Every time you fall in love, you can only be fresh for a few days, and what should you do if you don

Generally there is a sense of freshness in love, and after the novelty has passed, they are particularly irritable and want to break up, at this time two people can look for some new things that have not been done to enhance their feelings, and two people must continue to demand new things to maintain their feelings, rather than replacing others with some things that have been done, which can not last long.

In fact, I also felt this way before, I and my boyfriend had a fresh feeling, I didn't like it, he was not the person I wanted, and then I broke up, and then I thought about it, in fact, because my thinking was immature, we could look for something that had not been done to do it, to enhance our relationship, but I didn't insist, and I regretted it, I hope you must persevere.

In fact, there is a transition period when falling in love, only a few days of freshness, and you will feel a little irritable later, in fact, it doesn't matter, as long as you really like it, you will definitely go to the end, don't go there to think too much, and as long as the two of you like each other, you will definitely go to the end seriously.

No one can escape the endless cycle of novelty, but sometimes, it's not that I don't like it, it's that this person seems to have a gap with my imagination, so I don't like it. In such a situation, you must adjust your mentality, and don't accept or abandon anyone because of your own impulse.

This phenomenon can be called freshness, the first time the two meet, they are attracted to each other, but as the days go by, many of each other's shortcomings will also appear, maybe you feel that he is not the person in your heart, and there is a deviation from your imagination. Try to think about yourself and find your own faults and mistakes.

I think it might be a problem with your mentality. It could also be that you are not mature enough. You can think about how your good friends became good friends step by step.

Why do friends you met at the same time become friends, you will find that it is not that you can become good friends after spending time together. It's the same with lovers. There are still many elements, think more about how you will go in the future.

If you can only be fresh for a few days every time you fall in love, you must try to take the relationship between you seriously, don't go there to treat it sloppily, you can't get a partner just because of the freshness, and you must face the love between you with your own long-term mentality.

In fact, there are really a lot of such situations, young people nowadays, they all have some people who don't know how to cherish feelings, just feel fresh, and then it will be fun, after a few days there is not as good as before, but if you keep persevering, as always so good, you will be happier and happier in the future.

Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness, which is a normal performance, because it is impossible for two people to have endless topics to talk about, because the process of normal couples falling in love is to talk a lot at the beginning, quarrel but then talk more about some things in life. The process of normal couples falling in love, at the beginning, two people saw some shining points in each other, and then attracted one party to launch an active chase, and the other party felt that this person was not bad, and then chatted with each other, chatted and found that the two people were very suitable, talk about it, and then after falling in love together, it will involve more of each other's past, each other's lives, some habitual things, these will have a hot love period, and after these things are understood, There is a situation where the two of them have nothing to talk about, because the things that the other party can understand are almost understood, and everything that the other party has done since childhood is clear. Two people from the love period gradually to, the bland transformation is all couples will go through, a time to learn to find some topics in life, change the two people can always talk about things, or two people to experience more things, there are more things to talk about, but also to expand their knowledge, the other party likes things to understand, so that your chat can be more pleasant, there is nothing to talk about, The first reason is that you have been together for a long time and have talked about the past, and the second reason is that you have not mastered enough chat skills, and you have not talked more about future problems, because there are infinite possibilities in the future.

Many people can't survive the dull period of love, and feel that they have entered a love mode with nothing to talk about, that is, the nuclear collision emotions of two people have disappeared, not love, in fact, it is not like this, because any couple has to go through such a process, learn to find a topic, learn to transition from romantic love to real life, and spend it, and the emotions will really stabilize during this period.

Not necessarily. I have a couple next to me, and the two have been together for four or five years, and they are still very sweet.

In fact, if you hold the idea that you will lose the freshness of being in a relationship for a long time, then every relationship you have will not last long.

Freshness should be about doing something new with the same people, not doing the same thing with a fresh person.

If it feels like a relationship is a bit dull, then two people can plan to have a pet together and experience what it's like to form a family.

You can also plan to travel to some places, now that the epidemic has been released, you don't have to worry so much, just take advantage of the Spring Festival to go to some beautiful places to play, leave a good memory, and it can also effectively eliminate the dull period.

Or you can go to some concerts or variety shows together.

Slowly planning something new, while also living a daily life, you can keep the heat of love hot.

Therefore, after being in love for a long time, it will not slowly lose its freshness, the important thing is whether the two people attach importance to this relationship, and whether they want to maintain it and make it fresh.

After a long time in love, most of the two parties will be tired, and it is not an exception, more than 95% of couples will feel very tired, in fact, this is also a very common thing, because we all know that love is the mutual attraction of both parties at the beginning, because we don't understand, so the other party is very attractive to everything about themselves, that is to say, two people are in need of freshness together, at the beginning, everything is unfamiliar, so everything is full of fresh energy.

But after two people have been together for a long time, after the freshness has been consumed, there is no freshness, everything is logical, step by step, every day life is the same, in fact, after two people have been together for a long time, they should learn how to get along with each other, we must understand your psychological state, be able to correct it in time, no matter how long you are together, you must create a little surprise for each other from time to time, Let everyone be in a happy range.

