How do you deal with hypocrites in your life?

Hypocritical people, most of them don't want others to know the evil, so keeping a distance is the key, otherwise it will be too late to cry one day, once met a similar person, love for kittens and dogs, intimate care of pregnant women in public, watching movies and TV series will be moved to tears, polite and warm to strangers and colleagues, and constantly claim that they are too kind, too straightforward and too enthusiastic to suffer, and then turn around and go to the leadership colleagues to spread rumors and slander. ‍‍

I think everyone will meet hypocritical people in life, and when they meet hypocritical people, they still greet each other warmly, but pay attention not to make deep friends, because most of the hypocritical people are smarter, and they are generally a little flowery, so such people can't be guarded against, and what they can do is to protect themselves.

Now there are many hypocrites, what we need to do is to keep ourselves, I always know what my bottom line is, if that person does not touch my bottom line, I can choose to live peacefully on the surface.

I have a colleague who is like this, acting like a sister in front of me, and I don't care about what is delicious and good to wear, I give her first, and I will go to her to talk about some things on my mind, but I didn't expect that I once passed by the conference room and heard her talking about me, in that extremely contemptuous tone, well, how do I face her, that is, I don't contact her anymore and ignore it, because I feel that people are separated from each other, even if she comes to reconcile, it will be difficult for me to go back to the past with her.

The true hypocrite will always be a hypocrite before and after him, and only he knows in his heart that he is so bad. ‍‍

I just have a polite but distant relationship, after all, the world is diverse, and admitting this is a sign of maturity, no need to debunk, let him be like this. ‍‍

If I have hypocrites around me, I may walk around because I have a straight personality and can't make friends with such people, so it's better not to get acquainted.

Exposing him is just a psychological pleasure, but it doesn't have to be like this, it doesn't involve your interests, so why bother to be real with a hypocrite? Flowers bloom and give birth to two sides, and people live among Buddhas and demons. A gentleman and a hypocrite, a line separates. There is still an essential difference between a hypocrite and a villain.

People sometimes need to turn a blind eye, you know. He is hypocritical, you see through the hypocrisy, but in the eyes of others, he may be true and good. This kind of contradiction will lead to arguments, right and wrong, black and white, you can't figure it out, and you can't tell it.

Getting into an argument will embarrass you and make others think you're small-minded. A hypocrite will not commit a matter of principle, and if he touches the principle, he is not called a hypocrite, he is a villain. It's a matter of values.

As long as it is a matter of concept, don't argue about right and wrong.

In fact, you don't need to expose him, because some people who are disguised are used to disguising, and if you expose him like this, he can't change it. If you can't change it, you can take this kind of normalcy as a very common thing, and if you really meet this kind of person, it is recommended that you stay away from him. Because it is better not to base your happiness on the pain of your friends.

He who speaks viciously, harshly, sarcastically, and exhausts foul words cannot be hypocrites, as the saying goes, "Trouble comes from the heart, and evil comes from the mouth." It shows that the words are dirty, and it is impossible to have a good disguise in the face.

Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped. What kind of people do you meet at what level, even if there are good and ugly people at the same level, they will definitely be automatically divided after getting acquainted once or twice, and they will not be specifically specified, and they will not be deliberately revealed, and the good people have an old saying, "If you can't afford to play, you can't hide?" "That's it.

Don't think that those who speak viciously, meanly, and tricky are powerful people, just scumbags who are full of negative energy and can produce right and wrong. They behave impermanently, behave rudely, confuse right and wrong, have strange personalities, they don't even look like "hypocrisy", and their "false kindness" has turbidity.

When you encounter such a person, what is he doing to expose him, there is a lot of living space, and staying away is the wisest choice.

There are many ways for a friend to walk, so why offend him? Why? Do you want to make an enemy for yourself? If you think he's a hypocrite, don't like him. We don't need to get along with him, stay away from him. That's it.

There is no need, the advancement of being a man is to see through it without saying it, and there is no need to offend people by saying it yourself.

There is no need to debunk it, you will see people's hearts over time, and sooner or later you will know.

I don't think it's better to do it, because this kind of person is often very narrow-minded in his heart, and if you make him ugly, he may do you bad behind his back.

What is a hypocrite?

A group of you drink together, you drink the truth and complain about the hardships of life, he drinks and brags about his successes, is this hypocrisy, just a pleasure in suffering, why take it seriously.

There is a kind of person, regardless of whether she is treacherous and cunning or exquisite, she only says good things in front of people, maybe she habitually pleases others, maybe she adheres to the principle of talking and leaving a line to see each other in the future.

Young man, if you don't see through it, it's wisdom.

Then it depends on whether it has anything to do with you.

Hypocrite. Pretend to be kind, pretend to be a good person.

There is no sincerity in being a man, it is not weak and incompetent, it is a habit of fraud, there is no sincerity in being a man, it is not to see the wind and rudder, it is half-hearted, there is no sincerity in life, it is not frivolous and impatient, it is depressed and depressed, it is not a sincere person, it is not to pat the horse in person, it is to attack behind the back, there is no sincerity in life, the sky is not helping, and people do not like it.

Go to the wide bush to remove the mask and relax, sincerity is the first, sincerity can pass through the dry or God, sincerity sense the world, the most precious life, sincerity and sincerity, crooked words are not not skillful, the words are very fine, this sincere words, please keep in mind.

