Do you know how harmful it is to often hit and scold children?

It is really not easy for people in this life, they are destined to go through a long life, the sky is the same sky, the earth is the same land, and there is a cycle law that never changes. First being a child and then a parent, this is the unchangeable natural law of human existence, but in the process of human development, although it is the same world, everyone has walked a different road, and the life experienced is even more varied.

The birth of a baby is the new hope of a family, and it is the center of gravity of the family. They all came to the world with a wow, but they experienced different growth experiences. As the saying goes, what kind of parents have what kind of children, it can be seen how important a person's growth is to parents, the most difficult period of life is the child's growth period, parents are not only the child's nurturer, but also the child's mentor in the process of growth.

In real life, there are some short-tempered parents who pass on the genes inherited from the previous generation to the next generation, and finally scold the child and become addicted, resulting in major psychological damage and mental pressure to the child.

What kind of impact does regular scolding have on children? Now on the harm caused by a parent's frequent violence against his child, the following points are summarized.

First: Parents' violent behavior will cause violent temper to childrenParents' violent behavior will cause violent temper to children, because on the one hand, children will inherit the genes of their parents, and on the other hand, due to long-term violence, it will cause violent resistance, which will also create children's violent temper.

Second: insecurity, love to lie because of the irritability of parents, children have no sense of security at home, because they are afraid that they dare not speak when they encounter things, and even lie and do not tell the truth to cover themselves, so it is easy for children to form the habit of lying and become dishonest.

Third: children will lose confidence, inferiority complex because parents often indiscriminately always lose their temper, in the child's young mind, parental tantrum is the child's mistake performance, children will think that they are wrong, will lose confidence in themselves, it is easy to have inferiority complex.

Fourth: Paranoid personality As children grow older, due to parental violence, children will be resistant to parents, do not like to communicate with parents, become paranoid personality, and will do things willingly.

Fifth: Cowardly personality Because of the long-term influence of domestic violence, it will bury a deep shadow in the child's mind and form a cowardly character for the child.

The above points are the facts that happen in real life, we parents want to let their children live a happy and comfortable life, so in the irritable parents, for the future of their children, but also to overcome themselves, change their own way of raising and educating their children, there is a saying that failure is the mother of success, now I want to say, parents are the real mother of success for children.

It will make the child have a very low self-esteem, and if the situation is serious, it will make the child very depressed, so try not to beat and scold the child often.

Often beating and scolding children, it will have a great impact on the child's mind, the baby will become more timid and weak, dare not resist when encountering things, dare not express what he thinks to his parents, and will be particularly rebellious when he grows up.

Frequent beating and scolding of children can easily make children feel inferior, make children become timid and afraid, and very much hit children's self-esteem.

Often beating and scolding the child, causing a great shadow to the child's psychology, will also accompany the child's life, and when the child grows up, his heart will be very distorted, and the same problem may occur to him.

1. Often beat and scold children, children are easy to develop irritable and irritable personalities in terms of temper. Because parents often beat and scold their children, they will form a false impression in the child's young mind that everything can be solved through violent means.

2. Long-term beating and scolding of children will make children become inferior and cowardly. In terms of feelings, they will gradually become estranged from their parents, and they will show lack of self-confidence, which is extremely detrimental to their future growth.

<> under normal circumstances, it is of course wrong to hit a child, and if a child is wrong, he should be criticized by science and education, and hitting will not teach the child to correct his mistakes, and he will also hit others under its influence.

1. Whenever a child makes a mistake, parents may be angry in order to relieve their anger for a while, and often give their children a stick before they understand the reason, so that they can quickly realize their mistakes and not make them again. And the difference in the understanding of the different cognitive levels of the child's age, in the end, I didn't figure out what was wrong with me, and I didn't understand whether it was right to do that? But in order to avoid being beaten, they may cry and say that they are wrong, and if parents ask them what is wrong, they may not be able to answer.

