At the parent teacher conference, parents shared how to make their children fall in love with readin

Many parents may have encountered such a problem: after their children get the books, they flip through them casually, and then throw them aside, and refuse to read them carefully no matter how much they persuade them. Some parents will blame their children for being "disobedient" and "unmotivated", but parents do not consider whether their children are interested in the books they read.

Everyone likes to do what they are interested in, and children are no exception, and each child has different preferences and different types of books. Only by "doing what he likes" and giving the child a book he likes, will he sit down and read it carefully. Here are a few principles that can help parents find their children's interests and guide them to choose their favorite books:

1. Let children take the initiative to read as they likeSome parents are accustomed to confusing "literacy" and "reading", and as a result, they often buy a bunch of literacy cards, ancient poetry books, and so on, regardless of whether the child likes to read or not, whether they can read it or not. In fact, doing so will only make the child feel that reading is not fun, and over time, he will become less fond of reading. Therefore, parents should conform to the characteristics of their children, choose some books that he likes, is interested in, and is willing to read, even if the storyline of the book is too simple for parents to read, but as long as the content is healthy and uplifting, the picture is clear and beautiful, and the child likes to read, you can buy it for your child.

2. Try to let children be the masters when readingChildren's nature is always full of curiosity and likes new things, after getting the book, they are likely to flip through this book for a while, and flip through that book for a while, and feel that each book is very interesting. In this regard, parents do not have to interfere too much, because this kind of performance is in line with the child's early reading psychology, as long as the child is willing to take the book and read it with relish, it means that they have taken the first step in reading, parents should feel relieved rather than stop at every turn, and let them read a book from front to back. 3. Help children find their interestsChildren under the age of 5 may not necessarily know what they like, and they do not have the ability to choose books independently.

Parents should observe carefully, pay attention to their children's interests, and determine what kind of books to choose for their children according to their usual preferences, as Mr. Ding did in the case. And children's interests are not static, today they like encyclopedias, tomorrow they may be very fanatical about fairy tales. Therefore, when parents buy books or read books for their children, they should ask their children more:

Do you like this book? "Why do you like this book?" "Encourage your child to speak up so that you can better choose reading materials for your child.

4. The purpose of letting Jiang Zi read more books of different types is to broaden children's horizons, so that children feel that the content of books is colorful, so that it is easier to find their interests. Books like comics, mystery, science fiction, etc., can increase children's knowledge, so they can all be read appropriately. If parents are worried that their children will choose bad books by themselves, they should try to avoid taking their children to buy books from street vendors, but to buy books from the children's book department of a large bookstore, or go to the library to borrow books, where the books are beneficial to children's physical and mental health.