What is in the mind of someone who learns that they have a terminal illness?

Thinking about his wife, and his children, and his parents, how they should live, I feel that they will definitely be heartbroken, sad and sad.

I wonder what is wrong with me, why it causes these problems, and what bad habits are affecting my serious illness now.

I was thinking about how much my parents loved me so much, what kind of heartache it would be if they lost me, how painful it would be, how disappointed it would be, and who would raise them when they were old in the future.

They will definitely regret not cherishing their bodies well, and they will definitely regret not taking time to spend more time with their parents and children.

I must regret that I didn't take good care of my health before, didn't pay attention to my health, didn't take care of my body, and didn't take some small problems seriously.

The first thing that comes to mind is my parents, my children, and my lover, what would they do without me? How to live.

I felt that everything else in the world was a trivial matter except for life and death, and I was instantly relieved, and now good health is the capital of everything.

I will definitely feel that work is not so important, the body is important, and what is the point of work without a body.

I regret that I worked so hard, worked overtime every day, stayed up late every day, didn't cherish my body, and felt that it didn't matter if I was young and willful.

I feel really disappointed that I am so young, I haven't talked about love, I haven't traveled, I work all day, and I haven't met some interesting people.

If I find out that I have a terminal illness, I feel panicked and incredulous at first. My panic may come from the fact that what I want to do, who I want to be with, and what I want to achieve suddenly disrupt expectations, and time suddenly becomes insufficient, and I begin to need to compare and give up; My panic may have come from not knowing anything about a terminal illness and not knowing what kind of pain I was going through**; My panic may come from the sadness and pressure that this incident has brought to relatives and friends, disrupting their lives, and having to readjust their lives, moods and life trajectories because of this incident; My panic may also come from whether my own death will push my fragile family into the abyss and put my loved ones in purgatory. In the next time, I will take a few more looks at my children and spend more time with my family, because I may not meet again in the next life.

Arrange your family and your funeral, travel alone, go wherever you go, and try not to cause trouble to your relatives and friends.

Generally, they will be positive**, if it really doesn't work, forget it, don't waste money.

<>What if you find out you have a terminal illness – cancer, HIV, malignancy? What would you do if you found out you had a terminal illness? Can't eat or sleep well?

1. I want to open a point

Pick the beneficiary and put itThe money was given to him by her.

2. Improve the quality of life.

On this premise,If it can be cured, it will be cured, and if it cannot be cured, it will relieve the pain

3. If you work hard to ** cancer, HIV, **, stay at home every day and do housework, and serve your daughter and husband super comfortably, if you still have the strength, it is best to euthanize in the end.

4. If you can't cure it, you can travel by yourself, and you can go wherever you can.

5. Positive**; Do not add too much trouble to the family, resolutely do not do intubation, do not do open surgery; Arrange the rest and hand over everything; If you still have the strength, write something for your child and leave it for the inheritance of truth, goodness and beauty; If the euthanasia policy comes out, go alone calmly. For the rest of the day, I gave everything I could, and all that was left was to wait quietly.

Full-time relaxation

The premise is that the last days are left to the family

7. I feel that all of them are terminally ill with cancer

If you are HIV, it is better to live on your own, usually serving the old and young is tired to death, and in the end you will leave yourself some time, and you can play wherever you like.

8. Immediately go around the world, chase your favorite stars, and do whatever you want.

Summary: According to the current national conditions of China,One-third will face an incurable disease such as cancer at the end of their lives.

If you find out that you have a terminal illness, don't panic first, actively cooperate with the doctor, and fight the disease tenaciously.