Girls in, thank you about pickup .

I think that if it were me, a stranger talking to me, the factors that would determine whether or not to be disgusted at the time were: 1What he said 2He is a pleasing man who is not likable

The first sentence is not to underestimate it is very important to directly decide whether you are interested in looking at his face Suddenly) In addition, it is too old-fashioned to say that people are very similar to whom, and it is very useful if you want to chase your girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you were a sister as you said, you don't have to worry too much, just explain it generously and directly.

I think most girls like boys who are generous and honest

It's good, getting to know more female friends will help you broaden your horizons, improve your taste and your own self-cultivation.

If you want to act, do not hesitate. In addition, the opening scene you set is too earthy and outdated. It's just like daily communication, it's natural. And then everything is as it happens.

Otherwise, let yourself fall into the net too quickly**, first explore the situation around the net, and then it is not too late to fall in.

It depends on what kind of character the girl belongs to.,If you're cheerful, it doesn't matter if you're introverted.,This kind of pick-up is terrible.。

It's better to keep some mystery, some things are not as beautiful as you originally thought

ps: Don't smoke, smoking is not good

If it's sincere, I guess it doesn't matter what you do, because she can see the sincerity in your eyes.

As long as you strike up a conversation, she will be happy, but speak better.

There's nothing wrong with that, if you don't have bad intentions and are angry.

If you're thinking about how to talk to you, people will treat you as a nerve, so find an opportunity to find a friend to introduce you.

Impossible unless you have an introducer.

I've been in a similar situation.

You go straight to the mammation! Why do you need it?

Another brother has fallen in love.

In life, we often feel anxious, such as the tension with our partner makes you anxious, such as worrying about your children's learning and anxiety, such as anxiety about work performance is not as good as that of colleagues, and we may also be anxious that we are old and have nothing to rely on, etc.

These anxieties make us uncomfortable, but it will not let us go because we are uncomfortable, but follow us like a shadow.

Actually, we should not resist the generation of anxiety, they are a natural product, it is something that causes our emotional reaction. Emotions don't matter whether they are right or wrong, only whether they are comfortable or uncomfortable, whether they are uncomfortable or not.

Avoiding antagonism is not the right way, the right way is to accept this normal emotion, and then analyze it, understand it, what is it in life that makes us anxious.

Anxiety is a kind of internal friction, it shows that you have made a mistake, you have done something wrong, and you have to correct it. This stems from the idea that is ingrained in our hearts, the boundaries that exist in our brains.

Normally, something happens because they cross that line, which we don't know at the time, but it actually has a shock in our hearts, so it affects our lives like a shadow.

The event itself is the fuse, the boundaries in our hearts determine our cognition, when our cognition is good, there will be no anxiety, only when the cognition is biased, wrong, or the event itself really harms the individual, anxiety will arise.

When our cognition is biased, we must adjust our cognition at this time, and the first thing to adjust is our inner boundaries. Partnering tensions happen at some point in every family, and there is no need to make a fuss; If the child's studies are not done well, it is not entirely the child's problem, whether the adults have good counseling; Worrying about not being as good as others at work is the most normal emotion; Worrying about being old and having nothing to rely on is a bit unfounded, and you are not finished in your young age, so you begin to worry about your old life.

So an analysis, a lot of anxiety is that the boundaries in our hearts have been impacted, these boundaries are like the scale of life in the brain, if we are too fast, we will blame the slowness of life, so sometimes, we need to adjust our scale, let ourselves be in line with real life, not too fast or too slow.

Some people fight anxiety is to control, to use all their strength to resist it, but these anxieties will be like a flood of beasts, you can't suppress it, you suppress it at one moment, and the next second it will come back, leaving you in endless distress.

But there are some people who are really powerful, they suppress it, and let the anxiety freeze, but the consequences of this situation are even more terrible, because once this happens, his body will get sick, and this disease is not a minor disease, but a major illness that he has caused himself. Emotions are just a product of nature, and if they are forcibly suppressed, they will be unnatural, and you can see which thing is good for all the anti-natural things in this world. So proper grooming is the key.

It may be that your goddess has expressed disgust for your accosting, and this relationship may be more difficult.

It must be unreliable Who would believe a person who has never met on the side of the road You can talk to your colleagues and ask them to introduce you to friends and classmates You can also tell your family No more If you don't have a good relationship network or something like that?

Take your time, you will talk to cheerful girls when you meet them, and introverts will think you are hooligans.

