Female college student wants to commit suicide because her mother doesn t let her have a cat, whose

I think it's the mother's fault, because she is really a little too blunt, causing the child to be very extreme.

I think it's mainly the fault of female college students, who want to commit suicide just because they don't have a cat, which is too hypocritical.

Both sides are at fault, the mother usually spoils the child too much, and the child is too willful and indulgent, so the girl is psychologically fragile.

Both sides were at fault in this matter, because they did not put themselves in each other's shoes and think about each other, which led to the tragedy.

Both of them are at fault, the main responsibility lies with the college students, the college students are all adults, and their thinking is still like a child who commits suicide at every turn, can't he communicate with his mother well?

The mother did nothing wrong, the psychology of female college students is relatively fragile, and the mother should be very used to her children when she was a child.

Mothers still lack communication with their daughters. The pressure of my daughter's study is too great, and she doesn't rest until the early hours of the morning every day, and her mother doesn't give a cat, so she is in a very bad mood, so she will do foolish things.

Mother didn't do anything wrong, after all, college students still have a lot of academic work, plus many children nowadays can't take care of themselves, how to take care of pets. However, it is still important to communicate this matter in a gentle way with your child.

We have two extremes of psychology towards children, both of which are harmful to children. One is neglect; The second is that expectations are too keen. If they ignore it, they will be allowed to fend for themselves like thatch, and if they are too eager to do so, they will inevitably encourage the seedlings to grow, but will promote their premature ......

Is it wrong for a 20-year-old female college student to end her life because her mother didn't let her keep a cat? What did the mother do wrong?

It is understood that this girl has excellent academic performance, usually studies to one or two points, basically does not go out, she wants to raise a cat but was rejected by her mother, so she feels uncomfortable, blaming her mother for only having her brother in her heart without her, and she can't feel her own sense of existence, so she thinks of suicide.

So this girl committed suicide because her mother didn't let her have a cat, and her mother was wrong**? Is it just that cats are not allowed? It's not that simpleThe mother's mistake was to treat her children with a bowl of water that was not even.

Although it has been advocated that "boys and girls are treasures" for many years, the deep-rooted idea of "preference for sons over girls" inevitably still exists in some families.

Just like the girl in the case, she has not been able to get the attention and love of her parents for a long time, and they don't let this or that what they do, they always do everything they can, and for their younger brother, even if their younger brother breaks the sky, they still think that what their younger brother is doing is right.

It's not that the girl is not strong, it's just that she can't get used to the partiality of her parents, and the pent-up emotions that have been backlogged for a long time exploded with the help of not letting a cat go.

I would like to say:As parents, we must care about the growth of our children, even if we are busy with work, we must take time to accompany our children, so that children can feel the love of their parents, and let parents become the most favorable spiritual harbor for children.

We often discuss the question: which is more important, homeschooling or schooling? Some parents always blame the school for not teaching their children well.

In fact, I think that family education is more important than school education more than ten timesA child's good or bad grades are only one aspect, and what really affects a child's growth is their mind and perception of the world, and the child's physical and mental health is more important than cultural performance.

And the education of these two points can often only be given by the family.

So,I hope that in the future, all parents will let themselves be children again, truly integrate into the world of their children, accompany them to grow up, and give them enough careDon't underestimate a child's growth, otherwise it will only lead the child astray.

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Moreover, female college students are going back to school, and when they go back to school, they can't take cats with them, and animals are not allowed in college dormitories. So what about this cat, it's not to be kept at home and taken care of by the mother. The mother has to take care of the energetic little children, but also take care of the energetic little animals, and also take care of the family.

Mother is not superhuman either, she is a normal person, and she also needs rest. It is precisely because of these that the mother will refuse the request of the female college student to have a cat, but because of the lack of communication between the mother and daughter, it will lead to misunderstanding of the female college student, so in family life, communication is the most important.

Lack of communication, the female college student in the incident rarely communicated with the mother, the mother focused on the second son, and the daughter felt that the mother did not care enough about herself and wanted to attract the mother's attention through suicide.

Now some girls are more pampered, and they feel that everyone should be centered on her, so their psychological tolerance is relatively poor.

I have depression, my mind is in a state of extreme depression for a long time, my parents don't understand me, and I will be questioned about what I do.

Because parents are too doting on their children, children want stars and not moons, never quarrel or scold children, and develop this kind of psychology for children.

It's because she's older and her psychology is poor, she needs to experience too many things, and she is depressed and helpless. In such a situation, she will do things that are not good for herself, making people think that she is delicate.

Life from childhood to adulthood was too smooth. Many people are held in the palm of their hands by their families as soon as they are born, and they have not suffered any setbacks, resulting in poor psychological tolerance.

It's a big fuss! I am still supported by my parents, and raising a cat seems simple, but it actually costs a lot! It's more about understanding and tolerating each other, and sometimes looking at problems from the perspective of others!

For cat lovers, they need the support of their families, but choosing the extreme way without giving them a cat is indeed a bit of a fuss. It shows that female college students are not yet mature in their minds, and they cannot reasonably control their emotions, and it is not advisable to choose extreme methods when they encounter setbacks.

The psychological problems of college students have always been a hot topic, after all, they have just experienced the most brutal high school life, and a series of psychological problems are very common. The most common is "social fear", it is likely that there is no intimate friend at school to take the cat as a psychological sustenance, once lost, will make extreme behavior. From a psychological point of view, there is no such thing as making a fuss.

And there is no fuss. The mother has always been patriarchal and puts a lot of pressure on the girl, and refusing to have a cat is just the last straw that crushes the camel, which makes the girl have the idea of suicide.

