What s the worst thing your parents have ever said to you?

When I was a child, I was beaten by my dad a lot, and the one I remember most clearly was <> after dinner one summer

I was lying in the yard in the shade, forgetting to wash the dishes, and my dad took out a whip that usually beats dogs and walked up to me. Just sit up and yell: I'm not a dog!!

Before I finished speaking, my dad came down with a whip! He scolded in his mouth: What happened when you were a dog?

I blocked it with my hand, and there was a blood mark on my arm! My dad helped me get medicated that night, but the scar was already on my heart and could never be erased.

Introduction: Parents are very important in the hearts of children, any word that parents say will make children believe it, but sometimes parents speak without thinking about these words, will bring great harm to children, I hope that all parents should pay attention to their own way of speaking when communicating with their children, as well as the tone of speech.

When I was young, my parents would often compare myself with other children, and I would take the disadvantages compared to the advantages, in this case, it would definitely not be advantageous, at that time I was particularly angry, why do I always have to compare myself with others, and then I will reply, if you like him, you go to be a mother to others, parents still feel particularly angry, why do children talk so hurtful? But have you ever thought about what you say, how much harm it will bring to the child, and parents will always say, why can't you be like someone else's family, see how many points other people's children have scored this time, how sensible other people's children are, etc., but you must know that such a transaction method can not make the child work harder and harder, it will only hit the child's self-confidence, and he will feel that he is not as good as others.

There is also this case in which the words of the parents are particularly hurtful, for example, forget it, I don't expect you to raise me after I haven't raised your child, in fact, we are discussing a thing before saying this sentence, and insist on making a decision with their own ideas, parents feel that they don't respect him, and they don't understand his thoughts, he feels that this matter is particularly important, and he must listen to him, and then after saying this sentence, he feels very sad, and many parents feel disapproving. He will feel that he is a parent, and it is okay to talk to his child no matter what. But after asking the parents, they thought of wanting to motivate them in this way, hoping that they could handle it well, but for the children, they also need encouragement, they need to affirm, the parents say this, this will only continue to hurt the child, and continue to push the child further.

Sometimes parents will unintentionally say things like what is the use of raising you, or compare me with other children, which hurts me a lot.

The sentence that hurt me the most is that I especially regret giving birth to you. This sentence made me feel that my existence was meaningless, and my parents had denied me, and no one could affirm me, which made me very sad.

The words they said were that giving birth to me was the thing they regretted the most, and I think this sentence is particularly hurtful. I would feel like I wasn't liked by my parents, and I would feel like I was superfluous.

There is no gap between parents and children。Who will remember what is said when they are angry. Actually, I'd love to say no.

I actually remember them all. Parents sometimes think that children have big ideas. I feel that children's memory and comprehension are not good.

I don't think we have much emotion when we encounter this kind of thing. It won't hurt too much.

And because our understanding is not strong, so I don't understand these languages at all. But this understanding is actually wrong. Children may not know much and do not have strong comprehension skills.

But they have a keen sense of insight and sensitivity beyond the ordinary. Able to sensitively and quickly perceive the attitude of his surroundings towards him and his feelings.

For me, "How did I give birth to such a thing as you?"。It's the most vicious thing I've ever heard. It feels like this is first and foremost a denial of me.

Again, it's a denial of me as a person. Be. I was young.

But I'm not ignorant. I also received a serious education. I also came to this world seriously.

I have my own thoughts and dignity, and I may be small, but I can't ignore or even ignore my existence, or my feelings. It's a special horror for me. Sometimes I feel that if I disappear suddenly, no one will care, and even gloat.

A child is a blank slate。He is the most innocent, he comes to this world with anticipation, longing for care and love, he is fragile, his sense of security is all ** in his family, and his family's attitude towards him affects a person's life. I hope that parents will not ignore their children's feelings and that the language that accuses us is not hurtful.

One of the harshest things I've ever heard parents say to their children is: Hurry up and get married, I can't wait to shovel you out like a piece of now. If you stay out of town and don't come back, then we will sever the father-son relationship.

You are lazy and greedy, starve you to death, I won't break the law if I beat you to death, you are tired of studying, Lao Tzu is even more tired...

What you eat and wear is mine, you get out of here! What my mom told me, I'll remember it for the rest of my life.

I remember when I was in elementary school, my dad said to me, "You weren't supposed to be here!" ”。

Now, I heard my father say, "Oops! This child is not normal, IVF! ”

That night, I cried so sadly in my own bed......

My dad said to me, "I knew I didn't give birth to you at the beginning, it was a sin for you and me, I don't care if you want to live or die, even if you go to rob a bank and go to jail, I won't look at you at a glance" I used to be very proud to tell my friends how much my dad loved me, but now his words have made me lose the motivation to live in the world, I feel really tired and tired, is this family as long as I disappear everything will be calm.

"I might as well strangle you if I give birth", "You will be happy if I die", "I dug your ancestral grave in my last life".

My father was the last good, I was very happy, my father doted on me.

I can't wait for you to die quickly, you are tired, Lao Tzu is more tired than you.

My parents didn't say anything bad to me. If your parents accidentally say something that hurts you, you have to put yourself in your parents' shoes and think about it before deciding how to deal with it.

No, I don't think my parents would say anything vicious.

I don't think that can be described in that word what parents say, many parents love their children very much.

You see you're all fat to death, and in the future, if you get married, you'll have to be beaten to death, just pick something like you (these things are said every day).

You don't know what to do!! You're a dog!! How did you give birth to such a?! Hurry up and die! I wish you were dying!! ...There are many, many more, all of which my mother scolded