What is it like to have a traditional minded parent?

My parents are more than six years old, and our family has always quarreled, but unlike your family, where your father is violent, my father and my mother have their own sets and are not used to each other. When I was in elementary school, my dad and his family fought every day over real estate. Later, it subsided, and now my mother's house is starting to make trouble again, unlike elementary school, and they are still trying to involve me.

In addition to family strife, I've had enough of daily life. If you want to say that your parents don't love or love, that's not, it's too old-fashioned, and you don't want to accept anything new, my mother is okay, and she is willing to learn to pay online, my dad doesn't even have a credit card, and the Internet is to find resonance with people like him, and I love to share with me the messy things on WeChat, I don't understand anything and I want to take care of everything, I just comment on the news, and I don't understand it.

It's very painful, no matter what I do, they are all against it, I'm twenty years old now, and I haven't been to KTV yet, it's because my parents are feudal, so I have very few friends. I feel like I'm living in a desperate world with a lot of words that I can't communicate.

My dad was too feudal and stubborn, always thinking that what he said was right, and always pointed fingers at me. Why can't you drink alcohol (how can most college students socialize without drinking now?) ), if you have a higher education, you shouldn't make some friends who are not worthy of yourself (what's wrong with people's family backgrounds, they still live better than me by eating on their own, and their own family is also a peasant).

I thought many times that he would say that he would never listen to me.

I studied at night in high school, and I went home scared to go with my classmates, and then my classmates saw that I was alone and didn't have a way, and I was waiting for me to go with me when I left early in the morning, and my dad secretly went to school to talk to someone. You have to go to college, you have to go to a local country, you can't go far away, you have to get married early, you don't have a dink, you have to have children, and so on.

After going to college, every time I hit **, I will emphasize that I can't fall in love, and I must wait until I work in the future, and talk about it in the unit or something. When I came home from college, I went back with a fellow countryman, and then because he was a man, my mother came to pick me up and saw it, and went home at night to talk to me if I was in love, saying that I was too young.

QQ chat wallpaper is an anime character, dressed a little exposed (that is, the arms and shoulders are exposed) and then my mom can say something like "this will be called" and "this is embarrassing" and something like that, there is no common language, and the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence......Try to wear pants when dressing, it's so helpless on a hot day.

I'm a 23-year-old.,Go out shopping with my roommates.,Go out for dinner at night and then come to **.,After hearing that it's night, it's still outside.,It's crazy.,Let me go back quickly.。 The class party is going to KTV to sing, I said it was a class party, I didn't listen to what the reason was, I didn't let me go, and then I hit the ** check post at night.

Bad experience, let me tell you about this net, even if Mi applies nail polish or dyes his brother's hair, he will feel that Mi has done something sorry for his ancestors, which makes people very speechless, and it doesn't make sense to reason with him at all.

Parents have a very traditional mindset, both pros and cons, and the bad aspects are inconsistent with the ideas of young people, which will limit freedom. Traditional thinking also has a lot of positive energy to restrain children's conduct.

What kind of experience is it for parents to think about traditions. If your parents' thinking is very traditional, then you have grown up under the rule of traditional thinking, so I believe that you are also a person with strong traditional ideas.

It's a very boring experience, and there is almost no laughter at home every day.

Actually, you are already very aware of the problems between you, but your parents have a traditional mind, and you can't accept this traditional thinking. Simply letting you communicate with them basically doesn't do anything, and your parents won't change anything! Then you will not only maintain your current situation, but also worse.

In daily life, there is occasionally a generation gap between the elders and the young.

When there are different opinions about clothing, fashion, etc., how should we deal with such a situation?

Express your opinions in a way that young people will accept.

Due to age differences and different concepts, it is very normal for elders to have different views on dress than young people. Nowadays, the social atmosphere of the Na people is more open than in the past, and the young people worship themselves and enjoy the freedom of dressing, and the elderly should try to slowly accept this change in attitude.

However, there are formal and solemn occasions where participants are still required to dress appropriately. "As an elder, you can be a little more tactful when expressing your opinions.

For example, you can point out 'The clothes you wore last time looked better.''or 'What kind of clothes do you wear to look better?''and try not to stress too much that 'the clothes are not good now.''。Convey your views in a way that is more acceptable to young people.

The two generations need to understand each other.

Each era will leave a unique imprint, the elders and the younger generations have different growth experiences, and there will naturally be differences in concepts, so young people should try to understand the ideas of their elders, and if they are attending formal gatherings, or in the presence of other relatives and elders, they should try to maintain a proper dress;

If it's a more intimate, casual gathering, it's okay to dress stylishly.

If an elder points out a dress problem in a formal setting, the young person can apologize to the elder and admit that he or she was negligent.

If it is a private hail of Kai, the young person can explain a little that he does not disrespect his elders, but regards them as intimate people, so he chooses clothes that he feels comfortable with.

The elders should learn to accept the new thinking of the young people, and the younger generations should also try to understand the ideas of the elders, and understand each other in order to maintain family harmony.

I feel that having a pair of open-minded parents not only warms my heart, but also adds a lot of color to my life.