About the psychology of the child s rebellious period, the child s rebellious psychology

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1. Keep calm, don't scold your child, or even fight with him, because I guess you didn't hit him when you were young, or rarely hit him. At this time, the time for you to hit him has passed, which means that you have missed the opportunity to educate your children with "hitting". On this issue, I think that when a child is young, it is also necessary to "hit" appropriately, and if he makes a serious mistake, he has to find another way.

2. Let children know how to respect the old and love the young. Nowadays, many children are "little suns", and their parents are also caring for them in every possible way like the stars holding the moon, so that children lack the sense of filial piety to their parents, and when they are rebellious and unhappy, they will talk back, quarrel, and even do something with their parents. There is no concept of respecting elders and parents.

Therefore, parents should let their children understand the relationship between themselves and their parents, know that their parents are the elders, the people who give birth to and raise their dearest, and cannot reverse priorities, disrespect their parents, and mess around at home. You can't talk back and quarrel with your parents.

I want to rebel and want to contradict my parents, and then I feel that what my parents do is wrong, and I feel that I am the most trendy person.

First of all, children in the rebellious period will have a rebellious psychology in their hearts, and they may resist his requirements for them and too much socialization, and the second point is that children in the rebellious period may be more sensitive, and others' views or colors of him may have greater consequences for him.

Children in the rebellious period, they treat the world more freshly, feel that everything is very curious, want to try everything, but are afraid of being hurt, and are very resistant to what their parents say, usually as soon as parents say about them, they will talk back.

During this period, parents and teachers should have enough understanding of the psychological characteristics of adolescents to better understand what adolescents need, so that their children can pass a healthy time. Parents and teachers must fully understand these characteristics in the rebellious period, so as to correctly spend the important period of the rebellious period for teenagers.

1. Closed. During this period, the inner world of adolescents becomes rich, but they are reluctant to confide in outsiders. Therefore, I will be very eager to have my own separate space, a separate accommodation room, a locked drawer, like to write a diary, and I don't like to talk in front of my elders.

During this period, parents should pay special attention to their children's psychology, but do not be overly disciplined, which will make them disgusted.

2. Praise for sociality. Adolescents are different from childhood in that they show a strong interest in society, want to make positive and negative comments about the problems around them like adults, and become more and more active in social activities. However, if it is not groomed, it is very likely that bad habits such as boredom and truancy and addiction to the Internet will appear.

3. Forward-looking. Adolescent students are full of longing and yearning for development and future, and development and future are the most desirable and broad fields for teenagers. This kind of forward-looking for the future makes teenagers particularly idealistic and eager to pursue self-realization, so parents should also pay more attention to this aspect, understand what their children's ideals are, and encourage their children to have dreams.

Precautions: Everyone will experience adolescence, parents should dialectically look at the child's adolescent rebellious period, its personality and creativity are arbitrarily rising, waiting for the opportunity to publicize; At the same time, many of the ideas formed by children are immature or even extreme, which requires external education to guide children correctly.

The rebellious period usually refers to adolescence, which is about 10 to 20 years old. At this stage, children experience rapid physical, mental, and social changes, and they are in the process of self-exploration and self-identity. Here are some of the psychological traits that a rebellious child may have:

1.Increased self-awareness. Children begin to pay more attention to their inner feelings and thoughts, and begin to think about how to express themselves and construct their personal identity and values.

2.Increased independence. Children want to be able to live more independently, and they don't want to be controlled and interfered by their parents or other adults all the time.

3.Challenges to authority. Children begin to question traditional concepts such as behavior and authority, and will rebel and challenge parents, teachers, etc.

4.Be bold and try new things. As a result of the establishment of personal identities and values, children may be more willing to try new things, including new hobbies, styles, and behaviors.

5.Mood swings. Due to the intensification of internal and external pressures, children's emotions may fluctuate greatly, showing emotions such as anger, irritability, worry, and depression.

It is important to note that these traits may not be present in every child, and the rebellious behaviors they exhibit will vary from person to person. Parents and educators should respect their children's feelings and ideas, while providing them with appropriate guidance and support to help them build a healthy and mature identity and personality.

The occurrence of a reversal period should have the following characteristics:

Irritable. When these girls are upset, they will have conflicts with strangers, and even their own family members. When a girl becomes very irritable, she will not only have conflicts with her family, but also with her teachers and classmates.

