I want to find a stable driving job, with a salary of more than 5,000, help friends

Only Zhejiang, no way.

When a daughter-in-law is not necessary, there is no need to deliberately please her mother-in-law, as long as she can respect her mother-in-law. Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, and they can get along like mother and daughter. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, it is that the enemy will be very red when they meet.

Deliberately trying to please someone will not necessarily win the approval of others, as long as you do your part.

The relationship between my partner and my mother is in a very balanced state, the two of us have not quarreled, but they also do not have the closeness of mother and daughter. My partner usually respects my mother very much, and I don't try to please me very much, but I'm just doing my filial piety as a daughter-in-law. The two of them will discuss anything, and whoever makes sense will listen to whomever they want.

During the Chinese New Year, my partner would buy clothes and cosmetics for my mother, and my mother was very happy.

I think their relationship is very well maintained, unlike some families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is particularly complicated, and the family is not at peace. This balance also makes me feel a lot more relaxed, and it's a simple happiness.

Now many daughters-in-law have also seen it, and no longer deliberately curry favor with their mother-in-law, as long as the two can get along peacefully. Many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law also do not live together, and some may see each other several times a year. When you meet, when the daughter-in-law buys some gifts for her mother-in-law, she can coax her mother-in-law to be very happy.

In fact, when a daughter-in-law is also worried about meeting the kind of mother-in-law who doesn't know how to cherish the more she pleases, it is better to develop the relationship between the two naturally.

Thankless. Some mothers-in-law always feel that their daughter-in-law is an outsider and is here to rob their son from them, so they are wary of their daughter-in-law everywhere, and even look at their faces at every turn, which is not reasonable at all. At this time, your flattery has fueled her arrogance.

And many mothers-in-law themselves have prejudices, such as their son doesn't do any housework, she feels that she should take it for granted, and her daughter-in-law should do more housework.

But in fact, the son and daughter-in-law have to go to work during the day, why should they come back at night, one can be an uncle, but the other has to work hard to do housework and take care of the children, which is unfair in itself. But many mothers-in-law don't think so, and even if the daughter-in-law deigns to do more, they will, think this and that, and do it wrong, thankless, so many daughters-in-law simply say pull down and don't serve.

He is financially independent and does not want to be down. Many contemporary women are self-reliant, can afford to buy a house and a car, have the ability to travel everywhere, can also meet their high consumption, take charge of their work, and naturally do not want to be inferior in life. Marrying your son is to look up to your family, and I didn't climb high, so why do I want to please my mother-in-law, especially the man's family conditions are average.

Don't say that you are not qualified to find fault with me, I can see that your family is all your creation, and it is impossible for me to please your mother. They will think that I can live well on my own, and I don't rely on your family to support me, so why should I act according to my mother-in-law's face? They are excellent and usually others please them outside, so they will be too lazy to deal with their arrogant and unreasonable mothers-in-law.

The attitude is too good, and sometimes it makes the mother-in-law look down on it. Some mothers-in-law may be like this, the more the daughter-in-law flatters, the more she ignores you, disdains you, and even thinks that you are so flattering to me and nervous about me, is there any attempt for my family? Although the daughter-in-law may just be trying to make a good impression in front of her mother-in-law and maintain the semblance of harmony in the family, the mother-in-law doesn't seem to buy it.

Mutual relationship, I have never eaten your rice, I must respect each other when I enter the door, you are my husband's parents! So I respect you! But it's definitely not flattering, and the word pleasing is not a good word in the first place!

Pleasing means that you have to become inflammatory, it means that you have to compromise, and it means that you have to endure some unreasonable demands! Be yourself and make good relationships at home! Neither humble nor arrogant!

You are also raised by your parents, so there is no need to marry someone to please you! Respect for respect, live your life well! As for the in-laws, don't worry too much about what they think of you, your own little family is fine!

In charge of something else, I get a sense of distance appropriately!

Don't have no bottom line to please, you have to make inches, and it's self-defeating!

Don't please, each has its own way, the old man should be smart and will treat his daughter-in-law sincerely, and the daughter-in-law will slowly grow up and treat the old man well, if you are not smart, you will bully your daughter-in-law when she is young and ignorant, and when her daughter-in-law grows up, she will not treat her sincerely, and now the daughter-in-law is educated, and the bad conduct is also individual, most of them are very kind, and they are very good at communicating, so the mother-in-law can't rely on the old and sell the old, who is born to be a good hand in life, isn't it all slowly honed, can't be a five-star daughter-in-law, less ask for more tolerance, Your daughter-in-law will treat you well.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to get along with, and it is difficult to have a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with one heart. In the past, most daughters-in-law would try their best to please their mother-in-law, but perhaps the times are different now, many women's minds have changed, and now many daughters-in-law are unwilling to spend their efforts to please their mother-in-law. So what kind of reason is why women are reluctant to please their mothers-in-law, let me analyze it for you!

