The roommates are all local tyrants, but their families are not rich, how to solve the psychological

I think it's still you who don't affirm yourself, because there must be a gap between the rich and the poor, but what you can't afford now doesn't mean that you can't afford it in the future, you still need to think about it yourself.

Let go of the prejudices in your heart, correct your attitude, have the courage to face reality, and use all your energy to study, not to compare.

If you want to solve this psychological imbalance, then you should find your own strengths in other things, and don't compare your family with them.

You can study hard, enrich your knowledge and abilities, and as long as you are good enough, you will not be jealous of others.

Nothing good to be unbalanced, face it.

It is a fact that people are not born absolutely equal, and it is a fact that the starting point of some people is already the end that others cannot reach.

Seeing that people are now local tyrants, they are also from the hard work of the older generations or even several generations, from the perspective of the family, they are not at the starting line.

It's also normal, but you can work hard to improve yourself and give your descendants a higher starting point.

Don't compare the consumption level of eating, drinking, and clothing, since you are roommates, you probably are college or high school classmates or something, that is to say, they are still students, and the main business of students is learning, and personal growth is what should be paid attention to.

If you have an ordinary family background and others are local tyrants, but you can now study in the same school and live in a dormitory with them, it means that you are not worse than them, or even better than them, and you have relied on your own efforts to catch up with the children of local tyrant families in academics, right? Your family has also given you as much support as possible to get you here, hasn't it? Maybe you will put in more effort, but it is all on your own, down-to-earth, down-to-earth.

Correct your mentality, do your best, be worthy of your parents, and live up to yourself.

If your roommates are very rich, they must be psychologically unbalanced, and you can ignore the fact that they are rich. Think about it, they also go to the same university as you, and it's no different.

In the face of roommates who are all local tyrants, we don't need to be unbalanced in our hearts at this time, we just need to treat them with an equal mentality.

The team is all roommates of local tyrants, how should they solve the psychological imbalance? In the face of roommates who are all local tyrants, you must first release your psychological pressure, don't be too unhappy in the face of them, face them correctly, and then study modestly, then you should also be a good local tyrant in the future.

In the face of roommates who are all local tyrants, if you want to solve the psychological imbalance, then you have to work hard to make yourself perform well, so that you will be balanced in your heart, and feel that although they are local tyrants, they are not as good as you in some places.

In fact, it is mainly a matter of personal mentality, this world is like this, the economic development is unbalanced, so the economic gap is obvious, this is too normal, instead of blind jealousy and hatred, it is better to improve yourself, this is a bad condition, good learning is also an advantage, you can't be inferior and discouraged because of your poor economic conditions.

Because we must buy and treat him with a normal heart, no matter how tyrant he is, we are not envious, as long as we work hard, we will achieve it one day.

There is a saying, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come. Yes, after being yourself, the relationships that plagued you in the past will be gone, because you are busy doing your own thing, and you don't have time to worry about whether others like you or not.

Now it is very common to meet a local tyrant's roommate in college. It's normal to have an unbalanced mind, but you have to correct your mentality. Study hard to have a way out in the future.

What's in this? The family is financially good, it's not from him, it's his parents who brought it to him, so you think like this, you have to be self-reliant.

I think everyone's birth environment is different, and their family background is also different. Maybe your roommate's family conditions are very good in school, but you are the only one who is poor, and there will definitely be a certain psychological gap. But what should you do when you feel psychologically unbalanced?

First of all, I feel that my family is poor, which is a very normal behavior. In our real life, there are still many children from ordinary families, and their families are poor, which can only prove that their parents' generation does not have enough technical ability to provide you with a better life. Maybe they are already working hard in life, but they may be paid less than others, but that doesn't mean anything, and it doesn't mean that you will be poor in the future.

And I'm sure your roommates won't alienate you because of your family, or even say they look down on you, it's unrealistic. <>

No matter how good the current family conditions are, it is also provided by your parents, it is short-lived, and it is more up to you to work hard through your own efforts, find a good job, with a high salary, which can allow you to change your future life, I think this is the most important thing. And our current poverty is only temporary, but as long as you have a goal, a direction, and a spirit of hard work, you will always have results if you persist in working hard. <>

Maybe your family conditions are very bad, and your parents can't provide you with a high quality of life. So you should change this view of your current inner imbalance in time and think about how to change your current situation. All roads lead to Rome, and I believe that you will be able to break out of your own world.

We should adjust this mentality as soon as possible, I think this should not be psychologically unbalanced, the economic conditions of each family are different, and the ability of each parent is not the same, we should compare with each other, not family conditions, but should be than learning, than future development, I think at this time you should redouble your efforts to surpass them, and have a good development prospect in the future is better than anything else, so that your psychology is balanced.

