How can you know whether a man has true feelings for you?

Sometimes, people often can't see their true thoughts in their hearts, because they have long taken their surroundings for granted. It's like if you've been nice to someone, that person will think that you should have been so good to him, but if one day you don't treat him so well, he will realize that he has lost some of the most precious things.

Some time ago, my sister's ex came back to her out of the blue. To be honest, more than a year has passed, and the man was determined to break up, but no one thought that there would be contact at this time. The other party said:

It wasn't until I was with other people that I realized how good you were, but I didn't cherish it in the first place. The road has come so far, it is useless to say more.

Instead of regretting it at that time, it is better to grasp the opportunity now and recognize yourself better. Whether a man has true feelings for you, you will know "coldly".

See if he will reach out to you.

No matter what unpleasantness happens between you or your unilateral anger, he will react when you stop taking the initiative to find him and pester him. The man who loves you will definitely take the initiative to contact you at this time, call you **, or find you through friends around you. He's so scared that you'll ignore him.

And most of the men who ignore him and ignore you when you ignore him are most likely not true to you. Why do you always say that if you really let a woman calm down, it will be cold between you? Because when you weren't looking for her, she had already thought through all the situations, and it was really scary for a woman to be sensible.

See if he has some unusual behavior to get your attention.

Men actually want to save face a lot of the time, and when a woman is waiting for a man to take the initiative to contact, in fact, he is the same in his heart. But the kind of man who is cold to him, and he is colder than you, maybe you need to think about this relationship.

Some men, although they will not take the initiative to talk to you, will get your attention through some other things. Like a man who never posts on Moments, the sudden and frequent Moments during your Cold War is actually to make you aware of it. Or suddenly like your dynamics a long time ago, obviously wanting to go down the stairs.

It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and frictions between the two sides in the process of getting along, and sometimes there will even be cold wars, but the man who loves you will always find a way to contact you, will not let you calm down alone, and will let his figure appear by your side and attract your attention.

If there is a problem between two people, they should find a way to solve it and face it together, rather than becoming a confrontation between the two parties.

Judging whether a man has true feelings for you, just look at these points, and what you say is very accurate!

First, observe behavior. When you're reluctant to deal with a man, see if the man will reach out to you. Second, inquire about your condition.

See if a man will inquire about your condition through your friends. Third, deliberately angry. See if a man is patient by deliberately getting angry.

Don't take the initiative to contact a man, let him take the initiative to contact you, you can appropriately refuse his various dates, your performance will make him feel in crisis, if he is really interested in you, he will be desperate to ask the truth, make you happy before stopping.

We can not contact men, as long as we don't contact for two or three days, men will look for you like crazy, which shows that men have real feelings for you.

It's easy to be honest, but if there's someone who doesn't really like you, most of them will distance themselves from you. In that case, what are the things that the boy is "cold" to you that can show that he is not sincere with you for the most part? Let's take a look

It's in the past

If a person truly loves you, he doesn't care that you know his past, and even wants to tell you all the things that happened to him when he was a child, of course, nothing. In this period, the focus is usually on his predecessor, if he wants to explain everything he and his predecessor to you clearly, in order to give you a full sense of security, then such a person must really like your Chunbu. In contrast, if a man hides most of his past from you, most of them are unwilling to share it with you, most of such people don't love you.

It's and the economic family

What if a man hides his economic level and conceals his family standards? Do such people really love you and want to have a future with you? I don't think so, if a man wants to live with you for the rest of his life, he will definitely be very sincere.

Would you like to ask you out independently?

A man who really loves you will actively create some space for solitude. Some independent interior spaces are conducive to the emotional connection between each other, and can also better understand the other party, and at the same time, can better understand each other's hearts. Therefore, the guy who often asks you out independently is likely to really like you.

How about not always dating you out on your own? Basically, I don't love you anymore, not that I can't chat.

His lack of boredom

When a man falls in love with you, he feels that he is very bad at everything, and of course he will feel that he is not worthy of you, so at this moment, he will make clear to you all his own flaws, so that you can have a psychological preparation, and this kind of love is the greatest. And not selfish occupation. If a man doesn't even want to tell you about his own shortcomings, then that man basically doesn't love you.

Emotional message: In the process of getting along with friends of the opposite sex, carefully observe the other party's every move, and you can see whether the other party is sincere to you, such as the above six aspects. The other party will often snub you in these aspects, and most of them are not heartfelt to you.

After you quarreled with Liang Sakura, he didn't coax you, but buried you coldly, and he ignored you when you needed company, which shows that he doesn't care about you at all, let alone sincerely.

For example, snubbing you in your diet and daily life; snubbing you when you're sick; Snubbing you when you need him in trouble.

Not caring enough for you, not greeting you when you are sick, not taking you home. These things can prove that men are not sincere enough about you.

Men have a lot of tips for love, so sometimes it is very easy for women to see whether a man is from the heart of you, or he has a rich emotional experience and knows how to please you. But a man who is not from the heart of his heart will have a very perfunctory attitude towards you, so if you want to understand whether a man really likes you, you can understand it by being cold and cold.

