How should we deal with setbacks and dreams at the same time?

This is a very complex issue that depends on the individual's circumstances and choices. But generally speaking, if you really enjoy doing something or pursuing a certain goal, then when you encounter setbacks or failures, don't give up on your dreams easily, but stick to them. Here are some reasons:

Something you like is valuable in itself: If you really like something, then it has value in itself, and even if you don't think about success or failure, it can give you a sense of satisfaction from a self-actualizing perspective.

Consistent efforts can pay off: Despite setbacks or failures, if you keep trying, you may have unexpected rewards. For example, you may learn new things, make new friends, gain new opportunities, etc., which you would not have been able to achieve without setbacks.

Asserting yourself boosts self-confidence: If you are able to hold on to your dreams in the face of difficulties, you can gain self-confidence even if you end up failing, and you are more likely to face future challenges.

Going with the flow may make you regret it: If you choose to give up on your dreams because of a setback, it may make you regret it. This regret is a deep form of self-denial that may bring more uneasiness and distress in the future.

Of course, these are just some common reasons, and it's not that sticking to what you love is necessarily the right choice. When making decisions, you need to take into account your actual situation and goals, and you need to fully weigh the pros and cons to make the choice that best suits you.

Since you have chosen a distant place, you only care about the wind and rain, don't think about it, even if you love and hate, you don't need to say much, just rush forward!

On the way to chasing dreams, there will always be sadness, blood and tears! You may also face a lot of doubts, all kinds of noises, and inner fears, and so on, and ......so on

On the road of life, there are four natural enemies, do you know? Fear, ignorance, laziness, not changing! Anyone's road to success is not smooth sailing, just like Puya on the plateau, quiet for a hundred years only blooms once, ten thousand flowers bloom, but only two months of flowering, the flowering period is over, Puya's life is over!

Sometimes, we only see and bring the fragrance of flowers when they bloom, but we never think about what kind of wind and rain we experience behind the splendor! In fact, the same is true behind many successful people!

I used to be said by the villagers that I was a silent girl, who would not deal with the villagers, handle the relationship well, and ask my family to help me intercede when I needed to ask others for help! When I came back from abroad as an exchange student, no one would say that I was not an outstanding person, but that I was very good!

Actually, this is quite normal, at the moment, you care what they say, you lose! At this moment, all we have to do is: work quietly and then amaze everyone! Because the moment you succeed, no one cares what you've been through!

It's like how we are always those who have become extremely successful and who can see some of the bloody storms they have experienced behind them? For example, Ma's father, who has "double treasures", when he first started financing, only Son Masayoshi believed him, and he ate instant noodles for eight consecutive months in the early days of his business, most of them just saw that Ma Yun said that he was not interested in money, would anyone think about what kind of setbacks he experienced?

No, in fact, chasing dreams and pure hearts, few people can understand, just like we follow our own dreams, our parents will always arrange everything for ourselves, think a lot, but because of the lack of communication with each other, so there are many contradictions, no one will let anyone, it will only make everyone sad!

Therefore, the dream has set sail, the wind and rain are heavy, and I hope that the wind and rain will be smooth ......