Because of my introverted personality, I feel that life is very tired, what should I do?

I happened to see a question, probably what should I do if I am introverted and tired?

For this question, I think most people in life must have such troubles.

Including me is also an introvert.

The traits of introverts are: fragile heart, sensitive mind, etc.

I'll list some of the troubles that introverts may encounter and share my thoughts on them.

1.There is no topic, I don't know what to say.

For this, I believe that most introverts have.

When we are with others, especially when we are alone, we have no topic, we will feel very embarrassed and uncomfortable.

This annoyance is not difficult to solve.

If the other party throws out the topic, we will pick it up, and go straight down around that topic, so that it will not be cold and embarrassing to revolve around the topic, of course, how not to break this topic, you need to learn some speaking skills.

If the other party is the same, there is nothing to talk about. There is a high probability that the other party is also a more introverted person, and if there is no topic to talk about, the other party will also feel embarrassed.

They are both introverts, both parties are embarrassed, and it is natural to understand each other.

When neither side can find a topic, it is best not to talk to each other.

As for embarrassment, I understand that the other party has no topic, and I don't have a topic either. Rather than being embarrassed on both sides, it is better to understand each other and not care about it.

The key to solving these problems is to understand that both parties are introverts and understand each other.

2.You can't fit into the collective.

Because we are introverted and don't like to talk, it is often difficult for us to fit in with a group.

But we still want to try our best to fit into the collective, when we want to fit in but can't, it will seem redundant, introverts are often sensitive, they will feel that they are not good, they will feel tired.

It's hard to fit into the collective, and don't go out of your way to fit in and fit in.

When you make yourself tired in trying to fit in, the less you fit in.

Therefore, it is better to give up the gregariousness and go with the flow, and there will always be a circle that you can integrate into in the future.

3.It is easy to develop an inferiority complex.

Because you don't have a strong sense of presence in life and don't have the opportunity to perform, when you see others showing yourself to the fullest and dealing with various interpersonal relationships with ease, you will feel that you are very poor, which will lead to an inferiority complex.

To overcome the inferiority complex, it is necessary not to compare yourself with others. All low self-esteem is essentially produced in comparison with others.

This is your mentality has gone wrong, and you have to adjust your emotions in time; It is recommended that you communicate more with others, try to enter the circle of other people's lives, and integrate into every environment you are exposed to. When you intersect with other people, you will find that the world slowly becomes cute.

At this time, you have to find a way to get out on your own, introversion will not only affect a person's social circle, but also affect the individual's mentality. You can communicate more with others on weekdays, don't close your heart, and give others a chance to get to know you.

Adjust your mentality, life is your own, don't compare with others, shine as much as you are hot, and don't exceed the scope of your ability and imagination; As long as you are honest and do things steadfastly.

Introverts live very tiring because they are not good at expressing themselves and miss the opportunity to explain themselves. It's not a single lack of emotional output, but more distress comes from misunderstandings that can't be resolved. Introverts just prefer to keep things in their hearts, and overly introverted personalities are really easy to hold back internal injuries.

Many emotions are not known, and you will feel more and more lonely inside.

For example, when a guest comes to the house, he doesn't dare to go to the living room, he just wants to stay in his room; When I go to someone else's house to eat, I will only keep sandwiching the dishes closest to me, and I don't dare to get up to serve the second bowl of rice.

I really wanted to go to the toilet during class, but I didn't dare to raise my hand to report to the teacher, and I held it until the end of class. Because I was afraid that the moment I reported it, the eyes of the whole class were projected on me.

When I was eating, there were strangers sitting opposite, not daring to look at each other or playing with their mobile phones at will, not knowing where to put their eyes except to look at the food on the plate, anyway, they were uncomfortable all over.

When I meet with the elders, I will only hide behind my parents, and I dare not take the initiative to call someone, and only when my parents signal me to say hello, I will squirm and say: Uncle, aunt. But in the hearts of those of their adults, they don't have a good impression of introverts.

But many people think that introversion is a character flaw, in fact, introversion can also make a difference, as long as you find the right direction and stand in the right place, introversion may be a personality advantage. For example, there has been a popular saying recently: the quietest person in a group may be the most powerful.

1. Introverted people, probably often dare not speak outside, dare not conflict with others, no matter what is held in their hearts, they find a place to cry out after holding it for a long time, they are nervous when there are many people, and when someone is embarrassed, they want to have someone to help them out, but what they see is indifference and sarcasm, and they can't get along with the teacher like extroverted classmates.

2. The introverted personality will really make your life very tired, and it is very difficult to be happy, you can't speak, you can't chat, so you don't usually talk much, for fear of saying something wrong and making others uncomfortable, so you are careful. There are only a few friends who have a good relationship.,It's extremely difficult to socialize.,This situation has even developed into the game.,It's careful to chat with people in the same camp in the game.,Find someone to help bring a copy of it to take a long time before you dare to send it.,It's too difficult.。

3. Introverts will go through it several times in their hearts before speaking, but they are afraid that there is something wrong, so they try not to speak, which can be restrained and difficult to be lively, especially in front of many people to make remarks or something, or perform, which is not good at all.

Introverts are sensitive.

It is undeniable that in today's society, there are indeed more opportunities for extroversion. There are many bad things about introverted personality, especially for ordinary people at the bottom of life, introverts are easy to have low self-esteem and are too sensitive, easy to get depression, can't think about everything, like to be careful, care too much about other people's feelings, don't say anything when they are unhappy, and sulk in their hearts.

