How to choose a person to fall in love with

Nowadays, older leftover women and men are everywhere, they can't find their other half because they are not good, but the fact is that they don't want to find their other half because they are too good or they don't meet someone as good as themselves, so they take the initiative to choose to be single. So how do you choose a suitable love partner for you?

Tools Raw materials.

Romantic interest. The right person for yourself.

Marriage. Concept of marriage and love.

Method steps.

First of all, there must be a selection target or benchmark. There are no rules, there is no standard, blindly picking, you can only look at the flowers in the flowers, and you will be dazzled when you look at it.

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Second, don't target yourself as your ultimate goal. It's easy to get off a single, and it's easy to get off a single if you don't have a selection criteria, but is this kind of single really what you want? Neither in fact nor in theory.

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Again, if you don't have the capital to fall in love at first sight, and you lack the patience to fall in love over time, then you still have to start from your own reasons, improve your capital, cultivate your patience, and finally choose a love object that is comparable and complementary to yourself.

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At the same time, don't use love as an excuse to relieve pressure, think about the grievances and bear the pressure together, if it's because of this, it's better to stay alone, don't hurt the other party for no reason, love should be born because of love, it is a natural thing.

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In addition, there are people who are like glue in love, and there are also people who are like passers-by. Therefore, those who are not suitable for themselves are often in full swing at the beginning, and they will become strangers after a long time, and this kind of love or such a love object is not our ultimate goal.

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In addition, don't find a random person to fall in love with because you are old, your parents and relatives and friends urge you, this is irresponsible to yourself and others, it is not easy to fall in love, and marriage is even more difficult, how it is not suitable for yourself, it will definitely not go far, and it will not be sweet.

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In the end, love is a matter of two people, but marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families and even two families.

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When choosing a first love partner, it is best not to choose the following three types of people.

Clause. 1. Stay away from greasy, official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people.

If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing.

When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and become a nasty look in the eyes of the people around you.

When you fall in love in college, you can grind to find those capable people of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent. But you must not look for those who "have no ability and can only put on an official show", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and black who are close to ink.

Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

Clause. Second, it is best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I just advise you not to choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and the way you deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth.

But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating.

After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love. When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love.

Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

Clause. 3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years.

If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become idle and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement.

To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities.

First of all, it is necessary to look at the character of the object, how to choose people, first to look at the character, and secondly, to look at the appearance.

Second, it depends on whether the person has developed. Is it a talented person?

Third, I think it depends on whether this person is sincere to you, if he is sincere to you, I think you can consider it.

If you want to choose an object to fall in love with, we should pay more attention to the beauty of each other's soul, that is to say, as long as the appearance is not disgusting, it can make people feel comfortable, because there are no good people like celery rocks, and there are no red faces, and one day they will grow old, and what can support us to accompany us to old age is the spiritual fit, mutual understanding, tolerance, respect and love, so first you have to choose an honest and kind person, and then choose a person who can care for yourself and be with each other, and can feel loved. Of course, we also need to consider the material match, if the gap between the two families is too large, then they will inevitably suffer more than others, but as long as the gap is not particularly large, this is not so important.

The most important thing is to find someone who really loves each other, only if you have love for yourself, and then you can go to the end by breaking up and managing your own heart.

When you fall in love for the first time, you should stay away from the following types of people.

One: People who bring you negative energy.

Always like to complain, originally when you have a good mood, when you hear the other party complaining to you, your good mood is instantly destroyed, once or twice you can still understand the other party's feelings, but if the other party inputs negative energy information to you for a long time, your positive energy will be slowly consumed, like him, become a person full of negative energy, become very negative about everything, so the person who brings you negative energy needs to give up in time.

Two: people who are not willing to pay for you.

The person who is unwilling to pay for you means that he does not love you enough and does not like you enough, so he is not willing to pay for you easily, because once you really like someone from the bottom of your heart is willing to pay for each other from the bottom of your heart, you will feel very tired when you are with a person who is not willing to pay for you, because unilateral payment can not get the other party's response and output, which will make you become a one-man show in this relationship, such a person even if you love him again, you must see the reality clearly and cut off such emotions, Because a good relationship is a person who both parties are willing to pay for each other.

Three: People who have no plan for the future.

People who have no plan for the future, falling in love with such a person is equivalent to wasting time and wasting their youth, because he is an enterprising person, unwilling to work hard, and can't give you a good future.

Choose people who are real, good for you, and have a certain economic foundation.

1. External conditions. Appearance, height, overall dress, I believe this is the first thing we see when we choose a person, everyone has their own favorite type, some people have eyes or very comfortable at a glance, the first impression is good, there is naturally the possibility of continuing to understand. There is also another situation, which is to fall in love over time, and some people, although they are not good enough in appearance, are humorous, have a good personality or have strong work ability, and they are just as shining in life.

2. Family, economy. Family relationship and economic ability of each other, for friends who plan to get married, this question has to be mentioned, after all, love and married life are different, whether the happiness index is high, this problem accounts for at least half of the problem, of course, more importantly, if two people are firm enough, the relationship is stable, and they are willing to give everything for each other, since both people are willing to bear and work together, then these are not problems in the face of true love.

3. Whether the three views of two people are compatible.

After all, sometimes a lot of beauty is imagined by yourself, a person's appearance is suitable for you, it does not mean that your three views are also compatible, the three views (world view, outlook on life, values) are not exactly the same, but of course, they must be compatible, two people can continue, otherwise there will be various contradictions in the future.