Tell us when you realized that your maturity was actually self righteous, right?

I feel that I am very mature, I often persuade others, explain some reason, and justify myself, but later I find that when I encounter something, I can't persuade myself, and I am just self-righteous.

When my best friend quarreled with her husband, I went to persuade her, and my best friend told me that what you told me was useless, you hadn't even talked about love, and then I realized how naïve I was.

After arguing with my parents, I felt that I had grown up and matured, and decided to move out, feeling that I could be responsible for myself, but I still couldn't do many things by myself, and I still couldn't do it without my parents.

When I met an old classmate I hadn't seen for a long time, his conversation, some of his behaviors, and some of his views made me sigh to myself, thinking that I was very mature, but I was still very naïve compared to others.

Even now, I have made a lot of wrong decisions before, I didn't follow my parents' advice, and I was self-righteous, and as a result, I have caused very serious wrong consequences, and I can't change it, and if I listen to my parents, I may not be able to go this far.

When I couldn't control my emotions, I thought I was very mature, but the last time I fought with my classmates because of a trivial matter, I couldn't not only suppress it, but also was infinitely magnified by myself.

I always felt that I was very mature before, and when I was dating my ex-girlfriend, I always vetoed some of her decisions and opinions, and finally my ex-girlfriend couldn't stand me and broke up with me, my so-called maturity is just self-righteous maturity.

Before my father died, I felt that I had grown up and matured, and I was the pillar of the family. After my father died, when all the burdens of the family fell on me, I found that I couldn't bear it at all.

I always look at the world with kindness, and I also believe in the people around me, others say I'm stupid, I don't believe it, I think this is a manifestation of maturity, and then I was cheated by my friends several times before I knew that I was wrong.

I once enlightened my classmates, I thought I was very mature, and I told a lot of my own truths, but my classmates were tired of listening to them and refuted my views, and I couldn't say a word about them, only to realize that I was far from being as mature as I imagined.

Summary. What will happen if you think you are mature.

The maturity of people's illusion of self-evaluation is most likely to appear in the above two stages. But after the appearance of false maturity, other people's evaluations are different. When the state refers to a child in the development of the first self, said

I'm great myself, and when I'm older, I'll be able to catch up with cars; Again and again, I pushed the building blocks of the adults, and said angrily, I play with my own toys, and if I don't let you help me, we will feel that this is cute. But when we go through the rebellious period of adolescence and are already adults, and we still think that we can solve everything, do anything, or face others and the world with indifference or tactfulness, I think others will think that you are ugly, superficial, and pretentious.