Can t tell if it s friendship or love with friends of the opposite sex?? What to do?

Love is exclusive, but friendship is not!

The landlord thinks about it carefully, if someone is good with the landlord's friends of the opposite sex, does the landlord care? ?

The landlord is a student, right? Actually, I think many students are just friends, of course, some ill-intentioned people will add fuel to the vinegar, for this situation, the landlord does not have to care [I don't know what kind of heart they have!] 】

The landlord said that he didn't dare to talk to friends of the opposite sex, that is, there was a lack of understanding between each other, since there was a lack of understanding, how could they love each other? ?

The clear person is self-clearing, as long as the landlord opens his heart, all problems will be solved!

If you are friendly, you won't miss him in your heart, for example, if you go out shopping or something else, you won't think about buying him something or bringing something, if you love, you will think that you have to have him with you at all times, otherwise you will be unhappy, even if you go out, you will want to be together, he will not go, you will think about buying something or bringing something to him after you go out.

If you miss him after a short period of separation from a friend of the same sex, this may be love, if you are separated for a short period of time and slowly forget it, only occasionally remember that this is friendship.

In fact, just look at your own heartbeat performance, if you have a certain heartbeat performance in the process of getting along, and it is particularly obvious, as long as the other party leaves you, you will become a loser, and you will often miss each other, and you don't want to be with others, this should be love, but if you just want to stay together, it is friendship.

Summary. Love and friendship can be distinguished by exclusivity, possessiveness, and physiology.

Love and friendship can be distinguished by exclusivity, possessiveness, and physiology.

The first point is exclusivity: do you feel a little uncomfortable when he or she gets too close to other friends? If you're there. Well, your feelings for him may not be as simple as ordinary friendship, and you can't accept his excessive intimacy with others.

The second point is possessiveness: intimate connection, every once in a while, the content of the message is you, pervasive into your life, will buy a box of Weilong online for you because you like to eat spicy strips, will hide in the quilt together in winter to talk**, you will walk in the school playground to talk to him and her about your life, look at the stars in the sky with you, sometimes there will be a youthful guitar sound, you will run to celebrate with him and her on some special holidays, want to leave footsteps in every place in the city, **.

The third point is physiological: it's very simple, do you want to have a skin-to-skin relationship with him, do you want to go deeper, etc. If there is, then your feelings may not be as simple as ordinary friendship.

After all, love is, to a certain extent, based on sexuality. Through physical contact, you can learn what you think.

Except for the third point no.

Then it's still friendship.

Why. Because you don't have skin-to-skin desires for the same sex.

If it's really just ordinary friends.

When I see that the other party has a suitable date, I am more happy to react. This is a key to what you really think in your heart. A friend of the opposite sex may tell that he or she is dating someone who thinks that person is likely to be their destined partner, or that person is charismatic enough to put everything aside for a while.

When hearing all this, the reaction of the person concerned is very revealing. If you are happy with her from the bottom of your heart, or even want to meet that special girl earlier and become friends with her, then the relationship between the two is a real friendship. On the contrary, it may be love, in short, everything must be asked to one's heart, and the voice of the heart is the most real basis for judgment.

Friendship interpretation. True friendship is a wonderful thing that can make people happy when they are lost, and can make people get out of the sea of suffering and welcome a new life. He was like something that could not be spoken, and yet could be filled with joy.

Only those who have true friends can feel the true beauty of friendship.

Friendship is a kind of thing that can only be obtained by giving the same share of such things. How many laughter are evoked by friendship, and how many tears are dried by friendship. The harbor of friendship is warm, and the breeze of friendship fills the sails.

Friendship is not an investment in affection and does not require dividends and dividends. True friendship does not depend on anything, on career, on fortune and misfortune, on status, on experience, status and circumstances.

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Not sure about your gender orientation?

Questions. I know my sexuality but the other person doesn't know, but the two of them always have an intimacy beyond the ordinary.

Give it a try.

Questions. I don't dare to try it easily because I'm afraid I'll lose her.,So I want to know how to quietly judge how the other party feels about me as a sister or a partner.。

Try to give her some gifts that are only given between couples.

Questions. When she was unhappy before, she was on Douyin @ a person who liked it to see, @了我和另一个真的当妹妹一样的女生, and then I saw it and deleted it quickly after I liked it, what does it mean.

Did you ask her?

Questions. Don't dare to ask.

Care about her way, go for it.

Questions. But she had previously said that she didn't know her sexuality.

Then help her figure it out.

Questions. But she shows that she hides this feeling on the outside, and she is casual with me in front of her friends, but when there are only two of us, it will be very close, what can I do to handle this relationship properly.

It means that he is not ready to come out of the closet, and he still has concerns in his heart.

First of all, I think you should still talk to him about this problem, after all, I think that if the relationship is very good, the blind family is rotten and the nuclear rule takes good care of you, the two of them can still develop into love.

I think you can try to confess, if you feel very nervous and you are happy after the confession, it is love.