How can a man save money for his own money?

Whether a man saves money or not is not a criterion for judging whether a man is good or bad. However, a man's saving of private money is definitely not a good thing from the perspective of a family, because to a certain extent, it shows that the family lacks harmony. As a wife, if you find that a man has saved private money, don't be angry first, ask the teacher for the crime, and first review what the reason for this matter has to do with her own behavior.

The most important thing for husband and wife is trust, if one party hides the other party's private money, once it is discovered, it is likely to cause a very serious marital crisis, and no one likes the other party to hide something from themselves. No matter what the purpose of a man's private money is, even if it is for the unforeseen needs of the family in the future, it cannot be a reason to save private money. It is better for a husband and wife to set up a family's immovable funds than to save money secretly.

Wives find that their husbands have begun to save private money, in fact, they should also reflect on themselves appropriately, are they really too strict with their husbands, and they really give too little pocket money? It is said that the husband should be like flying a kite, when it is tight and sometimes loose, and if you treat your husband as sand, after all, the tighter you hold the sand, the faster it will leak! So don't really put too wide and don't get stuck too tightly on men's money, otherwise it will only have the opposite effect.

Silently accept, faithfully observe, and when necessary, knock on the side, reminding him that you know what he is doing, but not in a drastic way.

Hiding money is not a bad thing, it does not mean that men are doing bad things.

Every married man who pays his salary should hide his private money and fight wits with his wife. Some women are afraid that men will become bad when they have money, and some women are simply slamming the door, so they take care of their husband's wallet to death. Sufficient material things bring people a sense of security, so marriage needs money, a car, a house, this is the same for both men and women, men and women have vulnerabilities, in a sense, private money represents a man's sense of security.

Men save money in order to have the freedom to control money, and when they have money in their hands, they can spend it whenever they want.

In the family of origin, if the parents have the habit of hiding private money, it will affect the child, he will think that this is a normal behavior, and he will show the same behavior when he grows up. In married life, if one party has too strong a desire to control, especially too much control over money, and the other party is extremely unfree to use money, it will also produce the behavior of hiding private money. Hiding money can reduce people's anxiety and bring people a sense of security.

Marriage is a matter of two adults, economic independence, spiritual independence, tolerance to others in order to maintain a long-term marriage, money in marriage does not represent everything, a healthy marriage relationship does not need to be maintained by seizing financial power, I hope that people in marriage do not fight for money, and can be more tolerant of each other.

There is nothing wrong with men saving private money, it is not easy to work hard, and sometimes it is necessary to have an emergency, as long as it is not to do bad things.

It depends on the wife's performance.

The wife didn't interfere too much with her husband's spending, and the husband didn't spend money indiscriminately, is it necessary for the husband to save private money? Unless the husband has something ulterior to spend money.

If the wife is very demanding on her husband and makes her husband lose face in front of his friends, and the husband can't socialize normally, she can't blame her husband for saving private money.

Well, what if it is discovered.

Money in hand, easy to do, can be leveled best!

Of course, there have to be some, otherwise a lot of things can't be done.

I think the main reason why men save money is because their wives don't give money to men.

This is an internal family issue, and there is no right or wrong.

Private money, the word itself has a derogatory meaning, or prejudice, what is private money? It makes sense to keep a little money for your own mobility and is not worth making a fuss about.

However, in society, especially **, private money is rendered as a sin, a mortal crime, and it is also targeted at men. When a man makes money, he should hand it over to confiscate, and the boss has the final say on how much pocket money he has, which is misleading and ridiculous.

Men are responsible for supporting their families and should share their responsibilities, but it does not mean that men should be like asking for a little money, asking for a few today, a few tomorrow, and accompanying a smiling face, a low voice, and good words. The drama is misguided for the country and the family, seriously detached from reality, and ridiculed with discrimination and inequality.

In fact, in life, it is impossible for a man to be humble to such an extent, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, money is the last word in his pocket, and he is really rich if he is rich. For example, this man's monthly salary is 10,000 yuan, 8,000 yuan is confiscated, and 2,000 yuan is kept for himself. Some people say that when a man is rich, he becomes bad, this is too arbitrary, a large group of people are killed with a stick, and the vast majority of men are responsible, family first, career first, but they put themselves second.

Besides, if you want to control a man's money, unless he really wants to give it to you, you can't control it.

Controlling a man's money, disliking making less money at every turn, not being able to bear it, pouring mold for eight lifetimes, asking for money is like begging, it is contempt for men, and it is the most hurtful relationship between husband and wife. Between husband and wife, it's nothing to scold a few words, it's nothing to nag, it's nothing to hit a few times, it's nothing to hate the root of your teeth, and the most terrible thing is to despise, look down on, and look at each other differently.

Men are also human beings, and they also have self-esteem, and their wives look at others with a look of adoration, like a schoolboy, obedient, docile and lovely. What about looking at your husband? Horizontal eyebrows are cold, they don't look at it right, they look at it obliquely, it's not ridicule, it's contempt, and they divorce at every turn, is this fair?

There is no minimum respect between husband and wife, they come over, become passers-by, and don't even bother to open their mouths to speak, whose responsibility can a slap sound?

Private money is not valid at all, it has no meaning, let alone humor. Private money, whether you accept it or not, it is indispensable, it is better to respect each other, two good karma and one good, live well, treat each other with sincerity, wholeheartedly, and never give up.