Of course, this method is a try, but it can't be applied all the time, and you must pay attention to the sense of proportion, otherwise it is very easy to fall short due to your own arrogance. If you can't figure out a man's mind, you can deliberately snub him, if he is in a hurry and comes to you every day to see your mentality, then he really likes you. Since the man who only wants to play with you will not waste too much time on you, if you ignore him here all the time, he will immediately move on to the next person.

The man who loves you is very patient with you, and in the face of feelings, he feels that he is the humble one, so when there is a problem between two people, he will first self-reflect on his own problems. Because when you deliberately snub him, he will think about whether he did something wrong and made you angry, which led to such a situation. Then he will actively communicate with you, hoping to solve the difficulties, and this kind of man really likes you.

And some men love face, if you ignore him, he will ignore you, this kind of man loves himself, not you.

After the man knows that he ignores him, he has no way to only be auspicious and powerful, he must first settle inside, is to look at your Weibo and WeChat to send a circle of friends, which can always grasp his own dynamics, and the man will have clear precautions. For example, he can know that you are not angry or not, or he wants to figure out what your mind is based on the dynamics you post, which is what men want to know. Otherwise, if you ignore him for no reason, he will feel very uncomfortable, and sometimes he will have insomnia, and he needs to make himself feel at ease in this way.

It's true, if a man has true feelings for you, he will definitely not be able to stand your snub.

After being snubbed for a period of time, you will find that a man who is really tempted will take the initiative to contact himself cautiously, and make all kinds of gestures of affection to himself, which is a manifestation of fear of losing himself.

It's true, because if a man really likes you, then he will definitely be reluctant not to contact you, and he will not be able to control the desire to miss you.

A woman, if every time a man flirts with you in the middle of the night, you will happen immediately, just think about it, does he think you are important? People are like this, saved in the palm of their hands, even if they cherish it at first, they will be numb after a long time. And what you think about but can't get, the easier it is to feel that you are lacking.

Men are like this, it is easy to find you, but they will think that you are nothing more than that.

Women don't think that the two have been together for a long time, and I am already his girlfriend, so I must be on call for him at all times. In fact, when I flirt with you in the middle of the night and want to talk to you sweetly, why not cold him, just ignore him, so that he can't find me immediately. Don't worry, if a man will be angry and ignore you, it means that he doesn't love you enough.

On the other hand, it will persevere, it will be stronger for you, but it can be regarded as the main manifestation of loving you as your life.

Deep down in men's hearts, they actually have the idea of being cheap. Whether it's a woman in love with herself, or a beautiful woman. If a man wants to take advantage of you for a while, but can't, he will get angry and alienate you.

In short, his kindness to you is not simple, but utilitarian. This kind of man, when you listen to him, he will definitely love you, and when you can't satisfy him, he will only hurt you.

Love is deep and affectionate, and kissing is naturally no problem. However, women should try not to be too proactive, and don't reach men every time. But there will be a few times when he wants to kiss you, deliberately snub him and prevent him from succeeding, if it will be angry, then you must pay attention.

But if he will not be angry, but will respect you very much and treat you more kindly, then he will truly love you as his life.

It is unlikely that the two people in the relationship will have the same personal hobbies. When we first got together, out of the need to understand each other and fully understand the other party, even if I was not interested in a topic that I was interested in, or even disgusted, I showed a relish mentality, which is normal. For men, it is true that they also hope that their women can understand themselves.

If she doesn't like the industry she likes at all, she will indeed get hurt.

However, attention does not mean laissez-faire. Women should understand one thing, don't say it's a topic you don't like, even if it's a topic you like, you can refuse to talk to a man**. Therefore, the woman does not have to say anything, and you show a very curious mentality.

If a man gets angry and thinks you are sick, most of them are selfish and don't love you as much. But if it will change for you, and it will also take the initiative to adjust the topic and say some specific content that you like the most, it means that in your heart, it is very important that you are happy, and usually men love you like life, so they will have such a major performance.

Don't say yes every time a man asks a woman, because this practice makes it impossible for the man to guess the woman's mind, which arouses the man's curiosity.

When two people fall in love, they are equal to each other, and in the process of getting along, they should be centered on each other, rotate around each other, and should have their own life and work social circles. To test whether a man loves you as his life, as long as Huai Ju doesn't pay attention to him when he flirts with you in the middle of the night, and see how he reacts, you can see whether he loves you or not.

Ignore him when talking to you, refuse to have physical contact with you when he wants to, and refuse to kiss you when he wants to kiss.

See if he will pay attention to the dynamics of renting you. If a man really has you in his heart, then during the period when you ignore him, he must be very anxious, but he is anxious because he can't tie you up, and he won't be angry with you because of this.

See if the man's imperial liquid will often pay attention to you, will he take care of you, take the initiative to contact you, ask the people around him about your news, and know whether the man has you in his heart.

See if a man will pay attention to your dynamics, see if a man will care about you, and whether he will take the initiative to find you, you can prove that a man has you in his heart.