How can husband and wife be happy for a long time?

Husbands and wives must trust each other and love each other in order to be long-lasting.

When two people are in the period after marriage, when the pain of the two people is obviously more than laughter, whether the man and the woman have a strong emotional foundation, they will have a certain resistance to the marriage and retreat from the marriage, after all, the two are married together to be happier with each other, not to live worse for each other. In short, if the two laugh after marriage and obviously feel pain, it will produce a deep affection that will not be used for a lifetime.

It is a lifelong thing for the two to get along after marriage, if the two are indeed unhappy after marriage, it is futile to barely maintain this marriage, so you need to give each other more care and greetings in life, and the marriage will be stronger.

Mutual respect, trust, understanding, humility, patience, understanding, tolerance, can all think from each other's point of view!! Always think about each other's strengths.

I think two people should be considerate and understanding of each other when they are together, be tolerant, and care more about each other! Think more about each other!

Life is unpredictable, and when we look back on the past years of life, we will find that many times it is because we only saw the immediate benefits at the beginning, and did not consider it well enough to form a long-term plan. caused me to stumble at a certain stage of my life, my heart was depressed and uneasy, and I couldn't feel happy.

Husbands and wives can do these four points, and they can't be dismantled if they want to, xx0i

In marriage, if you want to have a long relationship between husband and wife, you might as well start from these four aspects.

1. Each other's living environment and living habits are comparable.

Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also of two families. Both husband and wife grew up in different living environments and developed different living habits. Some people love cleanliness and tidy up their homes.

Some people are sloppy and feel that as long as they are comfortable, they don't need to clean up their homes. So imagine that these two people will live together for many years without differences? It depends on who is more tolerant.

And that's just one of our many habits. You eat elegantly, and he loves to smash his mouth when he eats; You have a little bit of a cleanliness fetish, and he often picks his nose in public; You like to be a little more refined, he often goes out unkempt ......There are too many living habits, and these living habits come from the family environment in which we have lived since childhood, so imagine what it looks like to integrate two completely different living environments together?

You have lived in the city since you were a child, and you have bought what you lack, although it is not a profligacy, but you spend two or three thousand a month; And he has lived in the countryside since he was a child, grew up with hardships, he has to save everything, use things over and over again, treat the food when it is moldy and then eat, and the monthly expenses are not necessarily thousands, save everything, and even pick on himself. If such two people want to live together and get along day and night, what do you think will happen?

There is nothing wrong with the practices of the two people, no one is extravagant and wasteful, everyone is careful and calculating, but the living environment is different, and their habits are different.

The second and third views are equivalent.

It is a headache for two people to have different views. Three views and world view, outlook on life, and values. Don't underestimate the three views, it affects your decision-making, your thoughts, your habits, your hobbies ......Wait, from the day your three views are established, it will affect you for the rest of your life.

People with different views get along with each other, and they don't talk speculatively for more than half a sentence. You like elegance and style, and he thinks you are sour; You are kind and friendly, and he often bullies the weak and fears the hard; You value the spiritual world more, and he puts money first. So let's ask, will the two live together without separation?

Yes, see who loves whom more, and see who can assimilate whom.

Third, the education and culture are comparable.

The level of education affects a person's comprehension ability, cognitive ability, personal quality, and the quality of the circle of friends. It's not that you have to be a postdoc or not, as long as it's comparable, it's not too bad. You discuss national events and economic ups and downs every day, but he doesn't know anything about it, and he eats chicken with a serious face on his mobile phone every day; You like to watch Shakespeare's classical plays, and often listen to "Croatian Rhapsody", and he watches the bubble play with tears in his eyes, playing your songs and my songs; You take him to a party in a western restaurant, but he complains that the skewers are not delicious, and others are polite and chatty, he farts angrily, and then winks at you with a hippie smile, telling you which food stalls are delicious; Your friends in the circle of friends are posting travel, projects, and understanding life, while his, the introduction of micro-business that can't be turned to the end, and occasionally you can see a few emotional fluctuations in mood ......Can two people with contrasting contrasts get along day and night together?

Yes, see who can endure more; See who is wiser and learn to change.

Trust each other, be considerate of each other, discuss and communicate more with both parties, so that you will be happy for a long time.

Husbands and wives should communicate frequently, say some intimate words, care for and help each other, forgive each other, and pay more, so as to become happier and happier.

After getting married, two people should consider the problem from each other's point of view, and should also care more about each other, two people should communicate effectively, and two people should share the responsibility when they encounter problems, so that the husband and wife can be happy for a long time.

Husband and wife should understand and respect each other, be grateful for each other's contributions, always care and considerate of each other, and pay attention to the sense of ritual at ordinary times, so that life is always full of freshness.

Two people should work together to maintain their marriage, so that two people can see each other's contributions, and two people like each other very much.

Husband and wife do these four points, and they want to dismantle Qin's stuffy and laugh, xx0i

From the romantic love to the real dull day and night relationship, Ye Weizhong is too familiar with each other, and the shortcomings concealed when falling in love or the differences in concepts between the two parties have been fully exposed at this time; As a result, emotional "exhaustion" or boredom makes love enter a "bottleneck", and if it is impossible to choose an effective way to pass through this "bottleneck", love will be very troublesome; This is a danger signal, so husbands and wives should understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other. Do not dissolve love because of a momentary impulse; Otherwise, what about love again, and can it last a lifetime? I wish you happiness without regrets.

Husband and wife do these four points, and they want to dismantle Qin's stuffy and laugh, xx0i