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It's not worth it. Women do need to pay too much to raise children, and many women will delay their careers because of marriage and childbirth, which will affect their career planning, and it is difficult to balance family and career. Raising a child is for the sake of the child, some people will say that it is for the elderly, you raise him young, and he supports you old.
That doesn't make sense. However, in today's society, the role of old-age care has become smaller and smaller, and most of the elderly now and in the future have pensions.
Financially, there is basically no need to rely on children to support the elderly. With the gradual improvement of social care institutions for the elderly, the number of elderly people who need to rely on their children to take care of them will gradually decrease, so what is the biggest role of raising children? I think it's spiritual sustenance.
Working women don't mean you have to give up on life.
When people are young, they are busy every day, and there are a lot of affairs in work and life, and they almost don't feel spiritual emptiness, but when you are old, when you retire, you don't need to be busy with work, and the pace of life slows down, do you feel spiritual emptiness and loneliness? At this time, maybe your child is not around, but with him, your spirit will be supported and cared for. It's even better if your children are around, so you can enjoy your family and entertain your grandchildren.
Maybe you still need to help your children take care of your grandchildren, but every day you have nothing to do, you don't have any thoughts, and you feel lonely when you think about it! You may say that I can travel when I have time, but I can't travel for many years, right?
It's hard work, but you still need to persevere.
So my personal opinion is, don't give up having children for the sake of work! Taking care of children is hard, but it is also a very happy thing, and you will gain a lot of happiness! A promotion and a salary increase may bring you a sense of financial satisfaction, you can live a better life, and your status may be promoted.
But how small it can be compared to the happiness that a child can bring to you! You can go to the community to listen to the communication between the old men and the old women, and at their age, almost all of them are their own children!
Happy old age.
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I don't think it's worth it, family and work should be taken care of, and giving up having children for the sake of a career is irresponsible to the family.
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I think it's worth it, because success at work can bring success and money to a woman, and even if you don't have children in the future, you can make yourself worry about food and clothing for the rest of your life.
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I don't think it's worth it, because there is no contradiction between work and children, they can be done at the same time, and women are not all about children, they should have their own life and work in order to make themselves more fulfilling.
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I don't think it's worth it, I think it's time to work hard or focus on your career, after you give birth to a baby, you will put your mind on the child, and you can't concentrate on your career.
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I don't think it's worth it. Children are the continuation of a family, there is no complete home without children, you can find it after work, and you don't have to have children when you want them.
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Worth. Everyone has their own choices in life, and some people feel that work is more important, so it is worth it to see your own understanding.
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If it were me, I would think that it was still a little bit unworthy, if you didn't have children, your life would not be perfect, and if you didn't experience the feeling of being a mother, your life would not be perfect.
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Because of the fear of having children and delaying their careers, it's hard to say what the ending will be, some of the normal endings are very good, and some of the endings are more sad, because some people are timely after the world rises. I went to give birth to children, then the family is relatively happy, and some people have been afraid of delaying their careers, so they did not have children, missed the best period of childbirth, from the cause of the family has no children, a family without children is also incomplete, it will even cause the breakdown of the family, and the ending will not be so good.
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Women who delay their careers because they are afraid of having children, what happens later, in fact, there is no unified ending, some people's endings are very good, after the career rises, that is, the timely reputation also gives birth to children, and some people have been afraid of delays, so they miss the best time to give birth, and there are no children, which causes the family to be unhappy.
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What is the outcome for women who delay their careers because they are afraid of having children? There is no unified, unified model, some people are popular in their careers and do not have children, and then after the time is stable, they get pregnant and have children in time, and the family is still relatively happy, while some people miss the time to give birth, resulting in no children for life, then the family education is not so happy, and the ending is not good.
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This depends on what you think, you can't have both fish and bear's paws, there are gains and losses. In the new era and new atmosphere, women in today's society are becoming more and more free and confident. I firmly believe that the material foundation determines the superstructure, and with a career, regenerating children can bring a better life to children and themselves.
Those mothers who have delayed their careers because of having children, when they return to the workplace, because their starting point is not high enough, they often have to start from scratch, and they have to compete with recent college graduates. In this era, mom is superman, mom come on!
