Girlfriend says there is affection, but there is no love

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can see that your feelings are very single-minded!

    The girl is an emotional animal, and emotion is higher than reason!

    I have feelings for you and no love', when she said this, she must have been fighting her minds!

    You are good to her, she remembers it!

    There is a great possibility that your girlfriend's relationship will be disturbed by the external environment! Maybe it's a contradiction at this moment!

    Don't give up just yet!

    Seize the opportunity, when the two of you are in a peaceful mood, you use your sincerity to communicate with her, to understand her thoughts, and then use reason to soothe her and encourage her!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's entirely possible for her to say to another man: I have no feelings for you because I have love...

    Hehe, buddy, don't be nervous.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She wants to be with you and wants to be with you, but life is not about bread. I don't understand either. Love. Ay.

    If you love her, let it go, provided that she is happy if she is not with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Her mood should be very complicated, I'm similar to her, I can't say what my feelings for my boyfriend are, it feels very complicated, as if I'm getting farther and farther away from love. I'm worried about what to do.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, she's already shaken, maybe there's a boy who pursues him, right? He needs the nourishment of love, you can't give her if you're not by his side, you should work hard, otherwise you will really lose her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Learn to recognize the reality, can there be the possibility of continuing, is it materialistic to be confused by the heart and eyes, it seems that yes, the whole era is so, since money is happy, then at least there must be some life security, cherish it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People will always change, and oaths and rules are meant to be broken. Please believe this.

    Tell her that if she doesn't think the two of you are suitable, be a stranger and don't be in a dilemma.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men generally love fast, and the freshness goes fast. A woman may fall in love more slowly, but if she falls in love with you, it will last longer. Since she's your girlfriend, you should be patient and wait for her to fall in love with you.

    You have to communicate with her more and talk to her more about what is in your heart. If you say love is love every day, then true love is really simple. Are you doubting your significant other?

    As for whether it is normal or not, you actually have a judgment in your own heart. Either way, don't cold war, communicate well.

    I just think that a boy, don't take love too seriously, and the verbal I love you doesn't mean anything at all, sometimes an affectionate look is more heartwarming than I love you. Boys shouldn't be a little bigger, whether you are extroverted and cheerful, or introverted and shy, if you just rely on the verbal I love you, to identify feelings.

    It's too fake, it's not confident, and it's too sad. How well you spend all your time worrying about these things, playing games, practicing ball, or specializing in a certain area that you like. It's much better to have your girlfriend screaming for you next to you and feeling adored than this.

    I don't say it when I don't like a person, not because I'm shy and reserved. I've never been a reserved person. Because I don't feel like I need to lie to myself. And then I don't even have the heart to lie to you. Perfunctory, you're lazy. Divide things up early.

    When you want too much and your own ability is beyond your reach, you will have a sense of insecurity, and you will continue to crave recognition and affirmation from the outside world, and there is only one way to really make yourself feel safe, that is, to constantly improve yourself, in order to truly feel fulfilled from the heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Actually, no, maybe your girlfriend is not particularly good at expressing herself, so she won't say she loves you, and you can't question your girlfriend's feelings because she doesn't say she loves you, which will affect the relationship between the two of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't tell my boyfriend that I love him, but I love him in my heart, and I don't have to say it in my heart. I'm guessing your girlfriend might just be shy. Don't be in a hurry, take your time, and see the hearts of the people over time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Chinese are generally more reserved, not to say love you, not to have no feelings for you, be confident.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No. It may be because your girlfriend is more introverted, slow to heat, and not good at expressing feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your girlfriend doesn't love you so much, he will be very perfunctory to you, he doesn't want to talk to you, he doesn't want to communicate with you, he never cares about you, he doesn't respect you, and he doesn't give you trust.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    often cheats on you, quarrels with you, has a cold war with you, and is cold and violent with you, if your girlfriend has these manifestations in the relationship, it means that your girlfriend does not love you so much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't care about your current situation, you take the initiative to chat with him, he ignores you, he won't take the initiative to contact you, and he feels very strange to you in a public place.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She was saying that you were not good enough for her, did not give her a romantic feeling, did not have a good love experience, and asked her directly what she wanted to feel in love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. So what is he to you?

    So what is he to you?

    I just don't think he loves me.

    If you can say something like that to your girlfriend, you probably don't love me.

    Then I think it's him, and that's the denial of you and him.

    yes, so I don't think it's necessary to be together, but he thinks that there is no real love in the world, only suitability.

    I'm speechless, don't mess with me before that, I'll be better off alone.

    So what did you tell him?

    I think he might be too rational.

    Said to break up He didn't want to We have only been together for more than three months Saying that he is rational 24 people are still like a doll I think I just don't love enough I am too hungry and cautious with him before I was a Sagittarius.

    I'm also a Sagittarius!! Then I feel like he just doesn't love him when he says that.

    This is not the case with Sagittarius for the person they love.

    Drip-to-drip haha, it's useless to think too much, it's better to improve yourself [than heart] good night.

    Drip-to-drip haha, it's useless to think too much, it's better to improve yourself [than heart] good night.

    Good night, young lady, can you give a thumbs up, thank you!!

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