Why does it feel so painful to love someone

I don't think it's hard to love someone

There are several reasons for the pain of love, one is that you can't love it, that is, it is just a one-sided personal idea of yourself, and the other is that he (she has no feelings for you), that is, no matter how you pursue her (him), she (he) is indifferent. Third, the gap between the two is a bit big, whether it is academic qualifications, knowledge, or the background of Jiaqin's missing court, there will be certain reasons.

Personally, I think that your third point is bigger, if you really like the silver first fight each other, then from now on, start from little by little, and continue to shorten the distance between the two!

If you still can't change the status quo, the most pertinent suggestion is to let go, the long pain is better than the short pain, time will give you the best answer!

When you have love it is a feeling of happiness, sweetness. When you lose love, it's a feeling of disappointment, pain, and pain. When you love someone, I wish I could be with him all the time, as long as I can see him and hear his voice, laughter will come out of my heart.

If you love someone, you will want to do anything for the other person, and at all costs, as long as he is happy. If you love someone, you want him to be okay, and I want him to be happy and happy. And you take everything he says seriously.

Love is a kind of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of striving to create a sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of relying on each other and treating each other well, a feeling of heartbeat (when missing), heartbeat (when knowing each other), heartache (when parting and hurting) Love someone, to understand and understand, to apologize and thank you, to admit mistakes and correct mistakes, To be considerate and cool, to accept rather than endure, to be tolerant Love, by no means to find it when it is missing, let alone to change it when you are tired What do you think love is? A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss? Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it The main body of love is life, living together Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to bear all the pressure? Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life? Have you ever imagined how you go on when the enthusiasm fades and the hug doesn't appeal to you anymore?

Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer For the sake of the person you love deeply, please make some sacrifices and keep your love Otherwise, how can you talk about true love You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart. Ask yourself, do you love so much? Are you willing to hurt both?

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, let alone changing it when you are tired Life is not a good life for one person It is how two people live well together But for some objective reasons, in reality you can't be together at the moment Do you give up so easily and compromise? Can't you keep it for love? Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

Is this the end of my life? If it is true love, it will never give up.

From a psychological point of view, your love is too passionate, too selfless, and you think that to love someone is to give everything you have and give everything you have to love desperately. But as a result, you didn't get love, and you became a licking dog. You got love and became a slave brother.

You who want to redeem you are humbled to the dust. Many times, the root of love pain is actually that you forget to love yourself because you love someone, you only have love in your eyes, your mind is full of each other, but you ignore a bruised self.

Love is deep and long-lived, and love is overflowing, that's the truth.

There is no pain without desire, in other words, if you don't love someone, even if the person leaves you several times, or even betrays you, you won't feel pain.

In getting along, expect too much from each other.

There is a saying that how big the expectation is, how big the disappointment is, this is the case in love, when you always say what you expect from the other person, if your expectation is one hundred, but the other party only achieves sixty, you will have forty disappointment, this kind of disappointment, will make you feel very hurt, feel that the brother is very painful, feel that the other party does not love you so much at all.

Lack of communication, not understanding each other's ideas.

In love, what is most feared is that two people don't know each other, what the other party is thinking, and then they think wildly, suspect randomly, and impose their own ideas directly on that person. When there is less communication between two people and more suspicion, of course, it is easy to have problems with the relationship, and each other will feel very tired of love and not happy at all.

In the name of love, I always want to kidnap each other.

I'm all for your good, how should you be, you don't listen to me, you don't love me at all, when you get along, more respect and less people are like this, always love such moral kidnapping, in the name of love, ask for this and ask for that. This kind of love in the name will always make people feel very indifferent, even if they are compromised for a while, they will be full of contradictions after a long time.

Considering the gains and losses, I feel that I have paid more.

If you really love someone, you will be happy, and you won't feel pain, whether it's really with this person or not, it must be a happy feeling.

