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A child has been treated unfairly at school and needs to be dealt with in five steps. The first step is to listen carefully to the child's story of the process and details of the incident; The second step is to talk to the teacher about the child's version of the event. The third step is to find out the objective truth of the facts; The fourth step is to work with your child's teacher to find a way to solve the problem. The fifth step is to learn from this incident and use it to educate the child.
The above five steps are a complete treatment measure, and it is also a complete education, in short, don't waste any of them.
Don't waste anything that happens around you, everything has its educational value.
It doesn't matter if it's good or bad.
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Since ancient times, teaching has been a sacred profession, playing the responsibility of teaching and educating people and cultivating talents for society. For thousands of years, Confucianism.
It has been passed down to the present day. The responsibilities of teachers and parents are mutually reinforcing.
It is responsible for the duties and obligations of serious education, psychological counseling, and health care for students. Our country has a very high status and respect for the identity of teachers, and there is a saying that one day is a teacher and a father for life. In the same way, the teacher is also a person with personal preferences and emotions in life, with his own opinions and opinions, and will also produce biases in some aspects.
Otherwise, why would there be so many academic schools passed down?
Ten fingers have long and short fingers, and the palms and backs of the hands are full of meat, just like parents with many children in the family, it is impossible for every teacher to achieve a bowl of water. In the child's learning and growth period, parents need to communicate sincerely with the teacher, if the teacher has a prejudice against your child, then you must first find the reason from your own children and parents, is it usually wrong in educating your children? If the problem does arise with the teacher, then it is time to make an appointment with the teacher to communicate with each other.
Ask what went wrong and discuss ways to change it.
Parents must do a good job in their children's ideological education at home, and set an example to popularize the correct way of getting along with others to their children. Let children learn to care, tolerate and help others, unite classmates, help children deal with problems and relationships with classmates, actively participate in children's parent-teacher meetings, and exchange learning opinions with other classmates and parents.
If it really doesn't work, and the teacher has extreme and stubborn behavior, then you have to go to the school leaders to discuss the transfer of the child to another classroom. Because a harmonious and friendly learning environment is too important for the healthy growth of a child. What should I do if I can't communicate with the school department and the school doesn't agree to my child's shift?
So please be sure to find a way to change schools for your children. No matter how difficult it is, as long as it is correct and good for the child's future learning and growth, the child must be given a change of environment, so as not to leave a bad shadow in the child's heart in the future.
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In such a situation, parents should go directly to the principal of the school, and if the principal of the school does not solve the problem, then go directly to the Education Bureau to solve such a problem.
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In fact, we must first understand the situation, do some ideological work for the child, don't say that the teacher is not good in front of the child, it is not easy to understand the teacher, communicate more with the teacher in private, understand the situation, if it is not the child's problem, then we must have our own attitude and resist the teacher's bad behavior.
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As a parent, you must tell your children that nothing in the world is absolutely fair, and you must let yourself study hard in school, and if your grades are good, the teacher will naturally treat you.
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As a parent, you should go to the school and have an in-depth conversation with the teacher and ask the teacher why he is not treating his child fairly.
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Call ** to the Education Bureau, the Education Bureau will directly find the school, and the teacher will be interviewed by the Education Bureau.
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As a parent, you must come to the door to reason with the teachers of the school, and if it doesn't work, you have to report to the Education Bureau.
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What should you do as a parent if your child is being bullied at school?
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What should I do if my child does the wrong homework at school and is poked in the face by the teacher?
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When the teacher asks the parents of the students to come to the school, but the parents are reluctant to go to the school, the teacher can communicate with the children and ask the parents why they have such a reaction. If parents don't care much about their children from childhood to adulthood and don't pay any attention to their children's learning, then the teacher can contact the student's parents without the student knowing, and see what the student's parents think about the student's learning. If the student's parents are found to be biased in this regard, then the teacher should try to change the parents' thinking as much as possible.
Learning is a very important thing in today's society, and if you don't study well, there is a high chance that there will be all kinds of deviations. Therefore, teachers should also make parents aware of the seriousness of this kind of matter in a timely manner, and let parents care about the learning status of students as much as possible. Teachers should make parents understand the importance of student learning, so that children can learn better with the support of their parents.
If it is found that the child's parents are indifferent to the child's learning and are still unwilling to care despite the teacher's reminder, then the teacher can pay too much attention to the student in the future. Because students have lacked the care of their parents, if the teacher still ignores the students, then the students are likely to have all kinds of problems and some deviations when they are learning.
Therefore, the teacher must take the corresponding responsibility, do not let the child's parents ignore the child's learning, if the parents do not support the child's learning, and the teacher does not pay attention to the child's development, then it is likely to lead to the child's heart has a corresponding deviation. Therefore, teachers should take corresponding responsibilities and be responsible for students, only in this way can students learn better and feel the teacher's support in the process of learning.
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Maybe parents are really busy, there is no way to go to school, teachers can ** and parents to reflect the recent situation of their children in school, what is there to communicate with parents in **.
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If the teacher calls the parents, and the parents do not go to school, I think the parents do not pay attention to the students' learning at all, and for such parents, the teachers should go to the home to make home visits. After all, there are some students who need to be informed of their performance in school.
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Then I can only visit my home, and when I was in school before, the teacher was a home visit, and the impact was much stronger than calling parents to come to school.
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Teachers should make home visits, and if parents don't always go to school, teachers should take the initiative to visit parents at home to understand and respond to the child's situation.
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Teachers should call parents **, and should also talk to parents about the child's recent situation, so that parents can have a clear understanding.
