young people like to go to bed late and wake up late and sleep late. And what about the elderly? They like to go to bed early and get up early, they don't like to sleep lazy, so the lifestyle is different, naturally there will be some estrangement and contradictions, then we should not live with the elderly.

Some young people feel that living with their parents and taking care of each other can be more filial to their parents and be by their parents' side, but this is a good starting point, but the idea is wrong.

The elderly are accustomed to their own lifestyle, such as eating lightly, sleeping, not wanting to have too much movement, and can't sleep when the lights are a little bright, but what about young people? I like to go to bed late and wake up late and stay up late, so this lifestyle is incompatible with the elderly.

It is said that the fragrance of the distance, the smell of the near, if we want to have the opportunity to take care of the elderly, then we often go home to see, always play ** care for the elderly, in fact, this is better than living together. It could be a little better.

When young people grow up, they have their own opinions on many things, and the age gap between them and their parents is too big, and there will be many generation gaps. If you live together, there will definitely be a lot of differences of opinion, which will cause a lot of problems.

If living together, young people are in a dilemma. Listening to my parents, I feel uncomfortable, I want to listen to my own words, and I am worried that my parents will be angry, and I am worried that my parents will be old and angry and hurt my body.

If they don't live together, the parents will always think about the child, and when the child comes home, he will also serve him with good food and drink, and if there is an occasional disagreement, he will be a little more tolerant of the short time he stays at home.

Try not to live together, because there is still a lot of generation gap between children and parents, if possible, you can live closer, but don't live together.

Especially after young people get married, the conflict between parents and children will become more complicated, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which can easily affect the harmony of the family. It's okay to hang out with young people often, but don't live with them, as they can cause big problems over time.

For many young people, the greetings and nagging of their parents, for the most part, will have an impact on the young person's daily life, or will quarrel with their parents, and in general, there are few benefits to living together.

Living together, young people will become lazy and like to enjoy. When the elderly struggle for such a good life, they may also look at their house and feel that it is very good, so they will not struggle. Therefore, it is necessary to understand that you have nothing at the moment, and you are barely living with your parents without financial means, or you still have to find a job and make your mind independent.

That's how you can be happy. Don't complain that you live alone, you have to struggle, sometimes you eat pickles and rice, etc., you must know that happiness comes from struggle.

Sometimes, when your life is very busy, you will feel that your life is free, some thoughts hate parental interference, if you live with your parents, the conflict is also very complicated, and it is easy to be lazy to do, so at the age of 20 to 30, it is better to learn to make friends, learn to control your own life, rather than let your parents help you make decisions. Therefore, young people should have the vigorous momentum of young people, be positive, and have the spirit of daring to explore. Not suitable for living with seniors.

Living together can easily lead to a variety of conflicts. People who are old in the absence of diseases are not suitable to live with young people. The elderly have their own ideas, pay attention to the body, pay attention to health, and young people if they often live with the elderly, they will also pay attention to physical health.

Should not live together. The ideology of the elderly is more traditional and conservative. Living with older people, feeling that your freedom has been interfered with, and sometimes your own work, they have to help you make decisions, which can make you lose your independence and the courage to explore the future.

Older people don't have the same lifestyle as younger people. Sometimes the thinking of the elderly is biased towards aging, and the thinking of young people is biased towards the young, and they will also interfere with the dressing up, so that you are always out of breath. Therefore, we should keep a certain distance from each other, so that we can get along happily with each other.

"Should" by whose standard do you want to follow? "There are 100 Hamlets in the hearts of 100 people", there is no such thing as should or should not, this is just a choice of the individual, the key is to see whether you are willing or not, and are willing to take full responsibility for your choice. There are pros and cons to choosing whether or not to live with your parents, and the downside is that you will face various problems or challenges, depending on what you need more at the moment and what price you can pay for it.

The choice is in your own hands.

If there is a condition, you can help your parents buy a house in the same community, usually help take care of the children, but at night the parents live alone, so that the parents and the young couple have a certain amount of independent and free space, and can also take care of each other completely.

