Why is there so much pressure to be a human being? So helpless?

I give you advice, do you think it's okay?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Everything in the world has both positive and negative aspects. The same thing is seen from different angles in the eyes of two different people. Therefore, it is really difficult to do anything perfectly, and people have to do things to live, so it is difficult to be a man!

The same apple, from another angle, it is different. It's the same with people, even if you do something that is good in the eyes of most people, there will still be people who say it's bad. Why is it difficult to be a good person?

Because there are no absolutes in the world, everything is relative. Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, so in the eyes of different people, you are different people. Don't try to be perfect, because there is no such thing as perfection.

When you actually graduate.

When you really enter the society.

You will understand how lighter the academic pressure you are facing now and the pressure of facing society.

Do your studies well and cherish the time you studied.

Just advice.

Last year, I took out a loan to buy a Baojun 730 with a loan of 50,000 yuan, which was paid off in three years. Now with the car, the pressure is huge. I have to repay the loan every month, and I don't have much money left, so I will resign next year and prepare to have a second child at home, and I will take care of the child for a year the year after tomorrow.

At that time, my husband will have a salary of more than 4,000 yuan to support four people. I've been out of breath these days......I advise those who want to buy a car but have little money, holding the money in their hands and feeling safe and practical!

The pressure of an old man's life! According to common sense, a 60-year-old person has reached the age of "retirement" and reached the realm of "ear shun", and there should be no pressure in life. However, some people are just a cheap life, they don't know how to enjoy life, enjoy life, they always love to be amorous, self-seeking hardships, and pretentious.

I belong to such a person. The pursuit of the value and meaning of life, with the belief that "no one has died in life since ancient times, leaving Dan to take care of the sweat and youth", we must let the ordinary life rub out a spark, take the rise and fall of the world as our own responsibility, take the responsibility and mission of the life of the times, and put pressure on ourselves, which is purely a "no-brainer type". Since human society entered the Internet age, everything has changed, and the development of human society has reached a period where it must be transformed.

In the Internet era, it has become the era of "global village", and human society has become a "community of destiny", and each other's destiny is closely linked, because the world has you, everyone must take this responsibility, so that the world has a positive meaning because of you. The development of human society has entered an era of "painful reform of the past" and an economic era of "happiness for all", and someone must assume the responsibility and mission of life in this era and make an answer worthy of this era. Lao Ma knows the way and serves the beautiful and happy life of more people.

The pressure is tremendous and at the same time great and well worth it!

I am 37 years old this year, although my life is not very rich, but the money I earn is still enough for the family's small expenses, I wanted to work hard for two years in my hometown to buy a small house for my old father to support the elderly, but I didn't expect my father to be infected with AIDS when he messed around outside, and I was overwhelmed by this originally warm little home, and now I am guarding him in the ward every day, and I have spent all my small savings, and I can't make money for a while, and I feel that he is so hateful and shameful! I'm so helpless!

Marriage is different from love, marriage follows the principle of reality, it is a jingle collision of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and all the expenses of the family are inseparable from the support of money. Going to work to earn money became a priority. The two of them are tired after a long day of work, and when they come home from work, they have to cook, tidy up the house, take care of each other, and if the children are too young and need companionship and meticulous care, it will be even more annoying.

If a husband and wife live with both parents, due to the difference in values and living habits, there will also be ideological estrangement, and in addition, they are not good at handling problems, and the contradictions will become more and more rigid. In addition, if the family has difficulty in housing or the housing is crowded, it can also cause displeasure for both spouses. As the saying goes, it is not unreasonable for poor couples to mourn everything.

Quarrels and the Cold War eventually broke up the couple's relationship. To sum up, the relationship between husband and wife is threatened by many factors.

Let's talk about my family, 15 years of breeding failure, 600,000 debts, now the old public engineering car, 7,000 per month, I more than 3,000 points per month, my husband and I pay social security 1700 per month, the youngest daughter goes to kindergarten 700, there is a loan to repay 700 per month, at the end of the month, there is little left, there is really a lot of debt!

People have a certain amount of pressure every day, and there are all kinds of pressure, the heaviest of which is mental, and people can carry a certain amount of pressure, but not too much, otherwise they will collapse, and sometimes you need to find some partners to help you share some of it, and occasionally help them share some of it, and carry all the pressure on your shoulders, which is very tiring.

No pressure** to come motivated?