1. Kind people have pure motives.

We have a motivation when we do anything, and when we do anything, we have a reason in mind to act. You will see some people who want to take a photo to send to a circle of friends when feeding stray cats, and to post a circle of friends to help someone, etc. They are eager to show off what they have done, the gifts and help they have given to the outside world.

Such kindness is actually hypocrisy.

2. The purpose of a kind person is "altruism" rather than "self-interest".

In order to achieve their own goals, they prioritize their own interests and pass the fault or responsibility on others.

Not only that, but they will also behave verbally as kind and very atmospheric. Hail on hail A truly good person, when confronted with something they tend to think about the interests of others rather than their own. In the face of reason and righteousness, they will choose righteousness.

Between altruism and self-interest, they tend to choose altruism.

3. Kind people have "unity".

A person is a person in front of relatives, their performance is remarkable, their mouth is very sweet, they can speak, they have high emotional intelligence, and they are a well-behaved and obedient junior in the eyes of their relatives. In front of others, he is an unscrupulous person for his own ends, they are hypocritical, vitriol, and will be rude to others at will. And truly kind people, no matter who they face, their attitude is the same, and they will maintain respect and courtesy towards them.

4. If a person's external temperament is set off by image, appearance, and clothing, then a person's connotation is guided by kindness, responsibility, and nature. Kindness is like a brand, carved deep into their bones and integrated into their temperament. If the kindness shown by a person is only a means to an end, then how can this kindness not be an evil?

They are villains, villains, profiteers or **, for their personal interests or property, reputation, status, do not hesitate to harm others and benefit themselves, unscrupulous means, do everything that hurts nature and reason, they are outright bad people, but what they do is not for themselves, but completely in an altruistic motive, because everything they do is for the sake of others, it is a noble and moral behavior, so their behavior should not be condemned by morality and law, It should be widely sympathized and supported by the society, and it is a kind of good and not good, evil and evil, hypocritical and non-good, hypocritical and non-good, evil and hypocrisy and non-good, evil and hypocrisy and non-good, evil and hypocrisy and non-good, and evil and non-goodIn short, the characteristics of hypocritical people are not true and good, nor true evil, but mixed truth and falsehood, a kind of sedan model people who are difficult to distinguish between good and evil, and what they do is not for their own selfish desires, but for the society, the country, the people and others, therefore, they are a kind of hypocrisy and non-goodness.

The three main characteristics of a hypocritical person are as follows:

1. Good at camouflage:

Hypocrites know how to disguise themselves, use different attitudes towards different people, and are calculating and never negligent.

Although everyone in life inevitably has some contradictions, but when hypocrites encounter contradictions, they will try their best to keep themselves out of the matter, and if you are involved, he can even push you into the pit.

People should not be disguised, those hypocrites are often good at disguising themselves, don't be easy to take out their details because others care about you.

2. Good at calculation

Hypocrites are usually calculating, good at figuring out people's hearts, and usually look at them as approachable, but in fact they are good at using means.

If there is someone around you who likes to calculate others, you must not feel that it is none of your business, no matter how close he is to you, you must learn to keep a distance from him and try not to have any contact with him.

Even if it is inevitable to intersect, you must learn to protect your privacy and do not offend him easily, this kind of person can do whatever it takes to achieve his own ends, completely disregarding the safety of others, and will not hesitate to calculate his friends.

3. Profiteering:

The most important thing to be a man is to have a kind heart, even if he can't help those in need, but not harming others is the basic criterion of being a man.

But those who are hypocrites do not follow these rules, because they are self-centered and mercenary.

Hypocrisy, not necessarily that he is a bad person, act when the opportunity arises.

Personally, I think that the biggest difference between a truly kind person and a hypocrite is:

Good people do good deeds out of instinct, and they tolerate it.

Their soft hearts and good nature drive them to not bear to hurt others, nor to see tragic things happen, so they will reach out to those in distress, and obtain comfort in their own conscience by preventing or alleviating the suffering of the victims.

Hypocrites are different, their charity is just a disguise, behind their compassionate face, often hidden ulterior purposes, the most common practice of hypocrites is to finally deceive the trust of others, and use some despicable means to seek maximum benefits for themselves.

In reality, many hypocrites often seem to be kinder than true and benevolent people, and it is difficult for people to see their true colors from the beginning, which makes hypocrites very scary - we all know that a person who can gain the trust of others is often more destructive when he does bad things.

So, to tell whether a person is true or hypocritical, depends on what they end up doing.

The only thing that can see them clearly is time.

Only time will be able to debunk all the disguises.

Hypocrites can also be bai

It's good for you or others, but the hypocrites are doing it from their own perspective.

Dao and opinion are good for you, and true back to righteousness and kindness is to answer thoroughly from your perspective and view to be good to you. Don't dwell too much on hypocrisy, your heart will hurt to death. But beware of hypocrisy, if you don't want to be a gunman for no reason.

Hypocrisy is still different from hypocrisy, one is the hypocrisy that is performed, and the other is the inferior goodness that is not so pure. But the latter sometimes causes no less problems than the former.

Hypocrites do this just to be worthy of their conscience, and they don't have to think about the outcome of things, because they don't care about anything but morality and conscience, such as Cheng Xin. She will think that she is noble, that she is not selfish, that her values and moral code are universal and correct. As for the consequences of following it, she only thinks about whether she can have her conscience at peace.

This kind of person has a sacrificial spirit, is able to sacrifice his life for his values and moral code, but in the end makes the whole human race "to live together, to die to die together".