Stubborn and stubborn. Insist on a specific thing, even if it is the same in appearance; insist on wearing a certain piece of clothing and a certain pair of shoes, even if it is not in season; You must do what you want to do, otherwise you will cry and make a fuss; Sitting on the ground in public and beating people.

Contradict your parents.

Parents don't do what they ask for, and the more forbidden things they do, the more they have to do them; Ignore your parents and would rather play by yourself than with your parents.

Comparisons. There are many manifestations of rebellious psychology in adolescent girls. When girls reach puberty, they buy a lot of things because they compare themselves with each other.

, challenging rules and authority.

deliberately breaking previously established rules; New demands are constantly being made; Talk to your parents about the conditions, and you must meet the requirements before you are willing to do things.

Depression and low self-esteem tendencies.

Entering adolescence, it is gradually entering the period of social growth, and the people, things, environment, and atmosphere around will affect and determine a girl.

Some children may have survived the regression period smoothly. Very well-behaved, the best out there. May every child and his or her parents live in peace through the period of rebellion.

The rebellious phase refers to the period of transition from childhood to adulthood, usually occurs around the age of 3 to 10 and generally lasts from 3 to 10 years. Children in the rebellious phase usually exhibit the following psychological characteristics:

Increased self-awareness: Children in the rebellious phase begin to develop self-awareness, they want to be able to make their own decisions and do not want others to interfere with their actions. They begin to evaluate themselves and their surroundings and develop a sense of self-esteem and inferiority.

Active thinking: Children in the rebellious stage are active in thinking, they begin to think about problems that seem childish to adults, and try to analyze problems from different angles. They like to think about their lives and are full of hope and hope for the future.

Desire for independence: Rebellious children crave independence, and they do not want to be controlled by their parents or others. They want to be able to make their own decisions and do things independently. They aspire to be an independent individual and take responsibility for their actions.

Mood swings: Rebellious children have mood swings, and they often get depressed or excited about small things. Changes in their mood tend to affect those around them and cause distress to those around them.

The above are some of the psychological traits that may occur in a rebellious child. The rebellious period is the only way for children to grow, although it may cause some distress to parents and children, but it is also an important stage of children's growth. Parents can try to understand and accept their children's changes, respect their children's ideas and choices, provide appropriate help and support to their children, and help them go through the rebellious period smoothly.

The "rebellious period" refers to the period of rebellious behavior and rebellious psychology due to the physiological and psychological reasons of adolescence, usually appearing at the age of 14 to 17. There is often a "critical" attitude and a rebellious psychology of "resistance". Emotional and psychological problems such as extreme speech, irritability, anxiety, depression, and listlessness often occur; Some behaviors are too extreme, such as disgust with school and leaving home, smoking, gambling, drugs, fighting, early love, interpersonal tensions, etc.

There is a polarization in learning, with clear distinctions between good and bad grades, and there are clear differences. Some students who originally had good grades and performance may not be able to keep up with the teaching progress, change their learning attitudes, decline in grades, and have extreme behaviors, becoming "double poor students" in learning and performance. Rebellious period is a common problem among adolescent students, and according to the survey, the incidence of adolescent rebellious psychology in junior high school students is 68 56.

Give more encouragement: children have more or less self-esteem, and rebellious children have stronger self-esteem, do or learn something, always want to do the best, always want to be recognized by parents, if the child has a little achievement to give encouragement, then the child will feel worthy, feel that he has received the attention of others, he will work harder to do everything well.

Empathy: Parents should always empathize, if you are a child, what will you do, if you do the same thing, what do you want, think more from the child's point of view, don't always say that you should do this, should not do that, such words are often coercive and imperative, children do not like to listen to it.

Learn to listen: When your child tells you about something, you should listen patiently and then express your opinion after listening, don't get angry when you listen, and criticize when you are angry. Some children often say:

I don't agree with you, we are not people of the same era. So, how can parents get into the psychology of their children, first of all, they must learn to listen more and enlighten their children more.

Treat children as little adults: Parents don't always think that children are small, not sensible, do everything for him, don't let him eat any hardship, don't eat the bitterness, how can there be sweetness in the bitterness, the child has to experience ups and downs in the process of growing up, don't always see him as an ignorant child, the child's troubles are more than yours. Because now the child's life is very broad, especially now that the Internet is developed, the child knows more and knows more, you should regard him as your friend and respect the child.

In short, parents should learn to communicate with their children by soliciting opinions, so that children will accept, otherwise, children will come against you, and this is how the so-called rebellious children come.