At this time, we should adjust our mentality, don't blindly criticize the child, beat and scold the child, and don't try to punish the child for a moment of psychological comfort, we should give them reason and the harm caused by mistakes, I think educating the child will have the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort.

2. Long-term stick education will affect the child's character, and long-term beating and scolding will make the child's character cowardly and make the child inferior. Always feel that everything you do is wrong, you will become cautious, you are always afraid of making mistakes, you are always afraid of being beaten and scolded, and in the long run, your child may not eat or sleep well, be preoccupied, become silent, and become depressed and uneasy. Severe cases may lead to mental illness.

3. Hitting children often is easy to make children have violent tendencies. Children have a strong ability to imitate when they are young. In this way, it is also easy to plant the seeds of violence in the hearts of children.

4. Hitting children affects parent-child relationships. When you use force and violence, your child will not be able to beat you and will think that you are bullying him. When he grows up, he will add to you, and the parent-child relationship will not be too good.

It can be seen that stick education can not make children grow up healthy and happy, but will only make us more distant from children. When the children are older, their rebellious psychology will be stronger, and they will want to stay away from the family "grave" as soon as possible, and they will be more disobedient to discipline.

Children will become very inferior, they will become very irritable, they will become very cowardly, they will also become very timid, they will also become very impolite, and this is not conducive to the physical and mental health of children, so I think children should not be beaten and scolded.

No, it is likely to cause the child to have particularly serious psychological problems, hitting and scolding the child may cause the child to break bones, it may lead to the child to be extremely rebellious, and it may lead to the child's rebellious psychology.

It will affect the child's personality, it will also affect the child's thinking, it will affect the child's social skills, sharing ability, and will hurt the parent-child relationship between the child and the parent. Children should not be beaten or scolded.

For many parents, they will have some more or less problems in educating their children, and some parents will choose to beat and scold them in order to educate their children in order to achieve an educational effect. But in fact, for children, their hearts are very fragile, and if they are often beaten and scolded during education, it will cause certain harm to their psychology.

Character defects: First of all, for children, frequent scolding by their parents will cause certain defects in their personalityBecause many children are fragile in their hearts, when they are often beaten and scolded by their parents, their character will suffer some withdrawn behavior。Even if they are reluctant to communicate with others in life, they will feel very inferior among their classmates, so that time will make them lack self-confidence among their friends. Especially for children, if their personality causes flaws, they will become very sluggish in their aspects of dealing with people later on, and it will be difficult to make friends.

Psychological problems: Children are often beaten and scolded by their parents, and there will be some problems in their hearts, resulting in psychological inferiority, which will make them always feel inferior to others when they get along with others in their ordinary life. If this situation is more serious, it will make the child's psychology distorted, and when doing things, he will feel very extreme, and even do some shocking things in his mind. In this way, they are always not consistent with others in terms of how others deal with things, and may even have some quarrels with others, and vent their emotions on others with the beating and scolding of their parents.

When they are brought up, they become reluctant to communicate with others, forming an avoidant personality, and at the same time, their social skills will be deficient, and they will not want to participate in social activities for a long time. Even because I am often beaten and scolded by my parents at home, I don't dare to tell others about my experience when I talk to others, for fear of being ridiculed.

There are very serious harms, which may make children have psychological shadows, and at the same time, they will also make children particularly timid, or make children rebellious and more and more disobedient, which will also affect children's learning and life.

It will hurt the child's psychology, affect the child's growth, affect the child's physical and mental health, make the child very inferior, or make the child have a tendency to violence.

Hitting and scolding children will also be harmful, it will make children become particularly inferior, and it will also make children dare not express their inner thoughts, and they will always become submissive when getting along with others, so don't do this, it will affect the child in the next life, and it will also make the child's psychological health unhealthy.

In this way, it will lead to the child's personality becoming more and more inferior, and he will become more and more timid when doing things, and finally there may be a difficult choice, and then the distance between him and his parents will become more and more distant, which will also affect the child's learning and life.