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Friends" are two words, every word. When the ceiling is not encountered, the friend can still be maintained, as long as the self-interest of one of them is touched, the estrangement will be created.

When I was young, I had 5 to 6 friends, and as time passed, there were no 6 left. One of the biggest reasons is that an event touches the interests of one of them. Always blindly pay, others treat you as a fool.

Dig out your heart and lungs to him, talk about ideas, ambitions, he does keep his eyes turning, the surface is in line, but in fact, he hopes that you don't succeed and don't work hard. I hope to be like them, pursuing so-called freedom. Maybe for them, at the age of 20, working part-time or changing jobs every year, going home with a month's salary in the first month, and leaving home with a ticket after the new year, this is their so-called freedom, when the ideals are not in the same direction, let alone talking about friends, let alone on the same road.

It's not easy for us to make a true friend, but we also have to be sincere to others in exchange for someone else's sincerity to you.

People are lonely, and the older they get, the more lonely they become. When you want others to be what they want, you don't have real friends, the world is an independent individual, accept your own imperfections, accept "a friend of a word", "accept yourself who can live with loneliness".

As the saying goes, a thousand dollars are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find. Confidants are something that can be met but not sought, and the level of friends is not the same, some are nodding friends, and some are not brothers and sisters, better than brothers and sisters. I think on the road of life, with sincerity and others, meet like-minded people with similar interests, on further development, if you can't meet, don't force it, time is so precious, used to enhance and improve yourself, if you are in full bloom, butterflies come, when you are good enough, you will definitely attract people as good as you, you will definitely find the confidant who can go all the way with yourself, if you really don't find that person who walks with you, you have become a person who is so strong that you don't need help from others, In short, what kind of life depends on your own choice.

I thought it could, but it wasn't anything, and that's something that a lot of people have experienced.

Thinking that you can climb down with your hands is actually just a life attitude that does not get discouraged and does not give up.

So being alone is actually a kind of enjoyment, and people who are alone have friends, as long as you don't dislike your current life.

Don't be demanding that you make a few friends who are all confidants, it's right to make friends, and it's just one or two people who can become confidants in the end. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, as long as the friends are not wine and meat, a lifetime is enough.

If your sincerity can't be exchanged for the other party's sincerity, then there is no need to continue dating him. A friend must be a true friendship between two people who are willing to give each other and do something for each other.

Being able to see through these problems means that you are a little more mature, but you can't be so pessimistic, you are working hard to succeed, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps on the road to success, as long as you have confidence, everything will be fine, first try to communicate with your relatives and friends, get the recognition of your family, and then slowly communicate with people from the outside world, there will be people who understand and support you, come on.

Only those who have passed the test of reality can be called true friends, and they must stay away from those friends who drink and meat.

Confidants are hard to find, and if you have many friends, you may only be able to make friends in the end.

The so-called friend and confidant, only if you treat him sincerely, he will pour out his heart and lungs to you, the so-called heart-to-heart for people's heart is this truth.

A true confidant is hard to find, treat friends with sincerity, and you will meet like-minded friends.

I think that if friends are good, they should get along well, and if they are not good, they will live their own lives.

Treat others sincerely, get along well, interact more, understand each other more, and help each other.

Friends also need to keep a certain distance.

It depends on how you define a good friend, if you feel that you need help with everything, you think that a good friend must help you to be a good friend.

You'll be easily disappointed, because not everyone will go out of their way to help.

people, not to mention if someone else has a family or their own business.

After love, so it is recommended that the concept of a good friend can be had to yourself first.

This request, if a friend asks you for help, how much can you help?

If you are such a person, then I believe that your friends around you will also be influenced by you.

Put you in a more important position.

You're right, only by a few things can you verify that you're between you. Relationship. Meet and talk and chat sometimes. The problem cannot be solved, and it can only be distinguished in concrete matters.

Even relatives will have times when they don't treat you as a relative, so there's no need to take it too seriously. Some people are destined to be passers-by, even if he doesn't treat you as a friend, then forget it, anyway, a lesson is enough.

Hello, don't try this thing, this kind of thing can't stand trying, it's just going to leave after a while, this kind of thing.

If you are valuable, others will treat you as a friend, and when you are not valuable, no one will treat you as a friend. Excellent people have a lot of friends, and ordinary people make a lot of friends.

You're right. Indeed, thinking that they are good friends is just an illusion. I hope you will remember: you must not have the intention of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others.

In fact, the meaning of friends is very wide, there are friends who talk, there are friends who work together, there are friends who have friends, there are friends who share weal and woe, so it is not necessary to require every friend to be a bosom friend or a friend, so that you will not complain, pessimistic and disappointed, but become optimistic, heroic, open-minded and cheerful.

It's true that you think he's your best friend, but he doesn't necessarily think you're his best friend.

I don't think you're wrong about that.

Happiness and misfortune are the end.

This is a must, that is, the heart of harming others must not be had, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable.

Isn't there a saying? Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and after a long time, you will know what a person is like.

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other.

There is nothing to say, there is no secret, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, mutual understanding, and mutual help.

Summary. Hello, you have to change your thinking, don't give your heart to everyone, not all people are suitable for you to give heart.

I'm good to everybody, but why don't I have any friends at the end of the day? Why am I nice to my friends but not a close friend?

Hello, you have to change your thinking, don't give your heart to everyone, not all people are suitable for you to give heart.

I'm really annoyed, but I can just make a true girlfriend, but after dating, there will be conflicts, I don't know why.

Maybe it's the wrong way to deal with the problem.

I always have to pay when I go out.

Then you don't buy it, you have to say no to what you don't like.

If they pay, they won't be happy afterward.

If you are not happy, you are not happy.

Remember that friends can help you.

It's not about squeezing you.

Well. Please give a thumbs up, thank you.

Is it my personal problem?

No. So what should I do?

Be yourself and don't care about others.