How to forget a person s betrayal and believe in her again

Time and space will make people forget, and you can also think about another person, this method is the best. There is still time to dilute everything, and this is true. You have to remember that you are the most important person in this world, and no one else is important to you.

Don't drill the horns, you put the focus of your life on love, itself is not right, there are many very important and meaningful things in life, such as earning, traveling,**,**. Always thinking about how a man can forget him, then don't forget, some memories are worth cherishing, but you don't necessarily have to get him. It's like the jewelry you love and can't put down, but you can't afford it, you can't think about it every day.

Sadness is a right in life, and it is hard-won and worth cherishing forever. 1. Divert your attention and distract yourself, now you have time to do things that you have been planning to do but have not done, such as cooking, tailoring, or ballroom dancing. , deliberately avoided thinking of him.

Touching the scene, try to avoid seeing things related to him. Put away the photos and diary, as well as the items he used, the clothes he wore, the gifts he gave you, and so on. , contact friends more, go shopping, watch movies, dance, roller skate, enrich your spare time, so that you don't have time and energy to think about him.

Change your hairstyle, change your color, do a ** care, change your image, and make yourself look new; Going to the gym to work out, sweating is very comfortable, so that you can be full and no longer empty, no longer remember. Meet new people, pay attention to other men around you (not necessarily the person you talk to), and make yourself know more about men through observation. There are many kinds of men's qualities, what is an excellent man like, position himself, know his confidant.

Read books and surf the Internet. See** experience life from other people's lives; Watch the news to know the various states of life, life is always unsatisfactory; Reading the posts of netizens and listening to the songs of netizens, you will feel that there are so many talented and rich people in the ordinary people in the world Don't let yourself fall into the circle of "thinking about him", when you realize that you are thinking about a situation related to him, immediately adjust your attention, avoid this thought, think about something else, or do another thing. Believe that you can control your will!

When we look back on the past in old age, you will be proud of your self-control, we are not defeated by setbacks, but keep chasing the happiness and beauty of life. A person will be cranky when he feels bored, and he can also find something meaningful for himself to do: 1. Obtain spiritual satisfaction through art, **, art, film, literature, etc. are all of this kind, and the specific choice of what should be based on one's own interests, there is no absolute; Exercise to fatigue the body, divert psychological attention, and obtain a certain sense of mental satisfaction through competitive sports; Spiritual satisfaction is obtained through human emotional exchanges, care and help other people, and human emotional exchanges and interactions have good spiritual satisfaction; to obtain spiritual satisfaction through the process of finding a faith that is truly suitable for oneself; Through the pursuit of a certain cause, to obtain spiritual satisfaction.

There is no need to trust him anymore.

Just trust yourself.

A very touching sentence: Not every sentence of sorry can be exchanged for it.

There are two lines in "Big Fish and Begonia" that impressed me very deeply, the first sentence, I will tell you what is the saddest: you meet a person, make a mistake, you want to make up for it and want to pay it off, only to find out in the end that you have no power to return to heaven, and the sins you have committed can never be remedied. We will never be able to pay off what we have committed....

The second sentence, "I want to forget something, but I can't forget it", "If I can't forget it, don't forget, I don't need to work hard to truly forget".

It's like a man who has betrayed you, you want to forget him, and at the same time forget the injury, but in the end you find that you can't forget it at all, even if the pain at that time is diluted by time, but this kind of injury is still imprinted in the heart, and it will definitely explode suddenly at a certain moment in the future, and then there will be a heart-rending colic.

There are some mistakes that cannot be remedied, because the damage is real.

No matter how much I love, as long as he dares to betray me, I will never forgive, and I will let him go bankrupt and leave the house.

I don't know why I'm so resolute, but what I do know is that if a person can betray you once, then he can betray you twice, which is equivalent to saying that if he can betray you once, he will betray you ten thousand times. And even if I forgive him, there will be a gap between us, and the relationship will definitely not go back, in this case, it is better to separate directly, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.

A person will not think that you are generous because of your tolerance, and a person can only remember it for a long time if he has paid the price for his mistakes!

Do you buy a defective item when you buy something.

The answer is definitely no. Then this problem is the same, a person who has betrayed you, no matter what the reason, he has also betrayed you, even if you forgive, he will suddenly remember how he betrayed you at a certain point in the night. It's better to let go of yourself and let go of each other.

People live in the present, if something makes you unhappy, you can give it up, and if someone makes you unhappy, you can also distance yourself. But the unhappiness here is the unhappiness he brings to you, far greater than the happiness and beauty he brings you. As an adult, we need to keep our basic sanity and keep our lives in order, rather than becoming a mess because of someone or something.

Find him and get revenge on him so that he receives the punishment he deserves.