My boyfriend and I are already engaged, but there is a crisis, please help!

You talk to him about what is the reason for not breaking up easily, I believe that you are in love, otherwise you would not be engaged, are you right, talk to him seriously, after all, it is not easy to walk together. We must learn to be humble to each other, learn to tolerate each other, and learn to forgive each other. If it doesn't work, then break up, don't wait until it's too late after you get married.

It's useless for you to ask for help here, you should ask your boyfriend now and talk to each other properly.

Learn to solve problems on your own. Since you can't communicate emotionally, it's time to get closer to his thoughts.

If he doesn't even want to give you a chance to change, then what's the point of continuing to go on with him?

Belch. Since he said he can't communicate with you emotionally.

So can you change yourself?

Let's have a good conversation with him. .

Although I don't know what your temper is.

I think this still has something to do with a person's temper.

So. You can find a quiet place.

Communicate ideas with each other. .

Believe in the foundation of your previous relationship.

Now this little problem can be easily solved. .

So. You will be happy. .

Bless you all!

If you feel like you still have each other psychologically, then find a way to solve your current problem. Don't miss out on your true love because of a little contradiction! If you really feel that this relationship has come to an end, the long pain is better than the short pain, which is good for you and his family.

Think about it, if you get married now, if you leave in the future, won't the harm to your family be greater? Now think about it.

Even you won't hurt yourself, will you hurt your parents? It's your business, if you can't communicate, don't be so hasty next time you get engaged, learn more!

Have a good talk! Don't break up, talk about why the relationship problem was caused, and then solve it like this I advise you not to just look at it for a while, think about the future,,, think that I used to be in the same situation as you, but I regret it now.

Don't divide it, even if it's for your family.

I'm also getting engaged My boyfriend's family conditions are not very good, so I only need a ring, but although he has no money, he insists on buying it for me, and he doesn't want it if I want to buy him clothes. So I still feel very happy, and talking about money still hurts my feelings. The money for the engagement is for the woman's parents, and they will also spend it on you when you get married in the future.

I heard you say that your boyfriend cares about money very much, far more than he cares about you, and the two of them will live a long life in the future, so I suggest you think about it carefully.

This man is not mature enough, such a serious question is still a joke, he is a man, he will agree to the questions or conditions raised by his future woman, and he will not want to reciprocate, he has been raised by fucking people, and the yellow flower girl in his 20s has been given to you, you still want money, you are the fifth diamond king, think about the girl, this is not a joke, he didn't think about marriage clearly, observe it slowly, half a year, see what he thinks.

The reality is cruel, it can only show that in his heart, your feelings are not as important as money, many people are like this, very helpless, marriage is a big deal, I advise you to think twice, the importance of money, after marriage, it will be even worse.

Don't look at his hippie smiling face, what he says is from his heart.

Something I figured it out as soon as it was too late. It's a shame for you.

It's not about breaking up, otherwise you'll suffer after marriage.

I don't think so, some things still depend on how you understand them. Think about it. I wish you happiness.

You don't have to be there to participate in someone else's engagement!

I am engaged to boyfriend and who I am not going to do!

If there is a problem, solve it! Is it serious enough not to want to get engaged? In fact, don't get engaged and get married so quickly, if it's really like this, don't be in a hurry not to get engaged, postpone it first, so that both parties are good**.

I think it's better to find a time to talk about this situation.

Because you're going to live together, you can't text for the rest of your life, right?

Why bother to convey fiery emotions with something that has no temperature?

It's always something to face, and if you don't want to lose, then be bold!

The customs and habits of each place are different, and it is best to have what your future husband has always wanted, and it can be kept for a long time, so that your future husband will think of you every time he sees it, which is conducive to love.

Don't buy it, the engagement should be bought for you by your boyfriend, and you still marry a man who doesn't even understand this, is the landlord dizzy. Think about it, it's the first time I've seen such a question.

If you want to be romantic, buy a double tour. If you want to be funny, buy a set of kitchen supplies. If you have a lot of money, you can buy a car.

A place and a custom, in the city is not very particular, it mainly depends on what the man likes, and he has to make the future parents-in-law happy.

You have a good talk with him, if it doesn't work, pull it down, there is no grass at the end of the world!

I'll tell you, this kind of thing, you better let it go first, if he loves you, loves you, will he quarrel with you, he will not fight with you, it will not be no, and if he loves you, he will not think about it for you, no, some things can be seen from small things, whether he loves you or not, and besides, he must have treated you like this more than once several times, and that person can't get used to it, you know, when you take him seriously, he doesn't pay attention to you, when you leave, he will automatically look for you, and if you leave, he can also prove that he loves you or not, if he loves you, he will keep you, and if he doesn't love him, he will let go Isn't this just knowing that you don't want to let go, but he doesn't value you or care about you anymore What are we doing with a cheeky face? Women themselves have to be worth some money Do you remember "What is love, love is just a beautiful calf when you are lonely and bored" Giving up is also beautiful I hope you can understand it Think twice ?

It's hard to say about feelings, if you find the right thing, you're very happy, and if you find the wrong one, you have to regret it for a lifetime, you can ask him why, if you can't answer, you always feel like he's running away from something, you find a chance to talk together, this is the best solution.

My suggestion is to propose to him to break up, attitude is everything, push the gaffe to the edge, look at his attitude, solve it all at once, and save everyone pain (absolutely effective, long experience).

, I just graduated, and I'm in a hurry. Now there are many people who are not married in twenty-seven or eight. Men are originally late bloomers, so what's wrong?

