My boyfriend and ex girlfriend are disconnected, should I continue?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-31
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How many days have you been there? That's not very reliable. I'd like to tell you about my partner's ex-girlfriend.

    But I thank my partner for the fact that he took the initiative to confess to my ex after we had been together for five months, and he told my ex one day that she was sick and could be serious, and then said he loved him and wanted to chase him back. Not to mention that I don't know his ex, when I hear him tell me, I'm actually quite calm. I asked him if he still loved her.

    If he doesn't say it, I know that he is still soft-hearted. But I wasn't angry, I thought, if I really like someone, and someone asks me if I still love them, maybe that's how I react. And then I asked, would you like to end up with me?

    He replied simply, unwillingly. I said, that's enough, you can deal with it well, and you can tell me if you have any troubles. I'm giving you two weeks to make it clear.

    Since then, I've rarely asked him about it, but I once got angry because he didn't have a proper message to speak. Later, we had a conversation, and he told me about his past, their story, and I calmly analyzed it from the bystanders, saying that my ex was sick, and he said that he wanted to chase you back, which was not responsible for himself and was too selfish to love you. If it were me, after the breakup, even if I died of illness, I would not have anything to do with my ex, on the one hand, because it was over, and on the other hand, I was no longer able to give each other a healthy love.

    I have to wonder about her motives. I'm so ruthless and have no empathy. So, I'm not going to let you out just because she's sick.

    Unless you don't want to be with me anymore. In addition, my partner and my ex did not end up together because of the ex's lack of struggle and the strong opposition of her parents, and these did not make any effort, that kind of love, which is really fragile. Now, he is kind to me, he knows more about love and responsibility, and we can understand each other better.

    We're getting married next year without an accident. There is nothing left with the ex anymore. It is recommended that the landlord wait and see what happens, if you find that your boyfriend is absent-minded, you might as well fight for it, if you really can't fight for it, you might as well let it go.

    There is no grass at the end of the world, and the same applies to women.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can go and explain the situation to your boyfriend, and have some ideological communication with him, so that he can take the initiative to cut off contact with his ex.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The best way is to often tell his ex-girlfriend in front of him, and let him tell you some stories between him and his ex-girlfriend, so that slowly he will finish these stories, and then there will be nothing more, and naturally feel that the ex-girlfriend is not so important, and at this time you can also be very innocent and coquettish with him, tell him that the story of him and his ex-girlfriend is over, I hope he can remember the bits and pieces with you from now on, you just have to do it, It's sure to make your boyfriend love you more, and he'll never think of his ex again.

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