According to the survey, one out of four people is introverted, introverts are more creative, rich in heart, but not good at expression, but introverts are also introverted, rarely waste time on unnecessary people, be true to themselves, introverts friends are mostly extroverts, not many friends, but cherished. There is also a certain truth in the complementarity of personalities, friendship and love.

Introverts often encounter such and such troubles in life. For example, they are afraid to communicate with people, look at people, talk to people, etc. These are all manifestations of an introverted person.

Introverts tend not to like to talk and are not sociable. However, their lives are full of joy, they like to be quiet and not to be lively. They don't need too many friends, just a few close friends, and that's enough.

Introverts are not good at socializing with others, but their lives are always full of happiness. Introverts don't need too many friends, they just need to have close friends, that's enough. Introverts tend to be quiet and don't like to be busy.

Introverts are not good at communicating with others or socializing with others, but their lives are always full of happiness.

Everyone because of their own living environment is different, their own growth process is different, some people are more active, some people do not like to talk, once the temperament is generated, it is difficult to change, but the incumbent is not a person who does not like to talk and suffers a big loss. People who don't like to talk also have their own way of survival in the workplace, mainly to master the following aspects.

One is to get to the point. In the first workplace, people who don't like to talk have certain shortcomings in communication, and lively and cheerful people are good at getting along with others. But on the contrary, lively and cheerful people talk a lot, and they are also very easy to be negligent.

Those who speak little talk are those who don't like to talk. It is necessary to change the habits of the status quo as much as possible. You can say more, but you have to say, especially in key places, you have to be bold to say, after deep thinking, talk about good ideas, and purposefully solve difficulties.

In that case, the leading cadres will feel that you are a person who is good at thinking.

The second is to do things calmly and calmly. People who don't like to talk move their mouths less, but they generally use their brains more, which is all relative. Therefore, people who do not like to talk should make full use of their own advantages, do things calmly and calmly, and ensure that they are not arrogant or rash.

In an enterprise or company, a wise leading cadre, in the case of delivery of key matters, in the case of selecting people, usually will hand over the most important work to the most calm people to do.

The third is to ensure that the law is stricter. People who don't like to talk, and who don't talk much, usually don't believe rumors easily, and generally keep secrets. All leading cadres must have such a person as a little assistant, so many leading cadres' secretaries are all introverted people.

It doesn't seem to be good at words, but in fact, it's a small short article in an orderly manner, especially very trustworthy.

Generally speaking, there are advantages of not liking to talk, lively and cheerful have lively and cheerful expertise, and all kinds of people must be on the field, without having to have a psychological burden, and doing their own work steadily and diligently is the last word.

At this time, as long as you work hard to do your own work, if you feel that you are not suitable for working life, then let yourself immerse yourself in work every day, after all, the workplace is a place where everyone works, few people will chat in the workplace, on the contrary, introverted people like you are more suitable for workplace life, because you do not gossip or chat, you can concentrate more on doing a good job.

You have to be brave, you have to be cheerful, you have to be able to talk to others, you have to be very good at communicating with people, and you have to tell yourself that you are the best. And tell yourself that this kind of problem is not a big deal, so that you can quickly adapt to daily life.

In fact, introversion is a person's personality trait, not a flaw, so don't care so much. I think that as long as you have a certain ability in the workplace, you can quickly adapt yourself to the work environment. If you go to an environment with a good working atmosphere, then your introverted personality will also be driven to become more cheerful and lively.

In such a situation, I think you should improve your work ability and work efficiency, and you should also ask for advice from some experienced people, and you should also have some advantages in others, and you should also improve your courage, and you also need to exercise yourself, and you should also have a good relationship with colleagues, and you should also continue to improve your ability, and you should also be diligent, and you should also respect your colleagues and leaders, and do your own work.

The workplace is a not-so-friendly area for introverts. Whether it's recruitment or promotion opportunities, leaders tend to favor extroverts because of the high communication requirements in the workplace. However, many surveys have shown that the proportion of introverts and extroverts in management positions is almost the same.

This suggests that after the first year or two of a novice, the competitive opportunities for non-talkers will still return to normal levels. Introverted personality has the same advantages as extroverted temperament.

The definition of introverted personality and extroverted temperament in personality science is as follows: introverted personality is committed to the depths of the heart and is accustomed to obtaining information based on careful consideration of news, information, opinions, and definitions; Extroverted temperament, committed to communication with others, accustomed to interacting with others, teamwork to obtain accomplishment. I don't like to talk, and in many cases it is caused by my living environment.

It is not easy to laugh with others, do not know how to get along, and some people will continue to lack confidence. In fact, it's normal, how many people will come to the scene? Most of them are ordinary people.

Do you feel very tired of life right now? It's that you have too many rules, that you blindly compare yourself with others, that your impulsiveness exceeds your level. It has nothing to do with temperament.

As long as we are honest and friendly, we have a good heart and a good heart. You don't have to look at other people's faces, you don't have to please them. It's not easy for us to talk sweetly, it's okay, let's just honestly deal with people and do things, and honestly do things, and win the respect and trust of friends and leading cadres.

Firm faith, unchanged from beginning to end.

No matter how cold the social development is, we can't change our original intention of dealing with others. Although it is very tiring and hurtful to be a real person, people also have to be a real person as always. If you are physically and mentally exhausted, you need to find a way to negotiate your emotions, get together with good friends, friends, and family, and listen to the people you believe in the most.

I want to be in a bad mood and take my bag and leave, feeling that I can be amazed by the vacation and expand my ideas. Even if it's an ecological park, it's easy to walk around.