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are all living happily, good girls, just can fish for the golden beetle.
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had a successful career and became a white-collar worker, and then, of course, delayed the blind date and became a leftover girl.
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Some live happily and live a delicate petty bourgeois life, but of course some regret it!
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Later, some still got married and had children, while others gave up their careers and returned to their families.
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There is no way to do this, not for everyone, and everyone knows what life is like later.
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This is not right, after a long time, no one will dare to marry, because the age is too big. There are also children in their fifties, and the pressure will be even greater.
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Since she became pregnant, Zhang has been stuck at home and in a "protracted war". She opened a small company at Teacher Zhang's house, her father-in-law was too old to take her grandchildren, Zhang's parents were not retired, and she was embarrassed to throw the child to her parents. In this case, the father-in-law proposed that Xiao Zhang resign and take the child home, and they proposed to pay child support, and Xiao Zhang's teacher also agreed.
But Zhang was caught in a dilemma.
She is a very strong woman with a clear career plan and has achieved some success in her current job. Now for the sake of her children, should she give up her career and give up her ideals? Do you have to give up your career to have a baby?
No, all mothers are superhumans, and the term mom can actually be summed up as "sweet burden". On the one hand, it represents selfless love, and on the other hand, it represents gratuitous payment.
Women who give birth not only have a worse figure, but also face various inconveniences during pregnancy, the "ghost gate" during childbirth, and the difficulty of raising children after childbirth, and they are also faced with the choice of life planning. Nowadays, many academic studies are raised by the mother before the child is under the age of 3, which is beneficial to the child's growth in all aspects, and even the higher the mother's education, the more advantageous. In fact, this suggestion can be divided into two.
If the family conditions allow, especially the economic aspect, there is no pressure, don't be "careful" because of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and don't need your mother's work to share the pressure of supporting the family, beginner mothers can consider it comprehensively. However, if the conditions are average, once the mother's income is low, the quality of life will decline, which will have a certain impact on the family relationship.
Therefore, whether you choose a stay-at-home mother or become a working mother, you must carefully consider the best plan that is most beneficial to you and your family. Who else said that stay-at-home moms can give the best care to their children. Who says that if working mothers continue, it will not help the development of the parent-child relationship because of the lack of companionship?
There are often scenes of children building blocks on their own, playing with colored clay, and swiping their phones while their parents are together, and parents think they have spent a lot of time with their children.
Then listen carefully to your child's call. Parents can crouch down, face their child's eyes and head, listen carefully to what their child is saying, and give their child real and positive feedback, not just "well done". At the same time, you must control your temper, and when your child makes unreasonable demands or gets angry, you must change the topic steadily and skillfully.
If you reject your child rudely, a smart child will be able to shut up with you after a few times. Giving birth to a child is actually a process of growing up with a mother and a child. I hope that every mother can find a balance in this journey to make herself and her children happy.
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Never give up on your career, because a woman is not a tool for giving birth to children, but a valuable individual.
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No, career is a woman's confidence, and you can't give up your career because of having a child, then the sacrifice is too great.
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No, women have their own careers to have the confidence and the right to speak in the family.
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I think that in life, girls should not give up their careers in order to have children, because raising children after giving birth to children also requires work and earning money to be able to afford them.
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Not necessarily, it depends on what the individual thinks, anyway, as long as you don't regret it afterwards, it's better not to do it until you have a certain determination.
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No, I don't. After I gave birth, I was in a good mood and Sakura Jun had new expectations for life. The mentality has calmed down a lot, and he is a Buddhist at work, but he is still working hard, and his goal is clear, and he wants to give Zheng Changbao a better living environment.
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Work is a happy life, and pregnancy is the future of a happy life! Therefore, people's social management should strive to ensure the fairness and justice of social survival, trading, network, and resource allocation, and balance the relationship between the people's pursuit of a perfect and happy life in the short term and the self-management "zero-sum game" between ensuring a happy life in the future. Life, which is endowed with the ability to reproduce the growth cycle a small part of the chemical composition that damages itself for the better.