First, the status of women in the new era has improved, and they have become strong women in the new era

Today's women's thinking has begun to change, and many women are no longer housewives who are married and raised at home, but more have their own jobs and careers, and have enough ability to support themselves. A family's economy depends on the wife and husband, and the work of the two is supported, and the wife with the economy will naturally have a status in the family, and the mother-in-law and father-in-law will naturally respect the daughter-in-law, and they will not be able to pick the thorn of the daughter-in-law. And now most women have a high spirit, and they are not willing to please their mother-in-law at all.

Second, the husband's favor gives the daughter-in-law the respect she deserves in her mother-in-law's house

If you think about it carefully, most of the previous marriages were arranged by your parents, and you didn't have the freedom to choose marriage at all, so you generally got married after meeting each other and having a few meals together. A marriage without an emotional foundation, let the woman marry into the man's family, marry into a strange family where no one can protect her, it is conceivable that she has no sense of security, when she first arrives at the family, she only has the feeling of being under the fence, and there is a mother-in-law who does not want to see herself, so of course the daughter-in-law will carefully cater to the people in this family and spend effort to please her mother-in-law.

But now the times are different, everyone is willing to find their true love, to find the man who is willing to pamper themselves. Marrying such a man, he will give the woman enough security, and the husband's mother will know that her son likes this woman, so she will love the house and Wu, and she will not make things difficult for this woman. And the favor given by the husband is enough for the woman to get enough respect in her mother-in-law's house, and there is no reason to spend effort to please her mother-in-law.

Perhaps everyone thinks that as a daughter-in-law, you should please your mother-in-law and honor your mother-in-law. If you don't put effort into pleasing your mother-in-law's daughter-in-law, it makes people feel disrespectful, which is incredible. In fact, this is not the case, if a daughter-in-law marries into her mother-in-law's family, she should be respected by the family, and she should not live carefully, and she must try her best to please her parents-in-law, so how tired she should be as a daughter-in-law!

Whether it is a daughter-in-law or a mother-in-law, everyone is equal, and the daughter-in-law can read that the mother-in-law is elders respect her, but the mother-in-law cannot rely on the old and sell the old, and find fault with the daughter-in-law everywhere. Only when the family and everything are prosperous, and only when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, will there be fewer and fewer conflicts in the family, and the family will become more and more harmonious and happy.

I'm poor

You're rich, you won't help me, you'll laugh at me. You laugh at poverty and don't laugh at prostitution. Who called.

I am poor and despised. The poor are helpless, there is no one to help you, on the contrary, there are people who fall into the well. People are not poor, and poverty alleviation is the first to help people.

When people are poor, they have to work hard, work hard, and work selflessly. When people are helpless, they must be self-reliant and work hard. People are not afraid of hardship, tiredness, and difficulty, so they will endure hardship, bitterness and sweetness, and strive for the top, and they will become people.

Regardless of whether people are rich or poor, they must be diligent and thrifty, hard and simple. The poorer a person is, the more he has to work and work hard to get rich, and only when he works and makes a fortune will he become rich.

Seeing your question, I was also deeply moved, and I felt a few nonsense:

When I first graduated, my family was not wealthy, and I wanted to start a business with others, but I didn't want to burden my family, so I borrowed money from everywhere and tasted all the white eyes. In the end, although the money was raised, the project was not completed, and he was deceived by the partner. Later, I looked for a job, dug pipes under the scorching sun, waited for the company's truck at a highway intersection in the early hours of winter, ate pies in a plastic bag when eating, left at five in the morning and arrived home at ten o'clock in the evening, worked in the field for two days before payroll, and only had two dollars in my pocket...

Compared with other friends who can endure hardships more, these are nothing to me, but I think that youth is capital, and these pains are the best experience.

It's not easy to find a project that you approve of or a career you can strive for, and I know it very well. Take your time, don't worry, at this time, study more, learn what you are interested in, and use your interests to realize your own value, after all, life is short, you have to live happily. Don't be idle, waste your time, let down your parents, be ashamed of your wife and children, and then you will be wasted.

You can find a job, recharge while working, and learn to earn money at the same time. In this way, when you are ready to go, when you have the right opportunity, you will choose decisively.

Whenever you are most helpless, there will always be family and friends who stand up, these people, please remember, treat them well! The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, and I always believe that good is rewarded with good and evil is rewarded with evil. Do more good deeds, and God will bless you.

The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds! You have to have ambition, perseverance, where there is a will, there is a way! To paraphrase that sentence:

Today's me, you ignore it; Tomorrow's me, you can't climb high!

In the early years I bai

When I was the poorest, in 1960, I was 6 years old and asked my mother.

Zhi rice to eat, to Laidaoyang, Shandong Province. On the current old Yanqing Road, the elm bark on both sides is picked.