Can t former lovers really be friends?

Two people in a relationship, often one person is more affectionate than the other, and the person who is affectionate after the breakup is unwilling to be friends again, even if he says he is willing, he just wants to have the possibility of continuing, not really wants to be friends with you.

In this relationship of yours, he is more affectionate than you, but there is no need for you to be friends anymore, at least not in the past few years, let yourself go, let him go, not that you are selfish.

If you would, it would be a very special friend!

You should give him a damn heart to make him feel like he can't get up again!

Let him not try to cross the line, friend this line is ok

If you can't do it, change your phone number, don't hurt him.

I'd rather hurt him for a while, don't hurt him like this

Confess in advance. Tell your boyfriend.

lest he see it later and have no regrets.

Then say to your ex-boyfriend that we can't do it anymore.

If you still want to send these ambiguous messages.

will be seen by her current boyfriend.

Tell him (ex-boyfriend) that you are happy and don't want to disturb your current happiness because of something from the past.

If he still loves you.

Then stop sending ambiguous messages.

If you still feel like he can't say anything serious.

So figure out who you really love.

If you can't sort it out.

Then choose the one that suits you the most and loves you the most.

I hate the Lord the most. If you don't like it, it's thorough. Thousands of tables give each other an illusion. This harms others and oneself.

The best way to break up is to be a stranger. In this way, he is responsible for his lover, but also for himself. Don't do anything disconnected. Unless you regret it. Or maybe you want to pedal two boats yourself.

It's my words. I broke up with him and couldn't be friends.

Because I loved it too much.

Originally, one possibility is that both parties no longer love each other and can naturally be friends, and the other possibility is that someone is willing to pay silently, as a friend, it is silent

But looking at your situation, it is obvious that neither is the same, and it is difficult to be friends in your situation.

It's not possible, but it depends on the reason. If you can still be friends, it is likely to be an old relationship**.

If you still have a little feeling for him, give him a goal! What he lacks is ideals! He loves you and will do as you do.

Possible. That's the case for me.

The key is to look at a few questions.

1.Why did you break up? Is it subjective or objective.

2.Reasons for the personalities of both sides.

3.The extent to which you have loved each other.

Yes! I also became friends with my former boyfriend, and at that time I loved him a lot and he loved me a lot, and then he broke up in order to make me study well, and we both regretted it.

It depends on how you look at your past and how you look at each other! It's actually very simple! Of course, if you can't let go, it's hard to be friends.

It's not fair to your boyfriend.

No way. If you could, you wouldn't have had to break up in the first place!

We've all broken up, and there's really no need to be friends anymore, because it will make everyone very embarrassed.

It may depend on how to deal with it.

All around me have become friends ... There's a lot of it mixed in. Regretful.. Like. Owe..

A lot and that much.

Whatever the reason. As long as the other party doesn't really hurt the pair thoroughly. You can all be friends.

It's just that kind of relationship. It's better not to get too close. Because we know each other!

Yes. But it's up to you to let go.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more sewn; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

Friend, the rope that can maintain this relationship is in your hands. Best wishes to both of you!

I think it's okay, as long as the other person doesn't keep saying things that make us can't be friends, it should be okay.

If you still can't let go of each other, but you can't be together. Of course, you can be friends, because then you can still care about each other and know about him. Wouldn't that be nice?

Can you become a friend between you and him, let go of distractions and become friends.

Absolutely!!

Hehe! Since you've loved her before, don't try to hurt her!

Hard. You see him or her

Scenes from your past will come back to your mind.

It will affect each other's lives.

Undertaking. family and so on.

You can put up with him or her

Romance and love with someone in front of you.

You can tolerate the person who snuggles in front of you.

Isn't it you.

Some people are suitable for being friends, but not for lovers, it is really not just a scumbag or a scumbag, as long as you have cared about each other and loved each other. It's hard to be friends if you're moving, and it's hard to be a lover if you're a friend. I think there are several reasons:

Since you can become friends, it means that you have the same things in common, maybe the same personality, the same way of doing things, etc. Try to think about it, you and your partner are the kind of people who are very short-tempered, and if you quarrel, you can't turn the world upside down? Therefore, when two people are together, they have to complement each other's personalities, and it is really inappropriate and difficult for two people who have a lot of things in common to become lovers.

You are friends, obviously, your experience and what happened to you is known and familiar to your friend, she understands your past, thank you for all the things that happen to you can be an obstacle to the warming of the relationship between the two of you. Friends may be like your family to you, so if you become lovers and don't have any feelings of love, the other party will find each other disgusted.

