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I can feel your discomfort because I was like you for a while. I'm always more introverted, and when I was in elementary school, I had a good time with my classmates, and I was also more humorous
But when I went to junior high school, I didn't fit in, I was embarrassed, I didn't dare to communicate with them, I was more introverted, I had no topic with them, I was often embarrassed to walk together, others talked to me, sometimes I really didn't know what to say, embarrassed, just smirked, (I knew that smiling was very important) and then I got familiar with it (sometimes I really need to talk about Korean dramas, handsome guys, or put some teacher's gossip, buy candy to share with everyone), my humor is also vividly played and the people in the class are very good. In fact, I'm usually really afraid of embarrassment and really have no topic.,Don't dare to fight with others.,I'm afraid of speechless embarrassment.。。。
Now it's high school again.,It's the same mistake again.,The hidden introversion is showing up again.,Lonely and depressed and lonely for most of the semester.,But it's okay.,And use the same method to get along with a few people (mainly humor)。。
I think you should be more humorous, understand what others talk about, it really won't affect your personality, maybe you will really fall in love, more interest in love...
Good luck!!
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No, you just need to make friends with your heart! But don't be 100% sincere when you get to know each other first! Wait to get along for a while to see how this friend behaves! Do things you can! Don't be deliberate, deliberate is not a true friend.
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1. Find time to make friends.
Nowadays, people's life is getting faster and faster, and if you want to consciously make friends, you may not have so much time, which requires squeezing time. However, it doesn't matter if you can get a precious friendship, even if you sacrifice a little time. Watch one less ** or watch one less TV series, and you will squeeze out the time.
2. Contact each other more.
No matter how good the relationship is, if you don't contact for a long time, you will inevitably be cold. Don't forget to call a friend if you have something to do, a greeting can deepen the relationship, which is one of the essential ways to maintain friendship.
3. The requirements for friends do not have to be the same.
Among all your friends, each person has a different personality, temperament, and way of dealing with others. Therefore, you don't have to demand the same thing from your friends, and don't impose your ideas on others.
4. Don't worry about everything.
Excessive demands are easy to hurt people, especially between friends, they should be more tolerant and generous, if everything is careful, then it is difficult to make long-term friends.
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1.Participate in social activities: Participating in social activities is a great way to make friends and meet new people at events, such as participating in club activities, social gatherings, interest groups, etc.
2.Participate in extracurricular activities: Participating in extracurricular activities is also a good way to make friends, and you can meet new people in activities, such as participating in sports meetings, literary competitions, social practice, etc.
3.Participate in online activities: Participating in online activities is also a great way to make friends and meet new people online, such as participating in online chat rooms, social networks, forums, etc.
4.Participate in practical activities: Participating in practical activities is also a good way to make friends, and you can meet new people in practical activities, such as participating in volunteer activities, social practice, etc.
5.Participate in public welfare activities: Participating in public welfare activities is also a good way to make friends, and you can meet new friends in public welfare activities, such as participating in charity fundraising, public welfare activities, etc.
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Don't always care about what others think, be brave and show your character.
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Sincerity is a nirvana for making friends, but you should also pay attention**.
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Man has always existed as an individual in this world. There are many things that need to be borne and solved by yourself. Therefore, it is very important for everyone to learn to be alone and learn to express themselves.
For yourself, the people around you have the potential to become your friends, but it depends on how you treat them. The participants in the crowd, as well as others, will not refuse to allow a stranger to participate, let alone you're not a stranger. All you have to do is get involved while they're chatting, offer something to them when they need it, and ask others to give you something when you need it.
Together, we can help accomplish something. It's a friendship, a partnership. What you have to do is to change that kind of isolation.
As long as you can change this state, others will naturally accept you easily. On the other hand, if you wait for someone to 'invite' you to participate, you will be discouraged by this sense of isolation. As long as you can accept everything to everyone, more importantly, you must use practical actions to make people understand their changes.
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How to communicate. Answer: Hello, the practice is actually more important than the statement, such as doing this 1Making a good impression and making a good impression on your friends is the first step in starting a friendship! When you make friends with others, you must give them a good impression of you!
For example, you can make others feel your sincerity, you can rely on, your positivity, your enthusiasm, etc.! Let your good qualities remain in the hearts of your friends! You'll be able to become good friends with others sooner!
02 Remember other people's names You must remember other people's names, if you remember other people's names, then others will feel his importance in your heart, then he will naturally become good friends with you! Just imagine, would you be willing to be good friends with someone who can't even remember your name? I guess you don't want to!
So on the other hand, if you want to be good friends with others, then you must remember their names, which will make others feel that they are important in your heart! 03 Take the initiative to help others, how can a person who is willing to help others not have friends? Right?
In my opinion, if you want to have a real friendship, then you have to take the initiative to help others! A person who helps others will have many, many friends around him! He will live a very happy life!
04 PassionIf you want to have a lot of friends, then you must learn to be warm! A passionate person must have a large number of good friends around him! I'm one such person, I have a group of good friends around me because I'm a very passionate person!
My passion makes others feel warm! So they would love to be friends with me!
Ask questions and friends about what they need.
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Always smile at people, understand others, and forgive others.
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Find a reason to talk to your new classmates first, and then slowly develop a friendship.
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Be a low-key person and learn in a high-profile manner.
You don't have a strong sense of purpose, you use it now, you are good to others first, that is, altruism is the best self-interest.
It is good to speak your heart, but the one who tells it should be careful. Don't tell them so easily. The people you choose can't just be a little familiar, I think there won't be only a few people who are familiar with you.
Respect for differences: Everyone in the class is an individual, with different thoughts, beliefs, cultural backgrounds, etc., we should respect each other's differences, do not impose our own ideas on others, and do not criticize or belittle the values of others. For example, if your fellow doesn't eat spicy food, you shouldn't force him to try spicy food. >>>More
1. Be a good friend to your child: Parents play the most important role in the process of building a true friendship with their baby, because friendship means caring for others, understanding and reacting to social information, and parents are the first to deal with their children. Respond quickly to the baby's needs, deal with patience, and often "talk" with the baby, which is very helpful for the baby to make friends in the future. >>>More
If you want to become a friend, you have to make friends with a heart and the mentality of becoming a friend, friends are formed slowly unconsciously, even if you haven't seen a friend, as long as you have seen a word, it is also a friend, if you say a true friend, you have to use time to understand him! Go ahead and treat your friends with a sincere heart!