Ostensibly because of cats, in my opinion not, 20-year-olds should have their own minds and be responsible for their actions. But the mother blindly refused, wanting the child to live according to her ideas. The girl should not be able to stand the strength of her mother and want to resist, but there is no other way.

I don't think it's a big fuss, but the result of being too willful, it's all caused by the doting of the family, and it's already an adult, and making such a childish move, which is a failure of family education.

It must be a small fuss, threatening the parents who gave birth to you and raised you with their hard-won lives, it is really too naïve and unfilial, and the most important thing to solve the problem is communication.

Be. The psychological tolerance is too poor, and if you encounter bigger things in the future, you will be even more unbearable, because it is a bit of a fuss to commit suicide if you are rejected.

I think it's a big fuss, refusing to have a cat is a very small thing, and there is no need to tie it to life. Cats are not allowed at home, you can go to other places to see cats, your parents raised you so big, it is really unnecessary to commit suicide for this matter.

A 20-year-old female college student committed suicide because her mother refused to have a cat, and it is a bit wrong to commit suicide without giving a cat, but in the absence of care and love. It's not a big fuss, either.

In fact, it's not a big fuss, but this female college student has been suppressed for too long before she wants to commit suicide because she doesn't give a cat, her parents are patriarchal, overly strict with herself, and she doesn't have her own private space, which is something she feels depressed. Now just want to have a cat, her mother can refuse, she can't see any love in her mother, she feels that she is tired of living in the world, no one cares about what she wants, so she wants to commit suicide. In fact, isn't it very uncomfortable to be patriarchal?

Obviously, they are all children of their parents, but their parents are partial, they don't feel that they are wrong like this, and everyone will feel very painful and uncomfortable in the long run.

Event combing:On September 23, in Huai'an, Jiangsu, there was a female college student in her 20s who sat on the balcony and wanted to commit suicide, but fortunately, the local fire department quickly rushed to the scene after receiving the notice and pulled the girl down. It was ridiculous for the firefighters to arrive, but after talking to the schoolgirl, she learned that there were many things in her heart that were suppressed together, and it would explode in an instant.

01. Parents prefer sons over daughtersThe schoolgirl also has a younger brother at home, because her parents usually don't care much about her, and after having a younger brother, she is more like a transparent person in this familyI think many people who have siblings in the family can know that there will always be someone who will be the one who is neglected by their parents, because with siblings, you can't get all the love of your parents, but some parents don't even want to love you, which is very devastating.

02. There is a lot of pressure to studyFemale college students work very hard in their studies and their academic performance is also very good, and their parents will only notice her in her studies and give her a little care. But she is not born to be very smart, she needs to rely on the diligence and hard work of the day after tomorrow to make learning better, only then will her parents notice her, but the pressure of learning is also very great, she doesn't want her parents to be disappointed in her, she can only study more, and over time it brings a lot of pressure to herself.

Having a cat is just a fuse, she wants to have her own pet to accompany her, and she wants her parents to agree to her decision once, but in exchange for only her parents' refusal. I hope that parents in the world can treat their children equally, and give their children enough love, so that their children will grow up healthily.

Threaten Mom! This manifestation should have a habit of threatening from an early age, and a habit of threatening success.

This kind of child has been pampered since she was a child and has been spoiled, so she can't accept that her parents don't listen to her opinions. She was also very angry from the bottom of her heart, and wanted to use this way to force her parents' consent.

The child's psychological tolerance is too low, and he may have been used to it by his parents before, and he feels that the sky is about to collapse if he is a little unsatisfactory.

Too much psychology, pampered, spoiled from childhood to adulthood, mental health education should be carried out, otherwise the future boyfriend is too dangerous.

I read the news and I think that the cat is a bit one-sided, this girl is obviously a parent who treats her and her brother differently.

She pinned her hopes on the cat, because she felt that her mother only had her younger brother in her eyes, and he himself was not favored by his parents, so she would have a lack of love.

And we all know that today's children have more or less problems in communicating with people, they have few friends, at this time everyone would rather not communicate with people, and choose to contact with animals, because they feel that they feel safe.

By not letting him have a cat, his mother is cutting him off from a way to communicate with the world, and she may feel more insecure and act agitated.

I saw that most of the voices were still laughing at this girl, saying that she was not strong in resisting pressure, and she loved to be emotional, and she couldn't find a girlfriend like this in the future.

I think this statement is very hurtful to the person, because the person himself is a person who has no sense of security, has not been loved in the family, and then has to bear these malicious attacks, which is likely to cause secondary damage to his soul.

I am a person who does not raise any small animals, but the people around me more or less have kittens and puppies, their feelings for animals are very deep, they regard animals as their friends, and they will talk to me when they have something on their minds, although I can't understand and can't communicate with them, but at least there is a creature that allows them to express it.

So there is nothing to be ashamed of crying for an animal, they all have their own feelings, and they are a way of emotional sustenance.

I think this is a very immature behavior, because choosing to give up one's life for a small thing is disrespectful to life, and it is also a manifestation of not cherishing the parenting for many years!

Nowadays, many children are only children, and their parents and elders are particularly doting, so that the children's psychology is the largest in the world, and everyone must follow his psychological activities, which is not conducive to future development.

Female college students are ready to commit suicide because their mother does not let them have a cat, which is a particularly extreme psychology, because it is a very small thing that can communicate with each other, but because of this incident, they are forced to die.

This kind of psychology is very undesirable, and it cannot be coerced in various ways because it is not in line with one's own wishes, and it is carried out by using the way of life and death, and it really needs to be educated.