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As a parent, I will communicate my thoughts to my children, and I will also tell my children how to solve such problems in order to give them a good education. I also encourage my children in life.
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As a parent, I will ask the teacher directly, why the child behaves the way he does, have you ever understood?
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There must be a reason why the child says, "The teacher doesn't like me." The child is nothing more than a direct or indirect perception that the teacher does not like him from the teacher's words, expressions, and actions. As a parent, you should figure out the reason in time.
Ask the child about the reason, and take corresponding guidance and education measures in time. Parents should first encourage their children and tell them that they are great in the eyes of their parents. Let the child feel the love of his parents, so that the child can reduce frustration, and it is also convenient for the child to better communicate with his parents.
For example, if the child says that the teacher says that he eats slowly, the teacher and classmates will not like him. At this time, parents should tell their children: "In group life, you should think about the whole and not go your own way."
The teacher's words make sense, but with your ability, you won't be someone the teacher doesn't like to be liked. "Careful parents can find out the reason for their children's slow eating, and they can exercise their children's ability to eat at home......
Communicate with the teacher to keep abreast of the child's situation in the kindergarten. Parents cooperate with teachers to guide and educate children without harming their physical and mental health.
Communicate with the children in the same class as the child to understand the situation of the kindergarten. If the teacher speaks one-sidedly, you can learn about the situation in the kindergarten and the child's performance in the kindergarten from the mouth of the children in the same class. Find problems and solve them in time.
In short, if the child tells you that "the teacher doesn't like me", parents should pay attention to it, understand the reason in time, cooperate with the kindergarten, and take corresponding measures to correctly guide and educate the child. Prevent your child from being physically and mentally harmed.
In addition, let the child know that the parents are her strongest backing, do not be afraid of authority, teachers will also make mistakes, so no matter what happens in the kindergarten, you must come back and tell the parents. Use language, in a language that your child can understand. It shouldn't be difficult to find out why the teacher doesn't like him!
The child tells the parents that the teacher doesn't like me, and it is very likely that the child is looking for comfort in the person closest to him, so I must listen to the child at this time and satisfy the child's sense of security.
The thirst for identity.
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Be sure to tell him that someone must like him. Teachers don't like it because they don't have an eye for beauty. But you also have to work hard to get the likes of others.
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Parents should go to the school to communicate with the teacher, ask the teacher what is going on with this matter, if it is really the teacher who has a problem, the parent should go to the teacher to solve the problem.
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I think as a parent, you should first communicate with your child about this problem, and you must find out whether it is the teacher's fault or the child's fault, and then find a way to solve it.
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Parents should have a good talk with their children to see if they have done something that the teacher does not like.
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You can patiently enlighten the child and tell the child that it is not that the teacher does not like it, but that there are too many students in the class, and the teacher cannot take care of all the students, and he must know how to understand the teacher.
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Parents can communicate with the teacher about this problem, and pay more attention to the child's emotions in normal times, ask the child what happens at school every day, and then think of a corresponding solution.
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As a parent, you should know what your child is like, and secondly, you should go to the school to talk to the teacher, which will have an impact on the child's psychology.
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As a parent, you should analyze the reason for your child, let your child talk about his performance in school, and then improve his child's condition.
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1. Tell your child that not everyone likes you. In the eyes of parents, their children are always the best, even if the child performs well in school, but it may still not be liked by the teacher, most parents may teach their children in this way, so that the child learns to cater to the teacher, let the child learn to please the teacher, but find that after doing so, the child becomes not like himself, and becomes what the teacher wants. Therefore, when parents teach their children, they must tell their children that it is unrealistic to let everyone like you, and this teacher is not optimistic about you, it does not mean that other teachers will not like you, of course, as teachers, we should treat every child fairly and justly, and we cannot let children have ideas.
2. Tell your child that the teacher's approach may not be completely correct. When sending their children to school, many parents often say that they should listen to the teacher at school. Because in the hearts of parents, they feel that the teacher is the authority of everything, and what the teacher says must be right, but this is actually a prejudice, we all know that no one is perfect, and there are some bad things in the teaching team.
Nowadays, it is often revealed that many teachers do not pay attention to teacher ethics, corporal punishment of students, and even insult students and ......so onIf we blindly instill in our children the idea that what the teacher says is right, it is very likely that the child will become the teacher's "tool", which is not conducive to the child's self-development.
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As a parent, the first thing you should ask him is what is going on? Why would the teacher not like him? There must be a reason.
Then show that you understand his feelings and tell your child that the teacher may not like your shortcomings in some way, but Mom believes that you can correct them. In fact, you also have a lot of advantages, but the teacher didn't find out, and your mother found out that you have ......If you show the greatest of these advantages, the teacher will definitely like you.
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First reassure, then solve, find the root cause, first listen to the child's description of the whole thing, and then carefully ask him some questions: "Why do you think the teacher hates you?" What did you do before the teacher said this?
Has she ever said that before? Don't dwell too much on the word "hate" and then rush to explain to your child: "Teachers can't hate you, everyone will like you."
If you say this, it is likely that your child will no longer want to say anything to you, let alone look for better words in the future. If the child thinks that the teacher hates him because he did something wrong, such as he is too active in class, then you should help the teacher to continue the education. You can tell your child:
Baby, the teacher doesn't like to be too active in class, can you wait for the teacher to ask and then raise your hand obediently? "If the child thinks that the teacher hates him because the teacher said he was too careless today, then you should tell the child that the teacher is helping him to do something that he should do. Please note:
If your child is constantly complaining about the teacher, it's a good idea to get in touch with the teacher to find out what's going on at school. Discuss with your teacher what to do.
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