I m a girl, I m very clingy in love, my boyfriend is very insecure, it s because he doesn t love me

If he does love you too, then you can rest assured. Do you think it's sticky with your girlfriend all day long, and it's sticky to go to the street with you to cook with you, no matter what you're doing, how about a boy who texts you if it's okay? You should be annoyed then.

You can find him, occasionally travel with him, go to play together, if you want to be together, each other's friends should also know each other, if you can turn his friends into your friends, it will be a lot more allies and eyeliner for you haha, of course, don't ask to stick to him every time, boys need more space than girls.

Find your own thing to do, the more boring you are, the more you want to be accompanied, and sticking too tightly will only make him want to run away more. Read books, learn something, play with your good friends, and your time will pass quickly when you are enriched, and the boy will also think that you are independent and complete, not his dependents. The most important thing is that you have to have your own life and friends, no matter what, and don't live for someone else.

Give him some scarves, cups, or something according to his preferences, so that he can live in an atmosphere with you, and you can also show off your thoughtfulness, taste, versatility and so on to your friends.

A boy values his brother very much, don't force him to choose between you and his brother.

It's because you haven't grown up yet, that's why you're always clinging to him. You must have talked about it a little less, right? When you're older, you won't be like that.

And can tell you that the more you cling to him, he may be impatient, of course only maybe, not that he doesn't love you, but that he is annoying. It's like parents on the outside, always asking us what we're going to do. It's not that we don't love our parents, it's the annoyance of being asked.

So I advise you, grow up a little and don't regret it at the end. Because I regretted it, but not anymore, because I've grown up.

First of all, not every guy likes clingy girls, so you have to make sure that he likes you to cling to him so much. Be careful that your love sticks to him and he can't breathe, making him want to escape.

In addition, as a girl, you can also take the initiative, he rarely looks for you, so you can find him, you can go with him to play with his brother You and his brother can become good friends, which is still beneficial to your relationship

If you are close, if you are far away! to have a sense of freshness! Don't stick to him, he'll get annoyed!

No, it could be your reason ... After a long time, you may even be disgusted with you.,It's not good to be too sticky.。。。

Men like women to be sticky, but they can't be sticky.

Everyone has their own freedom! It is impossible to accompany you alone, if you love him, you should accompany him, and you can accompany him wherever he goes.

You like clingy boyfriends, it may be that you are insecure and will feel lonely and lonely when you are alone01

Sometimes, you think you've forgotten, but when you think of the good memories of the past, you can't help but miss them.

Some feelings, you think they don't exist, it's just that you restrain the thoughts in your heart and don't let them run out at any time, you are afraid that you can't let go, you are afraid that your thoughts are overflowing, so you have to secretly hide this thought.

At the beginning of love, you may be moved by his words and actions, but slowly, this love disappears, and you can only sigh that there is no fate.

Not all people who love each other can be together, not all people who were together at the beginning can go to the end, and the feelings between two people may part ways due to reality or other factors, which is the most regrettable thing.

When two people gradually drift apart, can they really forget? No, there are some people who will still have love even if they don't connect.

02 Two people who once loved each other, even if they are separated, still affect your heart.

The person you used to love very much, will you still contact him when you are separated? Most of the time no, not to contact is not because you don't love, but because you love too much, you love too much to contact.

Even if two people finally separate, as long as you think of him, as long as you think of the past, this relationship will still touch your heart and make you unable to let go.

If that's the case, then it's better to keep each other in good memories and let the relationship stay there as well.

03 Love loses to reality, it hurts and regrets, but there is nothing you can do.

There is also a situation, and the most common, where you love each other very much, but practical reasons do not allow you to be together.

Or the family is against it, and in the end they are powerless to resist, so they miss each other, or the goals of two people are no longer the same, you want a stable life, but he wants to take his career to the next level.

Some love will be lost to reality, it hurts and regrets, I obviously said that I would go together, but you turned back halfway, how can you survive alone?

The most helpless thing is that when love goes away, we are powerless to change, and we can only watch love go farther and farther, and then we can't catch up more and more.

04 "Some people, who have loved or even met, is a kind of happiness, even if they are not connected, they are a lifelong concern. ”

It is a pity to miss love, but after all, we have met, loved, and known each other, so it is a kind of happiness, it is better than never met, how much happiness will be lost.

Meeting is a kind of happiness, even if the final outcome is not so perfect, even if you do not end up married, at least you have left traces in each other's lives, and this is enough.

In the days to come, I will silently keep him in my heart and continue to live my current life.

I think it may be like this, but everyone's personality is different, and I think this kind of thinking is normal for you, and it doesn't matter. Here's an extended look at the security of the country.

First of all, a sense of security is a feeling, a psychology; It is the feeling that comes from the performance of one party to the other; It is a kind of speech and behavior that people can rest assured, can be comfortable, can be relied on, and can be trusted.

Second, whether or not we can produce a sense of security comes from many factors, both subjective and objective. Here we will mainly talk about the subjective aspect. The first thing to do to make the other person feel safe is to make the other person believe in themselves.

It is not easy to make the other party believe in yourself, you must be able to reflect it in terms of speech and behavior, such as: speak to count, say can do, if you can't do it, don't make promises; Tell him often what he thinks, and often greet and care about his life; No matter how busy you are, don't ignore them and often surprise them; Don't be too nice to them anymore, talk and act the same; Be willing to break your bad habits for them.

Third, a sense of material security. If you want to really reassure them, you must also have a specific sense of material security, that is, you must make them feel that they do not have to worry about what they need to live, and they do not have to worry about living without money, which is actually a very important factor.

Home is arguably the most secure place to be.

Women need security, and men need security as well.

The sense of security is mainly reflected in two aspects:

A clingy boyfriend will exchange feelings, and he will always be by his girlfriend's side, which will make his girlfriend feel very secure, and the relationship between the two will get better and better. Girls must be insecure, if the boyfriend likes to cling to himself, it means that he loves himself, and the girl will definitely be very happy. Maybe girls are also more lacking in love.

People who lack love want to get a relationship, and their boyfriend can be kind to them. Be careful.

Hello, it should be, you prefer others to rely on you all the time, which makes you feel cared for. So it's really a sign of insecurity.

In fact, many girls like sticky boyfriends, a sense of security is only one aspect, on the other hand, there is a feeling of sweetness and happiness in this way, women in love like to be sweet and sweet with their favorite boys, it's normal!

And you can't say that you like your boyfriend because you are insecure, it may be that you like the atmosphere with your boyfriend very much, and then it is a girl who likes to stick to it.

Very few girls like boyfriends who are too clingy, and you may be really insecure.

When you look at the bright side of the society you live in, you feel bright and confident; Look at your own bright side, and you will be filled with joy and hope!

Very independent, knowing that others are unreliable, you have to rely on yourself.

That's it, see if you hold on to it.