At what moment do you feel that death is close to you

I remember one day in 2013, I came back from the countryside with my leader, because I didn't have a driver's license, and the leader was driving at that time, and I was in the co-pilot. In our Guangxi region, many rural roads are narrow and rugged. At that time, to a sharp turn, the leader at a speed of about 50 yards to occupy the road corner, a bus in the opposite lane oncoming, in the panic in the leader to the left direction with lightning speed to steal the bell, and then sitting in the passenger seat I saw myself from the opposite side of the bus head closer and closer, after a "bang", our car (Wuling truck) came to a 180 ° flick, the bus was knocked off the roadbed.

However, at that time, the leader and I were both slightly injured, and the back of my right hand was only slightly broken, and the leader was more seriously injured than me. Later, when other colleagues came to the scene and saw that the front of the passenger seat of our car had been seriously deformed, they also said, "You only hurt your hand, which is a great luck."

In the second year of junior high school, the gas poisoning almost passed. There was no one at home, so I crawled outside and lay down for a long, long time until I woke up. Thanks for the pee that woke me up.

When I was a child, I swam in a sand pit that was dug by sand, and I was trapped in it and couldn't climb up! Little by little, the water went over the head. I put my hand out of the water, but fortunately my friend found me and pulled me, and almost pulled my friend into the water! Now he's my best brother.

We will have overtime meals in the overtime canteen, which are different every day from Monday to Friday, basically spicy hot, hot and sour noodles, fried rice bowls, braised noodles, braised pork rice, dumplings and the like. One night I was the only one to work overtime, the cafeteria was spicy that day, I like to eat sesame oil (the name of the Northeast people), it should also be called pepper oil, that is, the kind of oil that is very numb in the mouth. When eating is high, suddenly a piece of fish tofu is swallowed without chewing, stuck in the throat, although swallowed, but with sesame oil into the throat, at this time the throat is uncontrollable, can only swallow can not breathe, at first thought it was nothing, ten seconds later felt wrong, no matter what, can not change from the swallowing state to the breathing state, suffocated.

Then I hurriedly went to the corridor and spat out, and then forced ventilation, making an asthma sound, which lasted for about a minute, and I couldn't hold it. Finally, the lungs are forced to exhale and inhale, and the throat can switch from swallowing to breathing. At that time, I was going to call my mother the last **.

Thanks to my usual swimming, my lung capacity can be a little better. ‍‍

I remember one time, when I was in junior high school, I rode a bicycle to class in the afternoon, and I met our class president on the road, and he also rode a bicycle. Then we talked and rode at the same time, and arrived at an intersection (there are no traffic lights, only the kind of zebra crossing), and then I usually stop at the intersection to see if there is a car to pass by, and then the ghost didn't look at it that day, and turned directly, and then the squad leader shouted to be careful of the car! Then I reacted and immediately braked sharply, a car was only about 5 centimeters away from my bicycle, driving very fast, and it passed with a swish, which shocked me into a cold sweat.

If the squad leader hadn't stopped me at that time, I might have lost my life, and I am especially grateful to that squad leader to this day. ‍‍

To discover the kingdom, to the amusement park for the first time in twenty-one years, never want to go again, to be pressed by those metal things, to you upside down, and then the roller coaster all kinds of throws, it's just terrible, the point is that someone tells you that this thing has killed people before! Scared the baby to death.

When I was in college, I didn't bring the key, several roommates were not there, I climbed the back balcony of our dormitory from the balcony of the dormitory next door, which was the fifth floor, there was only one foot in the place to accommodate the feet, and the bulge between the two balconies was about 60 centimeters.

I don't know if the person who said this is a little compassionate or is too pessimistic.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this idea that I hope that my daily life is full and does not leave Liang Jian and regrets.

But in fact, there is no way to make every day so fulfilling, there are always some times spent in the void, every time I think of this, I feel guilty in my heart, and I feel that I have come to this experience in vain.

Especially recently, when I was not feeling well, and then the whole person began to think crankily, whether he died quietly one day, or he would never wake up when he fell asleep. When I think of this, I cherish my current life even more, work hard to live seriously, make myself happy every day, and do what I want to do.

But sometimes there are a lot of worries, work troubles, confusion about the future, confusion about learning, ......I was at a loss, even dreaming of this, I felt overwhelmed, and sometimes I even thought that this was not the life I wanted, how did I live my life like this, and I made myself start to doubt myself!

The first time I felt that death was close to me was when I was in my third year of high school.

That year, my uncle fell from a high place, broke his head, and had a craniotomy, and I heard that it seemed that a large piece of the skull had been taken out, and when I went to see him in the ward, he was already delirious, and he only felt very painful all over his body.

The second time was when my little niece died in a car accident.

I remember very clearly that it was during the National Day in 2014, I had just gone to college, and Brother Shan was about to go to military training that morning, and suddenly received a ** from my father, saying that they went back, but in fact, they had just gone out to work for a few days. I asked what was wrong, it was my little niece who had a car accident, it was a child who was only a few years old, it was a pity. When she came to my house to play during the summer vacation, she carried a small schoolbag and called everyone she could, which was so cute.

The third time was the epidemic at the end of 20.

All we know is that people are dying every day. At that time, I was still working at Changsha high-speed rail station, which is a transportation hub area, and so many people come and go every day.

Although people are inherently dead, death is imminent, and it is still terrifying.

If one day it were my turn, I would like to die unconscious in my sleep.

Hello, I'm glad for your question, according to clinical statistics, people who have had a near-death experience will feel panic and fear in their hearts when facing death. Psychologically speaking, the fear of death is a normal physiological reaction of the people. In the face of death, the body automatically develops a self-protection mechanism in response to the foreseen danger, so as to avoid putting itself in an anxious and uneasy mood.