When you ask this question, it means that you are very tired in your heart, but you are still unwilling to give up this relationship. Some people in love choose to love others, and their hearts are full, down-to-earth, and they have the initiative. And some people choose to be loved by others, such people like to enjoy all this, and it is also very beautiful.

When the person you love is lukewarm to you and doesn't love you as much as you want, then your heart is more painful, and you feel that you have given so much, and he may not see it, or even care! Obey your heart, calm down and weigh whether you will gain or lose, and then draw conclusions.

I love someone very much, I feel very painful, then it's not true love, it's just a touch of self, if you really love someone, you will be very happy, you won't feel pain, whether you can be with this person or not, it must be a happy feeling.

When you love someone very much, you feel very painful, because this emotional pay is not reciprocal, you pay a lot, but the response you get is pitiful, you can't do two-way feelings, the deeper the love, the more pain will be.

The pain is because you love too much, and the requirements for the other person will also increase, and the other party will not meet the expectations in your heart, you will be very painful and difficult to speak. So, communication is important. If you don't bump, you should hide the expectations in your heart, say it, communicate well, and it won't be painful.

Because you love with your heart, if you love, you will be easily affected by the other party's thoughts, moods, and behaviors, and you will care about each other very much, but although it is painful to love someone, it is also a slow crack, and there will be sweetness and happiness....If you really love to disturb the key, please don't give up easily....

When you love a Qi Hail person very much, you may want to let the other party be by your side at all times, and sometimes imagination is different from the unbridled reality, so there will be the torment of longing, and you will also feel pain.

Explain that you love him more than he loves you, think about what is the reason for your pain, if it is a good communication in terms of love, if it is a good communication in terms of love, if it is a material aspect of the two people working together! If it can't be solved, it is recommended to cut the mess quickly.

Because you are no longer yourself, all your attention is on him, and even before doing anything, you will be cautious and unconsciously consider whether he will like it. Over time, you will feel tired from the heart. The ancients said that it is not unreasonable for the lover of Kuan Daqiao to be full of seven points.

If you love someone, you wish him all the best, and I hope that he will live happily and happily. And you take everything he says seriously. Love is a kind of love and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation, a kind of hard work to create a sky for the happiness of the lover, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a process of relying on each other and treating each other well, a feeling of heartbeat (when missing), heartbeat (when we meet), heartache (when parting and hurting) Love someone, to understand and understand, to apologize and thank you, to admit mistakes and correct mistakes, To be considerate and cool, to accept rather than endure, to be tolerant Love, by no means to find it when it is missing, let alone to change it when you are tired What do you think love is?

A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss? Naive people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles, right?

Love is beautiful, but there is also a fear of losing. Qi Zhihui is like eating sweet candy, and he still feels bitter in his mouth after closing the most closed mouth.

If you can't love it, it will be even more painful.

There's a good chance they're testing you.

That's the difference between love and liking! Thank you.

If you haven't eaten something bitter, then your sense of taste won't feel sweet. There is no pain, where does the joy come? You have only thought about pain, you have only tasted this feeling, then in the bottom of your heart, the taste of sweet love, will be hidden, in fact, you think back, is your love only brought you pain, really did not bring you a trace of happiness?

Every love has its taste, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, salty life is all in it, what is the real taste? That's only known if you've tasted it.

If you ask people why it's painful to love someone, no one can explain the answer. Because everyone's love is different, and everyone's taste of love is also different.

I don't know how to comfort you, but I think you can taste a tea--- bitter gourd tea. The entrance is extremely bitter, but the aftertaste is sweet. Your love may be like the taste of this tea, sweet or not, you savor it!!

Know that love doesn't just bring pain.

There is also happiness in suffering.

Fall in love with someone.

There is pain in happiness.

There is also happiness in pain.

Getting through pain is happiness.

Happiness is followed by pain.

Half is happiness.

Half is pain.

Only love that understands will not be painful.

To love someone, to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of the other party; Be romantic, but don't waste it; Feel free to hold hands, but don't let go easily. If you love someone, you should love to eight points, and the remaining two points should be used to love yourself.