Adjust your mentality, people have money, that is the condition created by other people's parents. So there's nothing unbalanced in my mind anymore.

Study hard. In fact, there is no need to feel inferior, family background cannot be decided, but the future is in your hands, so you must grasp it well.

Look at this matter correctly, whether the family is rich or not, those are given to us by our parents, they are our parents', we don't know what the future will be, and we strive to make ourselves better.

A few days ago, a freshman in high school came to me and told me the story of the past, her family background was not very good, so she may have a stronger sense of nervousness about money, but I didn't. When I was a freshman in high school, I often invited everyone to eat hot pot, hot springs and the like, and I also took her out to eat together. She said she never dared to expect me to treat her to these good things.

I had completely forgotten all these things in my heart, but I didn't expect that she would still remember them, and ten years later, she would still remember them very deeply.

I would like to tell you what I think from the perspective of a classmate who is considered a "local tyrant roommate". My family conditions are not bad, and I can get a lot of scholarships every year after I go to university, as well as various other incomes, which makes me always relatively wealthy. And I never look down on any classmate whose family conditions are not good, or who are a little nervous.

On the contrary, I am more than happy to treat you to dinner and take you to play. I think that your willingness to play with me and let me invite you to dinner is actually a very face-saving thing. I will also cherish our friendship.

Between friends, it is not more developed and richer than anyone, but the real blessings are shared. I invite you to dinner, never to show off how good my conditions are, but to be really, sincerely, I want to share a little delicious food and a little happiness with you.

When I was in college, I had another real local tyrant friend, the kind who drove a Land Rover to school. He will be careful not to let other classmates know that he is driving a Land Rover to school, because knowing that he is rich, many classmates will have a sense of distance from him. But later, when a few of us play together, we will find that he is very generous, likes to invite us to eat delicious food, and takes us to have fun, and we will not feel in our hearts that he is showing off his wealth or treating him as a local tyrant.

People are mixed together, at a dinner table, someone is responsible for paying, someone is responsible for telling jokes, some people are responsible for being the appearance, and some people are responsible for listening carefully and appreciating the audience.

Perhaps, this is the practice of the local tyrants themselves. And being friends with local tyrants is also a kind of self-esteem and self-confidence practice.

You can compare her grades, get more scholarships, and show yourself more in terms of ability. Besides, there is no need for psychological imbalance, these are external, there is no money to save, if you have money, you can spend more, you can also earn more money by yourself, improve your consumption, but I think the main task of college students is to study.

Everybody's upbringing and family conditions are different, and there's really no need to worry about these imbalances, maybe you have a lot of things that they don't have, but you just don't realize it, relax and do other things to distract yourself.

I'm a picky person myself, and I'm more picky about myself, because I really don't have any luxury goods to buy, and even if I do, I will hold back my desires, because I'm really poor.

In fact, it doesn't have to be very unbalanced, people are rich, they are rich second generation, you are not, what can you do? You can solve the contradiction with yourself, there is nothing to envy, you can't afford what you want now, then wait to buy it in the future.

The original family is put there, don't always blame the original family for your unsuccess or bad mixing, everyone's factory configuration is different, who doesn't have some scratches on their body, you can only really grow up if you forget these scratches. Ordinary players choose the standard configuration, while high-end players choose the custom configuration!

When I was a child, I also thought the world was very unfair, but now I think it's a good thing to be unfair, it makes you work harder.

Parents can't choose by themselves, since you were born in such a family, you have to learn to face it, don't make indifferent comparisons, it's useless for you to compare here, don't want your future children to be like this, then work hard.

I don't think there's anything unbalanced, it's just that the living conditions are not as good as theirs, but it doesn't mean that I'm not as good as them in other aspects! If you have money, don't you play and live and study like me, who has no money? So children who don't have umbrellas have to run hard, try to make themselves better than them, and make themselves more confident!

There are four roommates in college, there are six rooms, we come from all over the country, we get together is fate, although some families are rich and the second generation is rich, some families are not rich, I want to say don't compare, people are different.

If we don't come together, then we are roommates, we are brothers, don't care about family background, we have to study hard in college, make full use of the four years to enrich ourselves, so that we can enter the society in the future, be able to find a good job, so that we can become rich, and let our children become rich second generation is the king.

Don't have this kind of psychological gap, what if he has money and you don't have money, life still has to live, and food still has to be eaten.

Don't pay too much attention to the roommates of the local tyrants, get along more if you get along well, and there are many places to stay if you don't get along well, so that your college life is busy, and it is estimated that there will be no unbalanced psychology!

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