Green plants absorb water-soluble micro-minerals from natural chemicals, fuse plant photosynthesis, and produce life-saving nutrients.
Small animals can directly or indirectly feed on green plants, and microbial strains live in green plants or organisms. Of course, in the material world, all the lives and individuals must be passively integrated and actively demanded after birth. Women who feel that work is important are generally all working women, obsessive thinking, everything is comfortable to live on their own, and having children will endanger their quality of life!
Women who feel that the key to having a child are not strong, and they just want to live a peaceful life, and they have too many ideas, and most of them will be full-time housewives after having children.
There's nothing wrong with saying that they educate their children too much! No matter what kind of person you are, you have the autonomy to choose your own lifestyle, if you think it is your own path, go for it, don't care about other people's opinions, just be happy! Children are very important to the family, and children are a bridge between husband and wife.
You have to think about your own age, if you are young, you can delay it for two years, and you can still have a child, after all, it is not easy to find a job, and it is even more difficult to find a suitable job.
For women, it is best to harmonize these two levels, after all, having children will indeed affect work, if you prefer the satisfaction provided by work, then you will have more time and energy to work, if you prefer the happiness provided by raising children, you will have a little more time at home, naturally if you don't like children, you want to dink family, there is no problem, the road of life is just a few decades, why bother yourself. When everyone is happy, the development of society will be harmonious.
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Of course, the current job is very competitive, and sometimes it is easy to lose a good job.
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Of course it will, sometimes having a baby is not the most important thing, for women nowadays, work is the most important.
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I won't choose not to have children because of work, I think everyone will have gains and losses, having children will stabilize the relationship between husband and wife, as long as you make a good trade-off, you can still have a job.
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No, because women are not tools for reproduction, women should also have their own ideas and opinions in marriage, and don't give up easily.
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Yes. If you really want to have children, then you should give up some things, some things can't have both.
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Yes. Giving birth to a baby will be very troublesome, and you have to give up your current job so that the baby will be very healthy.
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In a marriage, should a woman give up her job to have children? Because men are no longer strong men to rely on for women but can be opponents, and it takes ten months to conceive a child, women with a little bit of ambition are not willing to give up their jobs in order to have children, because pregnant women do not generate any beneficial value to the company. The company also has to reluctantly pay salaries and maternity leave on a monthly basis because of policy reasons, which is a big loss for the company, and the company is naturally unwilling to bear it.
The competition in the workplace is also very fierce, and when a woman comes back after giving birth, it is difficult to have a place in the company.
If a woman wants to take care of her own children, then at least she must be out of touch with society for at least a year, as for many men, many are not responsible, few people will contradict their parents for the sake of their wives, usually let their wives take a step back, but if they retreat step by step, how can women willingly give birth to men to children? In the end, it's okay for a woman not to have children, but all the worries about children in her life will come, and it is impossible to have no worries. The proposition about career and family has always bothered women, because women have been portrayed as motherhood from ancient times to the present, believing that women should do more for the family, while modern women have to take care of the family and work hard for their careers.
In terms of the need to communicate with partners to share family and financial responsibilities, we should encourage women to enter the workplace and also encourage men to participate in family affairs. If a woman is willing to give birth to a child for a man, it means that the woman loves the man, and the child is the crystallization of marriage and the mediator of life. I just passed through the fork in the road between taking care of children or working, and although I wanted to participate in every stage of children's growth, women still had to be financially independent in order to be able to hold their heads up in their in-laws' homes and give their children a better life in the future.
As far as you said, the change in a child's personality is not simply due to the change of the school, but more because of the change of the environment. Five-year-old children suddenly arrive in a less familiar environment, their own life inseparable from the parents may not be around, although grandparents will not treat the child wrong, but to let the child's dependence on parents to become grandparents, it takes time; Secondly, the original children around him can't see it, the language and living habits of the children in front of him are completely different from what he was once familiar with, these new people, new environment, maybe make the five-year-old child have a lot of worries, so that he has a lot of worries about life. Children are very adaptable, contact and communicate with children more to help children adapt to the new living environment as soon as possible.
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