When entering the stage of death, the information of this and posture is gradually stripped away, human memories begin to disappear, people's fear of death gradually disappears, and people feel more calm and peaceful.

First of all, we should return the right to choose at the end of life to the patient himself, and everyone has the right to choose how to live a better life and how to complete the last journey of life with dignity and dignity.

Of course, this needs to be discussed with the patient, and we usually avoid discussing the issue of death. Most people are not able to calmly discuss death with their families, that is, how to deal with it, and they are likely to fall into fear when death comes. Only those who face and face death squarely and accept it calmly can have a truly high quality of life.

Many elderly people, especially our relatives and parents, do not calmly arrange their end-of-life** and acceptable living arrangements before they are in front of them. In the end, when you are unconscious, you are completely unable to take care of yourself, and you are unable to talk to your relatives, your relatives are generally faced with a dilemma about the final state of life.

It is meaningless to continue to ** for seriously ill patients who are already old, and sending them to the ICU for rescue can only last a few days or a week or two, and I have to endure great pain.

Fellow relatives also have to pay expensive medical expenses for this, and these expenses may include children's education expenses, relatives relatives' pension expenses, housing and car loans, and so on. And if it is interrupted, fellow relatives will be burdened with a heavy sense of guilt, moral guilt and huge emotional pressure, and will be perceived by others as unfilial and unloving, and they will also think that they have not made the last effort for their relatives.

So most of the cases that we see are where relatives spend all the money that could be spent to get patients to the ICU. Using modern medical methods, medical equipment, medical equipment, all kinds of tubes are inserted into the patient's body in great pain, prolonging life for days or weeks, and finally leaving this world in pain.

If at this time, the patient is still conscious, can clearly arrange, and has the right to make decisions about his own **, then I think most relatives are willing to leave this world quietly, serenely, full of warmth, and without suffering at home, surrounded by friends and relatives.

According to statistics, there are at least hundreds of frequent death rescue cases in China every year, and 75% of people's medical expenses in their lives are spent on the final ineffectiveness, and sometimes they even go bankrupt to extend the lives of their relatives for a few days. As one of the core indicators of the happiness index, the quality of deaths in China ranks extremely low in the world.

Recently, I happened to read a book, "A Calm Farewell", which was written by a serious care specialist and intensive care doctor in Australia who works in the ICU. His name is Ken Qingju. Hillman, in the book, speaks in layman's language about the inevitable outcome of aging, which is weakness, including falls, cognitive deterioration, and apoptosis.

In the face of aging, people cannot compete with them, and many diseases are actually caused by aging. Doctors in each department can do something about their professional division of labor, but no doctor can evaluate and evaluate people as a whole system in a comprehensive way. He talked about many cases he had experienced and the rescue scenes of his relatives in the ICU.

When I went to the school gate during the college entrance examination, I found that I didn't bring the admission ticket. Fifteen minutes into the exam, I found that there were still a few big questions that I had not done.

When I was sick and hung the bottle, I was so miserable that I couldn't breathe, and I felt like I was going to die......

I didn't move a word about my summer vacation homework, and I didn't start making it up until the last night, and I didn't finish it until the next morning, and the teacher checked the homework for the last second before I finished it.

When I was in elementary school, when I was in physical education class, the teacher told me to go to the equipment room to pick up the equipment, but unfortunately I didn't stop when I was holding something, and my head hit the shelf, and I fainted, and I almost didn't wake up, and now I still have a scar on the back of my head after stitches.

Being joked about by classmates. He slammed his neck. At that moment, I felt infinitely close to death.

Once I was injured in my leg, and when I was infusion after stitches, I couldn't breathe, and there was no one around at the time, and the doctor who called later said that it would be dangerous if I was allergic to drugs a little later.

When I was drowning, I choked on my nose and couldn't breathe with my head exposed, but there was no second person nearby. That fear really felt like it was almost over.

When you are separated from your parents, when you want to be separated from your wife and children, when you have broken dreams, and when you say "no" to your crush.

When he was about to die, there was no hope of life, his breath was balanced, his thoughts fluctuated, and he could not perceive the outside world.

When I got a B in the exam, I felt like the mixed doubles was going to beat me ......

The vertical roller coaster in Chimelong Paradise I went to a few days ago is simply the king of world-class roller coasters, with a drop of 80 meters between the roller coaster and the ground, nearly 26 stories high, and the real experience of being close to death has been sitting.

At the moment of the accident, when the car rolled, I kept repeating only one word in my head: It's over, it's over, it's over, it's over

When I was very young, I once went to the mountains to pick wild star fruit. Falling off the mountain. The moment I fell, I felt that I was unwilling, was this life over?

When your relative person dies, right next to you, and you look back at him without temperature but still looking like he did yesterday, you will feel that you are infinitely close to death. However, the people you love are really out of reach of you. You don't know, what death is, you just know, you lose the person who loves you, the person you love.

When you love someone for 10 years, suddenly because of one thing triggers an infinite number of things, and then every time something happens, he tells you this.

Rong is the last thing, there is nothing else, as a result, you know one every few days, and the cruelest thing is that it is still the ...... that others tell youThat feeling of distress is the feeling of approaching death.

One day at noon, after taking a nap, I crossed the road in a trance, and a car drove straight towards me, I forgot to react, and the moment of holding my breath was very close to death.

Once, it was me, and I fell into the ventilation duct. At the time, I thought I might not survive, but then I was rescued, and when I was inside, I thought I might not survive. But in the end, he was rescued.