How to plan your life after graduating from junior high school?

I don't know why I should go to college? What is the use of studying in college? I don't know why I'm so poor?

I don't know why I'm so unhappy in life? I don't know what beauty is for, can I only trade for money? Can I know what else I should do, what to do, to ask for this pain?

Subject, you are only 18 years old, it is normal to have these confusions, don't feel that you are thinking very confused, because confusion of ideas is the norm at this age. Subject, you can go to college and are already stronger than 50% of your peers, and this will be directly reflected in you when you work after graduation. Subject, your family background is not good, in fact, a bad family background is the norm in China, the living standards on Zhihu are all in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and your living environment is not too unsatisfactory.

Subject, being a woman in a patriarchal society is a very uncomfortable thing, and the only way to get out of this environment is to detach yourself from your own value and money, or, from the beginning, don't think that you have beauty, let alone want to exchange it for anything. Let me tell you, you learn a small language, it is very future, utilitarian point of view, the main countries such as Spanish, Portuguese, are very marketable, this effect is reflected in your graduation. I tell you, as a woman, you will suffer employment discrimination when you graduate, and all companies will worry about whether you can accept a business trip?

Will you get married and have children right away? And you, now, should think about your answers to these two questions, if you can't travel, then try to go to a foreign-funded enterprise to do the backstage. If you want to get married, then at least don't have children so quickly.

I tell you, you are lucky to be a woman with a certain appearance. If you have a bad impression of men since you were a child, then at least please try to stay in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Hangzhou, and Ningbo after graduation, and then take a good look at those male colleagues who have come back from studying abroad, I think you will find a few people you can accept and appreciate, if you are still in school. You can also read a lot of philosophy books to arm your mind.

1.The college entrance examination circle comprehensively analyzes the individuality of students.

How to plan after graduating from junior high school depends on which direction you want to develop. For example, you can go to a university in high school, go to a general technical school, or go to a technical college, etc., or learn a skill.

Therefore, you should plan according to your actual situation and find a path that suits you. Let's take a look at how to plan.

First of all, you must have a clear goal, which can be big or small according to your ability. For example, "I want to improve my academic performance by 80% this year or become an administrator at work", a clear goal will not only allow you to work hard, but also improve your ability.

Most people spend a lot of time starting a business in order to make a living, completely forgetting to invest in their bodies, and don't regret it until they get sick one day. You don't need to invest a lot in your body, you just need to take some time to run every day, which not only increases immunity, but also keeps the body's metabolism balanced.

After a certain period of work, the body and mind will be overwhelmed. We need to plan ourselves, take advantage of the free time, go out appropriately, you can climb the mountains or travel to the nearby area, not only to relax the body but also to become happy.

Life is not easy, no matter how difficult it is, we must plan our parents into it, and our parents are the ones who raised us. In your own planning, you will know how to spend time with your parents, and you will not spend time with your parents to chat, eat, etc. Not only to understand the mood of the parents, but also to understand the physical condition of the parents.