Do you want to find someone to marry, or do you really love him, have you thought about it? If he leaves you if he doesn't marry you, then all you want is someone to marry you, not someone who loves you.

I can only tell you the first step, first to guide the exact reason why you don't want to get engaged, this is the core problem, and it will be solved if you know it.

Let it go, I don't like boys who don't have a sense of responsibility.

I'm a newbie and my answer is to give him money. Thank you**.

Your boyfriend is really, don't tell your family that you are dating online, you can make up some stories casually! Or it can be introduced by others, if you really like someone, it should be like this, indicating that you don't have a certain position in his mind, you better give up! If you don't give up, you'll be more miserable, and if you want to force it back, will you feel happy?

Sometimes when a woman is in love, this IQ is the lowest, and he is already like this, so why should you? It will only make yourself more painful, not that all men in the world are love**, but that you don't polish your eyes, two people together should wipe their eyes well, and wait until they get married to put it down, usually in the process of dating, you have to think a little longer, don't want him to be good to you, you think that he is your life, to understand all of him, including his family and social relations, only to fully understand and then to interact with him. That way you get what you want.

Happiness is in your own hands, go ahead, even if the answer you get in the end is what you don't want, at least you have faced it bravely, while you haven't fallen deeper, I believe you will find a better one, he doesn't want you to be he is not blessed, come on.

If the man you love thinks of you more than your mother, then your status in his heart will never be as good as his mother!

Forget about it, find a man who loves you better than his mother!

Eh, feelings are so cruel In this world, family is always important, and he is engaged You still want to open a little I know it's difficult, but he doesn't belong to you anymore Even if you love him and love a whole time, maybe for him It's just a once Reality is better than love Now it's better to let go chic Hold back the heartache Wait for the person you are right to be happy Please believe that there is true love in this world.

Time can heal all the pain for you.

I sincerely hope you are happy.

It seems that lz you are from Yunnan, and so am I. After reading what the landlord wrote, in fact, the matter has been laid out, but now you can't let go. According to what you said, you will not achieve anything, and he has clearly given up.

Your best now is to go out for a walk, get some fresh air, and think about how you used to live well without him, why can't you in the future?

Just think of it as a love affair of youth, maybe he is not your thing, adjust your mentality, be the best of you, and be better waiting for you in front!

I wish you happiness.

What parents ordered is bullshit, such a man doesn't understand what else you have to worry about If he really loves you, he will not hesitate to go up and down the oil pot He is filial and not let him kill his mother If he loves you, he will fight for it no matter what, you don't have to be stupid Silly women will not be happy for a lifetime.

Online dating? No wonder! Does he really love you?

It seems that at this point, it is impossible to retain, don't say that now, what you have to do now is to let go of yourself, this earth is not gone, who will stop rotating, take it and put it down, you have to cherish yourself, cry if you want to cry, just feel good in your heart, think about the people who are worse than you, there are more people...

The Internet is disgusting again.

I love him very much ·· You love someone else very much when you're engaged.

Who do you love, do you know a little bit about gains and losses, although I'm sorry, I just can't forget a person now, but Dark Mu Sarui I've been telling the people around me to give up happily It's also a new beginning, okay There are people who are good to you in reality, can you pay attention to it.

A friend of mine met with her boyfriend online after B lived together m than I don't know what the man's name was dumped in March together.

I think women are all for love...

Angry...

Injuries are no big deal, and time will heal your wounds.

According to you, you've only been together for two months, which is the sweet period, and you should be glad to leave under such circumstances, because you have good memories.

The right time, when you meet the wrong person, it is helpless, and it is the wrong time to continue to move forward, and when you meet the right person, it is practice, and you look forward to the next time when you will do the wrong thing, and you will meet the wrong person, needless to say.

The right time, meeting the right person, is happiness.

There is no one who can't live without anyone, but it's just sad for a while, and I want to open up, otherwise what, is it for a man to die?

Fate, fate is still yours, no fate is not forced, and you will be safe with what you encounter.

Do whatever you want, but ask for a clear conscience and don't regret it for the rest of your life.

Hey, it's too hard to figure out the emotional thing... Do you really, really love him? Kindness is like water, great love is speechless!

Hey, another one was dumped, sympathy.

Forget it, he's given up, what else can he say...

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

It's all fate, don't be too sad! Your destined person hasn't arrived yet! Will come across a better one!

I'm about to get engaged, or you can dress nicely, give him an unexpected surprise, call a husband in advance, happy birthday, send a kiss, and prepare a watch as a gift.

He knows for sure you're going to behave on your birthday, so it's hard to be surprised, and here's a piece of advice: book a ticket to the place he usually wants to visit that day and go on a trip.

The first thing you need to do is tell your boyfriend that you're not available that day

Suddenly I want to arrange for you to go on a business trip

Then suddenly appeared in front of him and surprised him.

Surprise, that's when you look at something he usually likes but doesn't have the time or time to buy. (If you can't think of it, it's proof you're not close enough).

Sometimes men don't ask for so much ... You are the best gift.

Open a room and decorate it with balloons, glow sticks, candles, and other decorations, and I've tried it, and it works well.

See if he has a very special hobby and give him a relevant gift that he can keep well. Let him remember this moment of the year.

It depends on what he likes. I think that giving gifts according to his preferences can make him like them more. Because sometimes what we think is good is not necessarily what others want. Wishing you all happiness and happiness!

Arrange an outing to give him something he likes that he hasn't gotten for a long time. By the way, he bought a bouquet of carnations for his mother and thanked his mother for bringing him into this world.