1.Don't like to be controlled by your parents.

My parents are very controlling, and they want me to do everything they ask me to do, because they think they are from the past and have experience, so they are right, and for your own good, you have to do it.

Even if there are things that are not right or wrong, parents will demand this. What about me? It's a special ego person, and he doesn't like to be controlled by others, so he doesn't want to live with them.

2.Don't like to hear their chattering and nagging.

My parents love to nag, maybe because of their age! They will repeat something many times. I like to be quiet, I like to read books and write by myself, so their nagging makes me feel annoying and noisy, so I don't want to live with them.

3.I'm not used to their diet.

My parents are older, because of high blood pressure, high blood sugar, and not much exercise, so the food they eat is light and easy to absorb. I'm not young, but I like to eat chewy food, so I don't want to live with them.

The reasons why I don't want to live with them are basically these, after all, they are my own parents, and even if I don't live with them, I still love them very much and still honor them.

Every few days, I went to see them, cheered with them, chatted, asked them about their physical condition, and told me some precautions that I was not sure about.

3.Young people today don't think the same way as their parents. With the development of the times, there are many emerging professions in all walks of life, especially in the Internet industry. But in the eyes of many parents, it is some industry that is not doing business.

The routine of work and rest is different. Some of the contemporary young people like to stay up late and go to bed in the morning. In the eyes of most parents, it will be considered extremely irregular. Wake up early in the morning and rest early at night.

Lifestyle habits are different. Many young people are more casual, they don't like to do housework very much, they don't like relatives to mingle, and they pay more attention to their own ideas. Most parents let them do the housework, interact with relatives, and care more about what others think.

Nowadays, many young people are reluctant to live with their parents after getting married, and I don't know what everyone thinks, but I think it's better to live separately. The lifestyle of the young man is different from that of the elderly, and it doesn't matter if she lives with her parents, but her other half, she must not be used to suddenly walking into an unfamiliar environment. There will inevitably be stumbles in life, as younger generations, we can't compete with our elders, and after a long time, we will leave pimples in our hearts, and slowly there will be a distance from this family.

Especially when the young couple quarreled, it wasn't a big deal, but once the in-laws intervened, the matter would be endless. Think about it from another angle, other girls are married to live with you, not to be angry with your family. What is the meaning of marriage?

It is to quit their own family and start a new family. Rather than forcing one party to fit into the other's family. Of course, it's not just because of these that we live separately, there are three reasons for this, and everyone will understand after reading it.

Ease the burden on parents. If you live with your parents, when you have a child, many families will usually bring the child to the elderly after the full moon. Originally, the age of the parents changed to Sakurazen, and after the children got married, they should enjoy the blessings.

But in order to reduce your burden, not only do you have to work hard to take care of your children, but also add your own pension and pension to your children. If parents live on their own, they will have a lot of time to live their old age. They can square dance with their friends and go on a trip, which is what they should live.

The method of educating children by the elderly is not advisable. From my point of view, I bring my own children, and the older generation of people can't accept the way of educating my children anyway. When grandparents are more accustomed to their children, they are simply ancestors.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the elderly loving their children. However, for the sake of the child's future education and growth, I feel that it is better to give him certain norms. Parents must always be respected, and it is impossible not to live together or dislike them.

Everything has to be done from a practical point of view, and if all the conditions are more suitable, it is better to live separately. It is easy to cause more family conflicts. If two generations live together, there will definitely be a big generation gap, but it cannot be said that whose concept is completely right.

Therefore, the two generations are at odds with each other. For example, some children like to pursue a quality of life, while parents will feel too luxurious, and some parents always like to eat overnight meals, but their children feel that it is unhealthy.

Parents are accustomed to going to bed early and getting up early, and their children like to stay up late and want to sleep lazy on weekends, and parents will say that they are too lazy, which will eventually cause all kinds of conflicts because of their parents' verbosity.