What does the new three from the four virtues refer to?

The new three subordinates refer to from the world, from love, and from oneself; The new four virtues refer to Wende and Wude, Yan Xian Shude, character and learning, and self-cultivation and morality.

From the world: The development of the whole situation should be seen from a macro perspective. Under globalization, competition among countries has become more intense. China's rise is a pivotal role in the international community. Although Hong Kong is an international city, its relationship with China is inseparable.

From love: Love should be used to resolve conflicts in family, work, and social interactions.

Self-knowledge: People have self-knowledge, avoid their own shortcomings, and promote their own strengths, in order to accurately locate their own life coordinates. [2]

Wende Wude: There is great competition in society, although it is not proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but it is necessary to be well-informed and cultivate expertise.

Yan Xian Shude: Everything is from the perspective of others, speaking wisely, and touching people's hearts with feminine gentle words.

Character and morality: kindness increases popularity, taste adds charm; Only by constantly learning and pursuing progress can we become more and more beautiful.

Self-cultivation and morality: explore and make good use of women's delicate and gentle characteristics, show confidence in the face of work, show elegance in the face of life, and show virtue in the face of family.

The new "three from four virtues" mentioned above is very different from the old "three from four virtues". In China's feudal society, according to the principles of "distinction between inside and outside" and "male superiority and inferiority of women", Confucian etiquette required women to "follow three virtues and four virtues". The so-called three subordinates refer to the unmarried subordinate father, the married subordinate husband, and the married subordinate son; The so-called four virtues refer to women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's skills.

Nowadays, with the development of the times and the improvement of women's status, it is gradually abandoned.

The wife has to follow the "follow" when she goes out

The wife ordered to obey the "subordinate".

My wife should blindly "follow" when she makes a mistake

The wife's makeup has to wait for "getting".

The wife spends money and wants to give up "getting".

The wife is angry and has to endure "getting".

The wife's birthday should be remembered as "de".

The new "three from the four virtues" that are popular on the Internet is the "three from the four virtues" of the boyfriend to the girlfriend

1. The boyfriend's "three slaves".

The girlfriend has to follow when she goes out, the girlfriend orders the training brigade to obey, and the girlfriend has to blindly obey when she makes a mistake.

Second, the boyfriend's "four virtues".

Girlfriend has to wait for makeup, girlfriend has to be willing to spend money, girlfriend has to endure anger, and girlfriend has to remember her birthday. Equipped with an imitation stool.

Three from four virtues, is the touchstone of good feelings, when it comes to fighting, women can't beat; In terms of strength, women can't compare. It stands to reason that men don't need to be afraid of their wives at all. Many men are afraid of their wives like tigers, not because their wives are fierce and vicious, but because they love their wives too much and care too much about their wives in their hearts.

In order to meet the needs of the stability of the patriarchal family and the maintenance of the interests of the patriarchal-patriarchal family (clan), the Confucian rites and religions are the normative requirements for women's moral, behavior, and cultivation in their lives according to the principles of "distinction between inside and outside" and "male superiority and inferiority of women". The three virtues are the unmarried father, the married husband, and the husband and the son, and the four virtues are women's virtues, women's words, women's appearance, and women's merits.

Three from: never gentle, never considerate, never reasonable!

Side: Can't say, can't scold, can't beat, can't provoke!

Girlfriend's three from four virtue **********==

Boyfriends should be obedient to their words and deeds.

The boyfriend is ignorant and has to follow blindly.

The boyfriend is determined to obey.

The boyfriend is amorous and has to endure it"Yes"

Boyfriend Bo Xing has to suffer"Yes"

The boyfriend is suspicious to remember"Yes"

The boyfriend is stingy"Yes"

A man's three from four virtues**********== girlfriend goes out to follow"from"

Girlfriend ordered to serve"from"

My girlfriend is blind when she makes mistakes"from"

Girlfriend makeup has to wait"Yes"

Girlfriend spends money and gives up"Yes"

The girlfriend is angry and has to endure it"Yes"

Girlfriend's birthday to remember"Yes"

Version 2: Three from four virtues for men.

What are the "three slaves"? It is "to obey, to obey, to follow"; What are the "Four Virtues"? It is "to remember the birthday, to understand the mind, to be willing to spend money, and to endure beatings".