What is the right way to look at feelings?

There are three kinds of feelings, one is the affection for loved ones.

One is the affection for the lover.

One is affection for friends and relatives.

But no matter what kind of it is, being responsible and responsible is the most basic.

If you do anything, in China, filial piety comes first. Don't let down the loved ones who raised us.

If you are a lover, don't judge each other. Because he (she) was with you under all kinds of pressure, and he was the one who was willing to accompany you for the rest of your life. Don't let him get hurt.

If it's a friend, a family friend. Then please be courteous. Cherish the trust and support between each other. Live your life well. Don't hurt people, remember.

Affection is an emotion generated between people through long-term communication, life and contact.

That is the emotion that can only be found in long-term contact, please take responsibility for it, because both parties took it seriously at the beginning, and there is today's deep affection, isn't it?

So in the end, to sum up, to look at feelings correctly, the first starting point is that you have to take this responsibility. Don't betray, don't make the other person sad.

If you love someone, you have to be responsible, you can't be three points of heat, although love sometimes depends on feelings, even if you have beauty, it's useless to have no feeling, is it to live with a doll.

Right" view of feelings?

This is related to how to behave in the world, what kind of person you are, for you, is "right";

Whatever is "right" is "wrong" for you, and in the last sentence, all hypothetical questions before starting a relationship are useless, if you are talking about a relationship, of course, if you are talking about a relationship.

The other two feelings have already been mentioned by the landlord, so there is not much nonsense here.

It is best to be rational in dealing with feelings, and sensibility will not end well.

In fact, feelings are not divided into ages. The key is how both parties approach love. If you want to make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, you need both parties to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, consideration and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

2. Treating feelings correctly requires us to calm down and think carefully, rather than making decisions in a hurry on the spur of the moment. Once impulsive, you never know what the consequences will be, and it will become more and more difficult to solve, but if you want to solve it well, you need to stay calm and keep a clear head.

3. If you want to treat feelings correctly, you must communicate more with both parties, feelings are not a person's business, no matter how hard you work to treat it correctly, it is useless for two people to open their hearts and understand each other to deal with things better.

4. Remember to respect each other, no matter what problems arise, give each other a certain amount of respect, only by respecting each other, can both parties solve things rationally.

5. We have to take action, take the initiative to get close to each other, don't always wait for the other party to take the initiative to admit mistakes, take the initiative to admit mistakes and beg for the other party's forgiveness, and then summarize with the other party for what reason they quarreled this time!

6. Learn to empathize, think more for each other, and learn to understand