It's very normal to miss each other when you're in love, and it also shows that you really like each other. If you never feel this way in love, it can only mean that you don't really like the person who is in love with you, the wonder of love is that when you like someone, you will inadvertently think of each other, maybe when you miss each other, the other party is also missing you.

Many people will have such a mentality, thinking how sweet it was at the beginning, and how tired it is now, but the strange thing is that I am still reluctant to separate, in fact, I am a little confused now, because of love, or because of the habit of being with him, someone once said "Any love that is not for the purpose of forming a group of marriage books is a hooligan". The purpose of love is to get married. When you understand each other clearly, you can make a decision whether to get married or not, and we say that every boy and girl hopes that they can meet the best you in the most beautiful years, and seize the opportunity and their own feelings.

Yes, after being in love for a long time, it will naturally lose its freshness, this is the long-term love of people, it is something that many people will encounter, then the two can do some romantic things, and there will naturally be freshness, such as going to see the ** meeting, clan sports, swimming, and so on, you can create freshness, as long as the two still have love, they will not lose their freshness.

After falling in love for a long time, two people have no sense of freshness, which is also very normal, after all, after being familiar with and understanding each other, the freshness will gradually fade, but the most critical problem of the jujube cavity is still between each other, for this relationship can produce the importance of the true god of the rock world, and in this love can feel a long-term satisfaction, so as to ensure that the love between the two people is more long-lasting.

Freshness is creation. If two people don't create together. I think the novelty will wear off soon.

Freshness can only be said. Short, this can also be a long time.

Freshness is created. If two people are together do not create. I think the novelty will soon be gone.

Freshness can only be said. Short. Or maybe it's been a long time. 9292494

It depends on the depth of love. How to create freshness.

Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness, which is a normal performance, because it is impossible for two people to have endless topics to talk about, because the process of normal couples falling in love is to talk a lot at the beginning, but then they talk more about some things in life. The process of normal couples falling in love, at the beginning, two people saw some shining points in each other, and then attracted one party to launch an active chase, and the other party felt that this person was not bad, and then chatted with each other, chatted and found that the two people were very suitable, talk about it, and then after falling in love together, it will involve more of each other's past, each other's lives, some habitual things, these will have a hot love period, and after these things are understood, There is a situation where the two of them have nothing to talk about, because the things that the other party can understand are almost understood, and everything that the other party has done since childhood is clear. Two people from the love period gradually to, the dull change is all couples will go through, a time to learn to find some topics in life, two people can keep talking about things, or two people to experience more things, there are more things to talk about, but also to expand their knowledge, the other party likes to understand something, so that your chat can be more pleasant, there is nothing to talk about, The first reason is that you have been together for a long time and have talked about the past, and the second reason is that you have not mastered enough chat skills, and you have not talked more about future problems, because there are infinite possibilities in the future.

Many people can't survive the dull period of love, and feel that they have entered a love mode with nothing to talk about, that is, the emotions of two people have disappeared, not love, in fact, it is not like this, because any couple has to go through such a process, to learn to find a topic, learn to transition from romantic love to real life, and spend it, and the emotions will really stabilize during this period.

If husband and wife want to maintain a sense of freshness, they must constantly improve themselves and deepen their cultivation. Just like the model couple Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang, they are constantly learning and enterprising, and have superb knowledge and personality charm. Whether it is a human being or a scholar, they live to learn from the old and change with each passing day.

Can we do it ordinarily? If you can't do it, then let your other half worship Sun Wukong and learn 72 changes from the teacher. And one more bad idea.

If you see your significant other again and there is no novelty, then close your eyes, don't look at him or her, imagine your spiritual idol, or assume a lover.

Don't be afraid of being embarrassed and do what I say, follow your feelings, and keep it fresh and updated every day. Love itself is like that. After being together for a long time, the novelty of being together for the first time will naturally disappear with the passage of time.

This is inevitable for every couple. Freshness only comes when two people fall in love at the beginning. When they've been waiting together for a long time, they're in the run-in period, or when they've reached a lull, you now know your significant other quite well.

This time, there will definitely be no novelty. In addition, the longer two people spend together, the more they get along with each other.

In this case, their life has always been uneventful, that is, an ordinary marriage between husband and wife. Although there will be less freshness and many surprises, the mode of getting along between two people is the closest to our real life at this time. So it's normal to say that there is no freshness, and it can't be changed.

As long as the relationship between two people together is not affected, there is really nothing new without freshness. I think your girlfriend cares more about the fact that you have lost a lot of surprises in your current relationship, and you don't always bring her a different feeling when you first started together, so she will have such thoughts. Although you can't give her a complete freshness, after all, you both know each other thoroughly.

Half a year is not too long, but it is not too short. This is enough time for your partner to get to know you thoroughly. However, there is no way out.

You can create some little surprises and romance for her from time to time in your life. This is what we usually call a sense of ritual. Today's girls actually pay more attention to the sense of ceremony.

Occasionally create some romantic surprises, which will make the girl feel that you care about her very much, and those casual romances will play a great role in promoting the relationship between you.