3.It will reduce a lot of necessary rituals, it is precisely because you are friends, so you have some important festivals, you will be more accustomed to the previous casualness, but you as lovers, some of your festivals to give gifts and other rituals are very necessary, you know, there is no girl who does not like romantic boys. So if you're in a relationship as friends, you're going to lose a lot of surprises.

4.Finally, if you break up, you can't even be friends because you're going to be awkward. Is it really worth it? The lover is gone, and he has a friend for nothing. There is a related survey that shows that there are too few childhood sweethearts and couples who can go to the end.

Therefore, it is really difficult for friends to become friends, and it is difficult to meet a friend who fits with one's soul in this world, so friends cannot become lovers, and it may not be a good thing to continue to be good friends.

Why is it hard for friends to be lovers?

There is a big difference between being a couple and being a friend, so being a friend and getting along well does not mean that you can be a couple in equal harmony. And the important thing to consider is why if you are best friends for many years, why you have not been tempted to become a couple. So is the motivation for becoming a couple inertia or liking?

Or is it true that one partner has always had a crush on the other and has never treated the other as friends?

I don't know how many scenes I've seen and heard the phrase "there is no pure friendship between men and women". I don't deny that there are many people who love each other under the guise of friends, but most friends are difficult to become lovers.

There are only two kinds of love, either love at first sight or love over time. Love at first sight ruled out the possibility of two people becoming friends from the beginning, and it seems that love will only come after getting along as friends for a long time.

I have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, but I also have a good relationship with their girlfriends, in their words I don't like these men at all, it sounds a bit speechless, but it is true, because for me, many boys are suitable for friends, but you ask me if there is only one man left in the world, then I choose to be a single aristocrat.

It's really not a person who is comfortable to get along with as a friend is also suitable for lovers, lovers and friends themselves are two completely different relationships, and the various problems to face are also different, so people who are suitable for being friends are not able to become good lovers.

Moreover, two people have been friends for a long time, knowing all kinds of each other's shortcomings, basically resting on the idea of being together, if there is anyone else who has ideas about the other, then he will also think deeply about what will happen to the two people together, if it is not successful, or finally break up, it is not so many years of friendship ruined.

If you think about it a lot, the matter of being together will be closed with the incident.

Friends either have a very good relationship and know everything about each other, but they can't be together if they are too familiar, or they can only be regarded as ordinary friends and don't know each other at all, so how can they fall in love?

I think so. Good friends, they know each other too well and know each other too well. It's not suitable to be lovers at all, and there is no mystery between each other. It's not attractive. can't be intimate and have a romantic relationship. Can only be friends for life.

Good friends generally can't be lovers. It really is. Because the two of them are all too familiar. I don't have that kind of heart-warming feeling for each other. So they can generally only become good friends, not lovers.

This is indeed the case, because two friends who have a good relationship know each other very well and are familiar with each other, if they become lovers, they will never be able to cross the hurdle in their hearts, that is to say, the relationship cannot break through the step of being more intimate, and there will always be a barrier.

Yes. Because after becoming lovers, the feeling between the two has changed a lot, and if they break up in the future, they can't even be friends, so good friends should be good friends.

It's true, because some people are only suitable for being good friends, and once they become lovers, there will be a lot of problems between the two, and the relationship will break down.

Of course not, in fact, after good friends become lovers, life will be sweeter.

1.Friends can provide emotional support. Friends can create deep emotional bonds and provide mutual support and comfort when needed. To a certain extent, this can be a substitute for emotional comfort in a lover's relationship.

2.Hitchhikers can meet social needs. Being with friends allows for a variety of social activities, companionship and sharing, which can also be a substitute for the support provided by lovers in this regard.

3.However, there is a lack of intimate physical contact. There is usually no intimate physical contact between ordinary partners, such as kisses and hugs, which is an important aspect of a friendship that is difficult to replace a lover's relationship.

4.Emotional attachment and possessiveness may be relatively weak. Emotional bonds between friends are usually not as strong as between lovers, and attachment, possessiveness, and loyalty may be slightly weaker, which is why it is difficult for friends to completely replace lovers.

5.The intensity of cooperation in all aspects of life may be relatively weak. Lovers usually have a higher intensity of cooperation in life, economy and other aspects, which is also an aspect that is difficult to completely replace in a hitchhiker relationship.

6.There is no clear social acceptance. Lovers have a very high degree of social acceptance, while friend relationships are more ordinary, which can also have a certain psychological impact.

Therefore, although friendship can partially replace lovers in providing emotional support and social needs, it is difficult for friends to completely replace lovers in terms of physical contact, emotional attachment, life cooperation, and social recognition. It is more suitable as a useful addition to a romantic relationship, rather than a complete replacement. The unique intimacy in a lover's relationship is difficult to achieve in a friend relationship.

No, the two of them can be together.