I think it's better not to provoke what I encounter on the road, and when fate comes, I will naturally meet the person I like.

In fact, girls touching boys' hair just to feel the difference between touching a dog and touching a dog.

Overcome the fear of approaching a strange girl.

Many people ask the question "how to talk to a strange girl", and I think it is a more fundamental and essential question: we are afraid of accosting a strange girl, and when we see a strange girl, especially a beautiful strange girl, we will have many subtle reactions in our hearts and bodies, 1) we will be excited, our feet will slow down, our pupils will dilate, beauty, beauty!

2) We have the urge to pick up a conversation, want to get to know her, and expect some romantic story to happen;

3) But we often end up stopping approaching, drooling and looking at it again, and then walking away.

At this time, our thoughts were, 1) she is so beautiful, she must be married, or have a boyfriend, and I won't have a chance to know her;

2) She is so beautiful, she will definitely not fall in love with me, and she will not want to know me;

3) If I say that I want to know her, she will reject me, then I will be very shameless; Know the bend.

4) Her friend is right next to her, I go up to talk to her, and if I fail, my friend will laugh at her;

5) My boring friend is next to me, and if I fail to pick up a conversation, my friend will laugh at me;

6) There are so many people around her, and if I go to talk to her, the people around me will think it is strange and will treat me as a hooligan;

7) It's so noisy here, it's not suitable for talking to her, I'll approach her when she walks to a quiet place;

8) She seems to be busy now, I'll wait for her to get busy.

But no matter what the thought was, we stopped there and didn't move, and finally the beauty left, or we walked by ourselves, maybe we looked back and looked away regretfully!

Make yourself a jokeruffian.

First of all, don't be shy, that's the most important thing.

As long as there are many ways to talk to you thickly, the most important thing is that you have to be generous, don't be afraid of this or that, get along with ordinary neighbors at the beginning, and don't show your intentions too early, which will cause her to be wary.

Then the first step is to say hello, as a neighbor who looks up and doesn't look down, go in and go out to say hello and ask, "Have you eaten?" She said when she got home from work''Coming back?' 'It's commonplace.

Once you are familiar with her, you can have further contact with her, such as going to her house to borrow a soy sauce and vinegar, and asking her for a small favor in some places, but not too often, otherwise it is easy to cause disgust when you find someone to borrow something to help every day. In this way, there is an opportunity for further contact between the two sides.

Then, for example, when she was cooking late after work, she said that she hadn't eaten and invited her to dinner. When she's alone, you can go and chat with her.,By the way, knock on the side to see if she has a partner and what her hobbies are.,Anyway, once born and twice cooked.,Since it's a neighbor, you're worried about not having a chance to get in touch?

Pretend to borrow something from him, or always pretend not to see it, say a few words, or help with something important.

It's definitely a good idea, are you still afraid that you won't have a chance to talk if you share a house? You say hello to her first, and then see that she is free to chat with you, first ask her about her current situation, such as where she is studying, how old is her hometown, but you have to take her to say, you talk about it slowly, interspersed with something else, too direct others will be disgusted. Don't be too anxious when you first meet, there will be a lot of friction in your life together, rest assured that you have a lot of opportunities, come on!

Live together every day.

Isn't it easy to pick up a conversation?

Bump him along, then put on a smiling face, talk to him again, and you'll get to know each other.

Overcoming the Fear of Approaching a Strange Girl Many people ask the question of "how to talk to a strange girl", I think it is a more fundamental and essential question: fear of accosting a strange girl, When we meet a strange girl, especially a beautiful strange girl, we will have a lot of subtle anti-sleepiness in our hearts and bodies, (1) We will be excited, our steps will slow down, our pupils will dilate, beauty, beauty! 2) We have the urge to pick up a conversation, want to get to know her, and expect some romantic story to happen; 3) But we often end up stopping approaching, drooling and looking at it again, and then walking away.

At this time, our thoughts were, 1) she is so beautiful, she must be married, or have a boyfriend, and I won't have a chance to know her; (2) She is so beautiful, she will definitely not take a fancy to my trembling tracks, and she will not want to know me; 3) If I say that I want to know her, she will reject me, then I will be very shameless; 4) Her friend is right next to her, I go up to talk to her, and if I fail, my friend will laugh at her; (5) My friend is right next to me, and if I fail to pick up a conversation, my friend will laugh at me; 6) There are so many people around her, and if I go to talk to her, the people around me will think it is strange and will treat me as a hooligan;