How parents should do about the way they educate boys

In our lives, there are many parents in the way of raising boys and girls are quite different, and they may also be affected by the older generation's patriarchal concept, and will put more energy and mind on boys, hoping that the child can become an excellent person when he grows up, but sometimes the result is counterproductive.

Moms should keep in mind the way boys are educated:

1. Give boys a certain amount of care: boys also need the care and care of their parents when they are very young, and some parents think that boys should be brave and strong, but boys' brain growth is still slower than that of girls, so boys' emotions will be more fragile than female lead children, and they need more companionship and care from their parents.

2. Know how to let go of children's development: Some parents are too anxious about boys' education, but interfering in their children's lives too much is not conducive to the development of boys, and may make children more and more disgusted, so there should be more communication and exchanges in the boys' education process.

3. You can't take the scolding education method: compared with forcing and not understanding, the scolding education method is also very bad, and it may make the boy have a stronger rebellious psychology.

In short, taking the right way to educate children can promote the healthy growth of children, but both boys and girls need to be accompanied by their parents, and they must teach their children patiently, not always in a hurry, which can easily backfire.

<> world is diverse, the expectations for boys are also diverse, and the boys' own pursuit of the future is also colorful, so there is absolutely no one-size-fits-all truth for educating boys. There are some suggestions that you can refer to.

Due to endocrine differences, boys need more exercise than girls when they are young, and they are born to think with action, so fathers in the family should be more involved in the education of boys, play more with them, and exercise more with them. If boys lack exercise, they will toss elsewhere, which is something that parents need to pay attention to.

Boys develop their language skills later than girls.

In kindergarten and early primary school, boys are generally less proficient than girls in terms of language skills, and they also have to make greater efforts than girls in language and foreign language learning at this stage. Parents know this difference, first of all, they must understand that this is a normal phenomenon, not that the child has a problem with intelligence; Second, we should appropriately increase the opportunities for children to communicate with children, read stories with children, tell stories, and let them have the opportunity to hear and hear. As boys get older, their language abilities will slowly catch up.

Boys are less adaptable to modern schools than girls.

Girls adapt better to modern schools than boys, which is determined by gender differences: girls are more obedient, quieter, more attentive, and more likely to achieve success in learning content that is mainly memorized and comprehended. For boys to succeed academically, they need to put in more effort.

At present, all kinds of schools in developed regions have begun to show the situation of girls leading in all aspects, and this phenomenon is becoming more and more prominent in developed countries such as the United States.

Having a boy at home, so that they dare to think from an early age, exercise more and explore more, helps to play to the boy's own strengths, and they also need more encouragement and protection. In addition, boys are generally bold and active, so the proportion of accidents is much higher than that of girls, which is especially important for parents. When doing activities with children, parents should have "foresight", that is, they should be sure of the possible consequences of their children's activities, do a good job of prevention, and don't wait until it is too late for problems to occur.

When educating boys, we should convey a correct concept to boys, and let boys have a positive psychology, so as to help children grow up and establish a correct value for children.

It is necessary to make the child responsible, communicate well with the child, let the child become a strong and brave boy, often take the child to travel, take the child to participate in some outdoor activities, and let the child become strong.

I think it's better for boys to be free-range, and they should also have a certain amount of conceptual and moral discipline for their children, which will be very good, and they should also let children have their own opinions.

How to educate adolescent children.

The best way to educate boys is to use. If you can understand what you say, you can "use", and using a boy can cultivate his sense of responsibility and become responsible.

Huo Siyan said: Mother should often be spoiled to the boy and let him help you. As it turns out, it does.

A boy raised by a coquettish mother will be more responsible.

Boys seem to be inherently difficult to discipline, and if there are boys in the family, parents must do a good job of guiding them, and parents should adopt different education methods at different ages. Children aged 0 to 6 years old are generally more dependent on their mothers, in addition to getting enough love from their mothers, they must also get enough sense of security from their fathers. Children from 6 to 14 years old will become more and more gender-conscious, so if the father has time, he will criticize the child more at this stage, the child may have more obvious imitation behavior, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, let the child establish the correct three views, after the age of 14, the child will become more rebellious, parents should guide the child, spit out the troubles in their hearts, can not force the child, can not impose your thoughts on the child.

These three principles must be upheld.

Educating children has always been at the center of all families. Many parents entrust their children with the best resources and do their best to receive the best education, but neglect the proper way to educate their children. All parents want their children to be the dragon and phoenix among people, but this is obviously unrealistic.

Especially if it is to properly educate boys who believe in more stubborn boys, parents must adhere to these principles so that children can be more optimistic and responsible later on.

Being a man is responsible. When a mistake is made, if the child shifts the blame to others instead of thinking about how to solve the problem, the child will have a great future in the future. Parents should teach their children to have the courage to take responsibility.

One has to be responsible in order to be recognized by others. People who are responsible are respected and welcomed by others no matter how they go.

When children reach their own rebellious period, they often have conflicts and conflicts with their parents, and this is when communication becomes very important. Parents can understand their children's psychological problems in a timely manner through communication, or solve problems through communication. Communication not only fosters the bond between parents and children, but also brings the whole family closer together.

For children, learning to solve problems through communication can make them more rational and courageous.

If you want to get along in society, you must first respect the rules of society. As a Chinese citizen, you cannot abide by laws and regulations, adhere to the core values of socialism, and do things that violate the law or corrupt the social atmosphere. When a child makes a mistake, parents should point out the child's mistake and teach them how to correct it.

A child's grasp of the right core values will benefit him for the rest of his life.

As a man, a sunny and cheerful personality is more acceptable. The first impression of this kind of boy is that he is a good child, and the subconscious will give him a lot of points. As a parent, it is necessary to educate boys to be positive and optimistic about life, no matter what happens, to think on the bright side, and to live with a smile, so that they can live more freely.

Parents should know that today's society is very competitive, and only those who take the initiative can occupy a greater advantage. Whether in school or life, people who are active tend to receive more attention and get greater opportunities. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's sense of initiative from an early age and make them aware of the need to strive for what they want to the maximum.

Children can understand the meaning of initiative and walk more smoothly and flatly in their future lives.

There is no absolute right answer to education, but family education is a responsibility that all parents cannot ignore. As a parent, we must start from a young age in education and adhere to the correct basic principles of parenting, so as to teach children according to their aptitude and educate better children. If you let go, the child can let go on his own.

On the contrary, it is not to replace the child, but to give the child the opportunity to face the problem on his own, consciously let the child suffer, cultivate the child's sense of independence, and strengthen the child's sense of self-protection. To guide children's learning behavior, it is wise not to put pressure on the supervisor of the child's non-learning to help the child overcome school boredom and teach the child, but to teach the child to self-learn and praise the child's efforts, which is wise, and not to give the child material rewards at every turn.

When the father is educating the boy, the father must lead by example, and when communicating with the boy, he must be full of positive energy, integrity, and responsibility, so that the child will be the same when he grows up.

As a father, you must respect your child's self-awareness, you must take time out to spend with your child, you must communicate more with your child when you try to be friends, and you must help him develop feasible learning methods and develop good study habits in learning!

The best way is to be friends with your child, respect his heart, and try to cultivate his hands-on ability, expression ability and independence as much as possible. Take them out for outdoor sports and exercises to cultivate their masculinity.